there is this guy who i love but i am not in love with, we have been friends for 3 years now, and i think i might be falling for him. His name is Daniel. but this guy i have loved for 5 years has come back in to the picture. his name is Brian and we dated in the past. now i live 22 hours away from him but i am still completely and totally in love with him. and i have never stopped loving him. it has been 5 years and we still feel the same for each other. if the distance wasnt there, we would most definately be together. but at the same time daniel is a really great guy. he talks about getting married and buying me a house. im not sure what to do in this situation. i feel like i am in love with 2 people at once but im not sure if it is possible. plus i dont want to live my life always asking what if and regretting my decision if i dont take my chances with Brian. either way someone gets hurt. i am so confused. is it possible to love 2 people at once?
2006-11-18 20:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should ask yourself , is it fair to both Daniel & brian , are you after monatery things or do you want love , does Brian really feel the same for you or is he playing you , here's a man (Daniel) willing to give you his life , marry you , buy a house , I think if Brian loved you he would be there or he would find a way to have you there , Love is not about the good times , it's about the way you treat each other durring the bad times , and romance is not a place , but who you are with , there's a reason why you are not with Brain , can you remember why , I think Daniel would aready be hurt if he knew , so are you being fair to him , my answer is no! , and I think you are playing them and it is wrong ....
2006-11-18 21:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is the most precious thing in this world yeah it is so possible to love two at a time love has no limit but think again would it fair be for the 2 u love at same time what would u do if ur boyfriengd or girlfriend would do the same with u my suggetion would be plz be true and licen to ur heart and choose between daniel and brian
2006-11-18 20:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by nomad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can FEEL love for two people at the same time, but love is not just a feeling, it is a choice. Anyone who is in a steady relationship can still feel some love for someone else, and you don't go blind just cause you get married, but you choose to love and be with that one person.
2006-11-18 20:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 03:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were really in love with either one of them, this wouldn't be a question. You sound selfish and slightly confused to me.
Is it the promise of a house for free that's the issue here?
Be careful, it sounds like you might be the one to get hurt in the end.
That's probably not an option you had considered though, is it?
2006-11-18 20:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by letem haveit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it's possible to love 2 or more people at the same time.. don't you love ur whole family and friends? you can love people but with different intensity.. given that you love them both but there is one that you love more and choose the person that you love more..
Good luck girl!
2006-11-18 20:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it is possible but it is also a very large burden to have on your heart! so where does your heart lie...with daniel or brian??
but more importantly who is better for you as a whole coz baby gal you cant give yourself completely to one person if your eyes and heart are wondering else where.
goodluck...hope all goes well.
2006-11-18 20:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by WESTIE GURL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely, there is no limit on love....what you're facing is a moral dilema, not a question of is it possible to love 2 people at the same time? More is it fair to them and to yourself???
2006-11-18 20:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. I could love two people at the same time and talk about how I would fix the U.S. if I were you.
2006-11-19 00:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you do that?Love should be original and unique.You should select the best out of the given alternatives.Good Luck.
2006-11-18 20:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sct2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋