No i am not a single mum yet (problems) just curious as there are genuine single mum and dads out there who are single due to circmustances they couldnt help, widowed,partner didnt want to know i,e
2006-11-18 22:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by jules 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its because some young girls have babies because they dont want to work and they get money for it. While everyone else have to work and they get to stay at home and get payed for it.I think single mums have it so hard, I also think that young mums have it so hard because I think about how I can go out when I like but they cant and that they cant act like their age because they got a baby.
2006-11-19 00:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by xx angel 3m xx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't why society give single mums a hard time. I think people who do give single mums a hard time should be ashamed of them selfs.
2006-11-19 00:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause society is full of mindless idiots .. who like school bullies pick on other people (they see as less fortunate) to make themselves feel better.
Its usually the ones just above the barrel themselves as You never hear of high earners or the very rich complaining about single mums.
Dr Bad
2006-11-19 01:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
married people are also given a hard time. married is a social jail mate. i am single and do not wish to be married. i have been with my partner for nearly 6 years and i have turned him down for countless occassions. being single is a free world, you are not tied down by any threatening family members of the male counterparts, nor have you any commitments waiting for you when you arrive home. i tell my partner off when he wants to rule me. i am free as a bird and i do what i want.
good luck
2006-11-18 23:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by nyango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont get a hard time, They are often rightly symphasised upon and the government take that they are a single mother into account when giving allowence and benefits.
2006-11-18 22:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by James L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most single mums are genuine...there a rogue few like anything else...i am a single mum...i work damn hard dont claim any benefits bar tax credits as i work part time/low wage etc...people have told me i would be better off if i didnt work at all but i want to set a decent example for my kids to work hard and try for everything they want in life...people slate single mums because they see one news headline and stereotype everyone...silly but thats how the flock think...i wish you luck for your impending circumstance changes...;0)
2006-11-18 22:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Not all single parents are looked on like that. There are many that I admire. However there are also the ones who carry on like they havent got kids half the time and the other half they spend at the social pleading poverty and using the kids to get cash - they re the ones I despise !!!!
2016-05-22 02:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess because alot of these women are irresponsible, going into motherhood and relationships lightly..... clearly if they are widowed like a friend of mine, then they wouldn't be in the same category.
2006-11-18 23:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Stripper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was a single mom and things happen that you can't change but now i am very happy and in love with another man who is every thing to me so no society hasn't really judged me to harshly.Or i probably wouldn't have found him.
2006-11-18 22:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by Mary Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can only give you a hard time if you let them x
2006-11-18 23:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋