i have a bf whom i have a friendship from last 3 years nd this 17 nov 3 years gets completed. 2-3days before my friend whose bf is my bf's friend told me that he has a relation with some other girl. she told me that she had seen him with her own eyes may be he just want that which i never give him.But when i asked my bf he simply say no nd on 17 he call that girl nd say me that u can ask her bt she also say no nd said that she already have a bf then y she need him but from her face it seems that she is telling a lie. After that i say to my bf that i dont want 2 continue it more. Pls tell me that am i right? Although i have told him for break up but i am not able to forget him. Pls answer me sincerely.
2006-11-18 20:24:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to edit this, i dont know whats going on
2006-11-18 20:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by KitKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you talk to that girl on your own without your bf and ask her that can she think of any reason for the rumors that are going around about her and your bf being an item and that you would really be grateful to her if she could help you out to sort out your feelings and put your mind at peace because you don't know which way to take. Ask her that if she can just help you to save yourself just a little of the burning pain you have right now, you will be grateful to her. Perhaps, she can help you out with the truth.
2006-11-19 10:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love is nothing. To be loved is some thing. To love and to be loved is every thing. What are the expectations of each other. Is it being fulfilled. Attraction about opposit sex is usual. Mare walking or talking with some one else sould not be the base of doubt. It does not meen that he is loving or trying to explore her sexualy. If you don't like some act you can tell. Ringe your past life and plan for future. No one can guarantee the loyalty of your second, third or fourth bf. Perhaps, you can keep close visilance around your bf for some time.
2006-11-27 04:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by shubhankar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many people who always try to make fight between two peoples , so use your own brain. go directly to that girl who so told have a relationship with ur bf nd ask him and u tell him ur a girl if u want that my life should not become a hell then plz tell me truth ! and make him say. thats it ur work is done nd u will get everyanswer of ur everyquestion
be brave!
2006-11-25 03:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by abhinav v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on is the thing that i will suggest you. you know that he was lying to you ,then why do you want to know whether you are right or wrong. ofcourse you are right. infact by directly saying you did the best thing. no girl or boy will tolerate any boy or girl in their life if he\she truly loves his/her beloved. and you remember him because you are recalling the great and nice memories which you spent with him thinking that he just loves you and only you ., but you are wrong when you remember so and miss him because when there were times when you and your boyfrnd were together at that time he was just taking a mere advantage of your innocence. he was going around with other girl too of which you didnt knew. and what gurantee that he is not going around with other 4 to 5 more girls. and top of that your trust on him is now no more so even if you will get back to him, you wont be able to regain the trust you used to have earlier and then again misunderstandings will arise and then again you will be hurted. so just move on as the best one who loves you truely is waiting for you to come in his life. try to forget that loser who cheated you in the name of love. my wishes are with you. all the best.
2006-11-19 05:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though you already know the answer:always trust your heart. It is better to err on the side of caution. There are so many diseases out there aside from the emotional turmoil you'd go through to continue the relationship. It's not worth it.
2006-11-19 04:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by eyeluv2ndulge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to ask ur bf to tell the truth, if u think he's lying and u cant move on from that, get out of the relationship.. Its not worth it.. u'll find someone else, and they will be better ;)
2006-11-19 04:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure he is lying to you and you have proof that the other girl is lying to you too then I'm sorry to say that you need to forget your boyfriend. Move on. There are many more guys out there who will truly appreciate your good qualities, such as your honesty and loyalty.
2006-11-19 04:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by augustine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...dude...its better u just forget the whole thing cos all u see can't be true...n as he is saying that there's nothing like that...then just make sure that he remain with u ...if u really want him to be with u...trust him if he's worth ....n as he has been ur frnd for last 3 yrs...i think he wont mind in break up n continue asfrnd...its better u be ONLY as his FRND!!
2006-11-25 02:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by P.D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
If ur BF roams with another girl means....you have done the mistake...u have not spend enough time with him....allocate some time and spend the time with him....Speak about his style, driving, even simple things....while chatting...never discourage ur bf....make sure u r the best for him....try to find what r all the ways to keep ur bf ....and then move....
vim
2006-11-19 05:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't trust him enough. If you don't then love would not be able to survive. Move on . Time will heal your wound. It always does don't worry. You are still young, eventually you will be meeting the man of your dreams, I am certain.
2006-11-19 04:40:54 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋