my boyfriend and I are not fighting. he called me in the beginning of the week to ask me how my work week was. now he hasnt called me since. I dont want to call him because i dont want to be all over him. is he testing me to see if I can respect his space?
2006-11-18 19:30:11 · 17 answers · asked by 1212 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesnt sound like he is testing you, but if he is the type that would test you and your his girlfriend i can tell you this much the relationship isnt going far, why would anybody want to test the one there dating or the one they love ? However you can still call him once a week or twice a week and still be giving him space. And if he says anything about testing you or that he has or whatever, you tell him that your relationship is not about testing each other its about being with each other and that if he wants to continue testing you that you dont think its going to work out. If he agrees with you that its not right for him to be "testing" you than you two should be just fine and there is nothing to worry about but if he denys that and says stuff like i need to test you to see how far things can go and such and such than you know that he is pushing you away. Just remember this isnt a class and your not a student this is a relationship and your his girlfriend. Good Luck
2006-11-19 05:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your boyfriend. I don't see any reason why you can't call him when ever you feel the need to talk. Maybe he feels that you should call him sometimes too if you care about him. It has to be mutual. Most of all, you must ask him this. Be direct. Talking out things that you expect out of each other is the only way your relationship can last. Good luck.
2006-11-19 03:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by haithere_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, He's not testing you at all. Respecting someone's space is really a bullshit because your in a relationship. Your suppose to check on each other once in a while and there's should be love and honesty in what ever you want to do. "respecting one's space" would just be an obstacle to showing you care and you love the guy.
2006-11-19 03:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel Ira L. Cuevas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.....he is not testing you or pushing you away. You are a beautiful woman and he doesn't know how to handle a woman like you. What you need is a mature person who respects you for who you are and not a child who thinks he can get away with treating you like a dog.
As far as space goes...it's an excuse by guys who want to see other women and get away with it. Trust your instincts....you deserve better. Good Luck.
2006-11-19 03:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by Iphul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He s probably to bussy or he forgets to call you it s ok to call him but just not a lot of time call him about every week or 2 ask him why he didn t call you he s not teasing you tell him what he be up do. or you could call him everyday if you want.
2006-11-19 03:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
CALL HIM!!! comunication is essential in a relationship!! don't ever forget that. If He hasn't called you maybe he's doing something wrong or pushing you away! ask him, talk to him, you don't need to be breaking your head..grab the phone...my bf used to do that a lot until I discovered that He was cheating on me!!! :(
2006-11-19 03:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
now for me if you called me like once a day. thats aight but it only be nagging when you call every hour on the hour talking about nothing. to call someone to see how there day is going is aight just have something to talk about.
2006-11-19 03:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by tribal811 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'M sure it's not a test,but it's good that the two of you give each other there space.
2006-11-19 03:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
men are not that "deep".
Just call him.
If he didnt want you to contact him, he would tell you.
The fact he called to see how you are doing shows he's interested...he's probably wondering why you havent called him yet.
2006-11-19 03:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should have called him
2006-11-19 03:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by neGlected cHild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋