lately my bf says he doesn want me to visit bc his dad will go and live with him permenantly bc is is a huge house and my bf cannot afford it, and if his dad sees me in the house he will want his gf to move along as well. i dont believe him and i think he is avoiding me.what do you think.
2006-11-18 20:33:47 · 13 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already know you're answer. If it's your bf's house and the father moves in it would still be your bf's house and father doesn't have the right to just move her in. I don't see the connection of you staying over a few nights to the father wanting his gf to move in .Maybe he's got another girl.
2006-11-18 20:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there might be some truth to what your b/f is saying but then again he might just be feeding you crap maybe you broke the rule for the size limit on over night bags its kinda like the airports for a carry on bag if a woman is going to stay just one night she dont need to bring a damn suitcase with half a dozen changes of clothes
2006-11-18 20:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by dvnhrld2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to the truth and when you do, decide. If it is obvious he is avoiding you, then there is no choice but to move on. There are still many fishes in the ocean. I know you will be able to get someone more deserving.
2006-11-18 20:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i think i would spy on him... u know.. call him when u know he is home and see if he doesnt pick up.. then call his cell... and if he picks that up and says that he isnt home.. u know he is a liar... if the house is his, he should 100% be able to tell his dad "NO U CAN NOT HAVE UR GIRLFRIEND LIVING HERE" becuase it is his house... but uhh yeah.. why buy a house u knwo u cant afford... girl i think the game is played... and u should move on to someone who is honest
2006-11-18 20:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by red.one9luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's telling the truth. don't take it as rejection but as your boyfriend being honest about something in his life especially his family life. find a way around the problem, and just remember don't ever sound like your trying to bring down his father son relationship because that's a no no.
2006-11-18 20:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he plans on letting his dad have complete control over his life or he's feeding you a line of BS a mile long.
2006-11-18 20:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really cant say anything.
God knows better
what he has in his mind and heart
Try to find out some way
2006-11-18 20:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i myself is confused. sorry dont know. just all the best is what i can say to u
2006-11-18 20:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if you can just sneak in and if he says no in a weird way, then it seems like he's lying :- /
2006-11-18 20:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by bonto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is being dishonest with you and you should just leave him.
2006-11-18 20:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋