i met this girl and immediately liked her so i sent her a poem as a secret admirer through e-mail. i didn't know her well at all but i really liked her writing on myspace. she really liked the poem i sent and said she wanted to know who i was. so finally i told her. now, she knows i like her and wants to get to know me to see if she has the same feelings, but i can't stop thinking she is only being nice and secretly thinks i'm a stalker/creep? even though i want to get to know her, i avoid her so she doesn't think i'm stalking her. how do i get over the feeling of being a creep? we have talked a few times now and she says i make her feel incredible inside, but i still think she is just too nice.
2006-11-18 20:54:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I thought a guy were a stalker I wouldnt tell him that he makes me feel incredible inside, trust me, I would be making that incredible sprint to run as far away as possible, or else ignore the guy completely.
It looks like she likes you, so just give it a go :)
Good luck! ^_^
2006-11-18 21:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, didn't she just say that you make her feel incredible? I mean, really, if I would say that to a guy it would really mean I like him. You need to get over this feeling. If she thought you were a stalker or creepy, I'd think she'd be avoiding you now not wanting to get to know you more and telling you you make her feel incredible. I think you're just being paranoid because of the way you told her about your feelings. Get over it, really. But if it would make you feel better, ask her if she thinks you're a stalker. You're not a stalker, are you? Then why are you so paranoid? Just breathe a little, chill and enjoy that she's returning your hm... affection? Yeah.
2006-11-18 21:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are normal.
You entered into a place that #1 you are not comfortable with, and #2 you as a result, feel like a stalker....
Not good.
I personally do not like myspace when It come to this.
There are better ways of meeting people.
Myspace is great for music... but can you see how this makes you feel? Of course you can.
Meeting people, in this case girls, is so much better....
face to face. So many thoughts, emotions, feelings can be expressed this way... without the BS of computers, cell phones text messages, etc.
It was so much better in my day.... without this crap.
I'm so amazed that I can even say this...
I sound like my parents!
Good luck my friend.
2006-11-18 21:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont push it dude,i know that love is hard to resist but be patient and dont scare her off with ur exessive feelings,invite her out to do an activity together,and show her the real you. Some girls,including me,like to be good friends with their boyfriends,and too much romance at the beginning can seem a bit suspicious..Good Luck
2006-11-18 21:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lucifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you already talked to her a couple of times, then u shouldn't have this feeling, u could feel this way if she was avoiding you then something is up, but it looks that she likes or in other words interested to get to know you, so give it a chance and be your self if you really want her and see how it works out.
2006-11-18 20:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by stranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you feeling guilty? listen you made a move good job, now she sad she likes you, so ask her on a date but nothing to fancy you don't want to over due it. give her the i want you stare but don't make it to noticeable you have to let her know your there but not up in her face. and what ever you do, don't act like your scared of her, it sounds like she wants a man, not a boy. just relax and breath, and good luck.
2006-11-18 21:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry yaar
i guess even she likes you
so jsut meet her and tell her evrything
She is a good girl she will understand if your feelings are true
2006-11-18 21:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I blame the law/media...theres this girl I like but theres so many obstacles in the way and the media make you feel so guilty that it sux...I say we take a stand...
2006-11-18 20:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a girl say like that,she really meant it because a girl never lie when it comes to boys..they always tell the truth : )
2006-11-18 20:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to forget about her just sign up or do thing taht makes sure you can forget about her or join some activities.....good luck
2006-11-18 20:59:45 · answer #10 · answered by eduard g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋