At school, one of the dining attendants and I flirt. I think she is attractive. The only drawback is she is not college educated and I wouldnt consider her a potential girlfriend. But by asking her out to only get in her bed, would I be considered scum?
2006-11-18 19:40:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, you would be. Don't judge her based on her profession. I probably wouldn't go for a lunch lady, but don't sleep with her if you just want to use her. I think that you wouldn't be asking this question if you didn't feel guilty.
2006-11-18 19:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Meg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need us to tell you that you'd be scum? You are dealing with a human being that has a heart that can break just like yours. You are looking for trouble because if she works in the dining room and she has a broken heart and a mean streak, you may just be eating food thats mixed with her spit or something else for however long she feels vengeful. Maybe if you do screw her over then perhaps you'd deserve whatever you get back from her and for that I wish you all the best.
2006-11-19 07:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by dirkthesmirk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you would be scum if that's all you want from her. Why does it matter if she's college educated or not? If she's a great person and you are both attracted to each other it should not matter what kind of education one has. You could be missing out on a wonderfull person.
2006-11-19 03:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by tracey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that's awful! Just because she doesn't have an education doesn't mean she doesn't deserve a real relationship! Who knows, she may be a wonderful person. You could be missing out on something great all over some stupid little thing like college education. Geez! What has the world come to!
2006-11-19 03:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by So'sYerFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not find you sexually attractive...It's possible that she is just flirting back for fun...Pay someone for it,if all you want is a toss...seems to me that would be kinder, and if you are too shallow to look beyond that and into a persons heart,maybe you should not be getting into bed with anyone.
2006-11-19 03:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she's only looking for a one-night stand as well. See what kind of personality she has and what she wants in a relationship. If she wants something more, i suggest you stop this chase.
2006-11-19 03:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by nightflowerphil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell her you are not looking for a relationship. If she still wants to go out with you than she probably just wants to get laid. Just don't trick her- just have good communications and let her know what you want.
2006-11-19 04:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by manpalda s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation once but it was the other way around she told me that she didn't want a serious relationship but she told me before hand. we have been together ever sense(ten years) so if your not looking for a long term relationship you may be surprised
2006-11-19 04:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by dclaire57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it might be considered mean of you to toy with her feelings like that
2006-11-19 03:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sex is something great between two so if there is no feelings there then it isn't worth having.
2006-11-19 03:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by donna_brown806 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋