Singles & Dating - 18 November 2006

there is this guy who i love but i am not in love with, we have been friends for 3 years now, and i think i might be falling for him. His name is Daniel. but this guy i have loved for 5 years has come back in to the picture. his name is Brian and we dated in the past. now i live 22 hours away from him but i am still completely and totally in love with him. and i have never stopped loving him. it has been 5 years and we still feel the same for each other. if the distance wasnt there, we would most definately be together. but at the same time daniel is a really great guy. he talks about getting married and buying me a house. im not sure what to do in this situation. i feel like i am in love with 2 people at once but im not sure if it is possible. plus i dont want to live my life always asking what if and regretting my decision if i dont take my chances with Brian. either way someone gets hurt. i am so confused. is it possible to love 2 people at once?

2006-11-18 20:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2

My friend is asking.

2006-11-18 20:38:52 · 9 answers · asked by chinnivanaja 1

is huge and great, and that we should stay at my apartment instead bc i dint want his father to be at our house and visit whenever he wants cause he has his own key at the house they live in??i want privacy in my life but how can i convince him?

2006-11-18 20:37:01 · 11 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1

lately my bf says he doesn want me to visit bc his dad will go and live with him permenantly bc is is a huge house and my bf cannot afford it, and if his dad sees me in the house he will want his gf to move along as well. i dont believe him and i think he is avoiding me.what do you think.

2006-11-18 20:33:47 · 13 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1

Just checking to see if I'm the lonliest adult left in the world.

2006-11-18 20:32:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was thinking about opening a gay bar & calling it the mens room.
In this place the whole joint will be a giant bathroom which would mean more man on man action for every body.

What do you think?

2006-11-18 20:28:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Looking for a mate is there a such thing a perfectly equal? I see people sell out to marriages to people weaker than themselves and others striving to keep the approval of their stronger mate.

2006-11-18 20:28:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a bf whom i have a friendship from last 3 years nd this 17 nov 3 years gets completed. 2-3days before my friend whose bf is my bf's friend told me that he has a relation with some other girl. she told me that she had seen him with her own eyes may be he just want that which i never give him.But when i asked my bf he simply say no nd on 17 he call that girl nd say me that u can ask her bt she also say no nd said that she already have a bf then y she need him but from her face it seems that she is telling a lie. After that i say to my bf that i dont want 2 continue it more. Pls tell me that am i right? Although i have told him for break up but i am not able to forget him. Pls answer me sincerely.

2006-11-18 20:24:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex came up for a holiday and promised to see me but he didnt! BUT while he was up he had time to go see my old best friend (that he HATES more than anything). He sat there with her and a couple of his mates and told them all how he had never loved anyone the way he did me! He even tried looking for my number(which he had). apparently he rung heaps of people! Then he slept with my ex best friend.

What should i do to both of them?
I CANT just leave it!

Thanx ;-)

2006-11-18 20:18:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 20:08:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know how or the best way to approach this, from a girls point of view and male point of view. She is gorgeous from her head to her toes and she is also a equal when it comes to positions at work. i just want to bend her over my desk and.................how do i make this happen help me out!

2006-11-18 20:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i shy around him and he shy around me too

2006-11-18 19:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do guys stand girls up then not to mention no phone call is it they are just not intio u why do they have to stand you up instead just say you got something to do i mean anything but i guess men will always be jerks i guess us ladies should get the hint

2006-11-18 19:52:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wonder if people can notice it...

2006-11-18 19:51:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i are getting along great I love and enjoy everything we've done together,but a close friend of mine who always tells me when he thinks someone is wrong for me,,Has currently told me he don't foresee this relationship working out..He also said that he thinks this guy is just using me..But my boyfriend asks me for nothing he just wants to spend time with me...I care a great deal about him, but i'm not wanting to get hurt again..I deserve happiness and bliss,as well as a man who treats me good and who's willing to except me for me.... i want things to work out between us too but could my friend be right?? I have no idea what the future holds everything show it's wonderful but in past relationships i thought the same, and it didn't work out...This shows different in all aspects..Hopefully i picked a good one this time I'm truely happy with him!!!

2006-11-18 19:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by Shawty 3

my boyfriend has recently taken up another job, he works everyday of the week sometimes up to 70 hrs.
anyway, we are only seeing eachother for a maximum of 2 days a week due to him working and myself also working.
its realy hard on us not being able to see eachother...
does anyone have any advice on how to get through something like this? anyone else who has been in a similar position with their boyfriend/husband....
anything would be great. sometimes i find it hard to cope without seeing him.....
thanks

2006-11-18 19:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by Laura 2

2006-11-18 19:44:58 · 4 answers · asked by inquisitive 1

Hi all, I have a colleague who stares at me everytime I move around his place..I can make out that He controls himself but finally gets tempted to look at me...He looks and looks at me from every angle!!!And if I smile at him he gives me a relaxing and a confident smile...and starts breathing normally from then on...My God! I am bugged up...I dont know whats going on with him?Please tell me why is he doing this? and how do I react to this? When I try to talk to him He shows a little attitude also!!!!!!

2006-11-18 19:43:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 19:43:32 · 12 answers · asked by prettypueo1812 2

I really like this girl and one day my friend gave me note which said would u go out with me and had the girl that I liked name on it. I said yes and he said it was joke and told my rest of my friends. What should I think about all this.

2006-11-18 19:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by Joho 7

At school, one of the dining attendants and I flirt. I think she is attractive. The only drawback is she is not college educated and I wouldnt consider her a potential girlfriend. But by asking her out to only get in her bed, would I be considered scum?

2006-11-18 19:40:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The other day I was asking someone why it is that I am always getting so hung up and attached to guys that I have just met and like. The person told me it was probably because when I was young I would cling to a man and use it as a defense mechanism to get out of my problems. I thought about it and it made since because if I was ever upset I would always run to my papa to save me. Now it has carried over into adulthood. I guess I am looking for a white knight,someone to save me,a wonderwall I guess you'd call it. It's like I meet certain types of guys I click with and I get attached to them too quickly. It's almost always the ones with the bad boy type image. Also I have the urge to take care of them and nurture them. What the piss is wrong with me? When will I get my head out of the clouds?

2006-11-18 19:40:03 · 1 answers · asked by So'sYerFace 4

would be offened if you said to your boyfriend or girlfriend oh its too bad we can't spend thanksgiving together...and then he said..."yeah I know,but thanksgiving is for family."

2006-11-18 19:36:08 · 25 answers · asked by thereis 3

my boyfriend and I are not fighting. he called me in the beginning of the week to ask me how my work week was. now he hasnt called me since. I dont want to call him because i dont want to be all over him. is he testing me to see if I can respect his space?

2006-11-18 19:30:11 · 17 answers · asked by 1212 2

Hi, this would be probably a silly question, but i'm feeling so lonley and depressed these days...
everyone else around me seems to have someone that they can lean on..as in having a bf or gf...
i'm turning 20 early next yr, and i'm just embarassed and ashamed that i haven't dated a single girl coming to this age...i know i shoudn't be but i cannot help myself being in this sort of mood..

I know this is a silly question...but ppl plz help.. ; S

2006-11-18 19:29:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

if girl showing her well pedicured, polished feet, Does it means she wants u to touch them or kiss them or praise them?

2006-11-18 19:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by clinica4002 1

If you liked your sisters best friend who was 17 and you were 19, what would you do if she was spening the night and she and your sister went downstairs (where your TV/bedroom is at) and she was wearing little tiny shorts? would you feel uncomfortable?

2006-11-18 19:25:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are naturally bald guys sexy?
I find that most of the smart ones are...

2006-11-18 19:23:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

You fell in love with a girl who you shouldnt have because of her heritage.You normally would just play women but her you would treat as gold.She broke up with you with a text and left on vacation.You havent seen her for a month and then she appears everywhere.You give her an attitude send her dirty messages,looks, blow smoke in her face,make out with hundred of girls everynight,smokes(not just ciggaretes),drinks and his friends stopped talking to you.Are you happier?Because,she left him because she loved him and thought it would be best.Do you still love her or was it a phase?Please explain yourself.

2006-11-18 19:20:29 · 15 answers · asked by kat 2

heard him tell other people hed do anything for them but never that he loves them, and he said it to me once in front of everyone. what does that mean

2006-11-18 19:18:20 · 12 answers · asked by boo 1