Find something else to do, study something. Don't go into the girl searching thing desperate. Try volunteering.
2006-11-18 19:32:20
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answered by Mick 3
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I'm in this situation myself, though I'm not tooo depressed... but I'm also turning 20 early next year and I haven't really been on a date persay yet. I've gone out with girls at times, but they never go into it wanting to get with me (more like friends).
The best thing you can do is find other things to live for in life, and hopefully find an activity you're passionate about. Through that you can meet girls and maybe hit it off with one of 'em, since you share an interest.
Also talk with them, and act like ur interested in THEM, ask questions, stuff like that..
In all honesty I have trouble with this stuff too. I go through every day hoping things will turn out alright, and I catch myself doubting a good outcome sometimes...
you just gotta stick it out and be satisfied with what you have. I think both of us will find what we seek, and fit the mold of a dude with a car, a job, and a girl... and we'll look back and wonder why we ever felt the way we did.
2006-11-18 20:05:38
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answered by djdep13 2
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You can be surrounded by people and feel lonely. What you have to do is take all the things you have in life and appreciate them. Dont spend your time feeling alone when you could be out with friends and meeting someone. The time will come when you find someone that you will date. Your right you cant help how you feel but you can do something to change it. Go out, have fun and who knows maybe when you arent looking for a girl the right one will show up. Good luck.
2006-11-18 19:33:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Everyone goes through that feeling at some point. You may want to consider yourself lucky. At 20, you shouldn't want to be settled down with just one mate. If you're in college, there are many groups that you can join. You should be able to meet new people that way. Or if you have a job, maybe you have a co-worker that you could hang out with on a "just friends" basis. Get out and have fun.
2006-11-18 19:46:02
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answered by Kaycee 2
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It's not silly. I think you should get a couple of guy friends and go out to a party or dance club or something and meet some ladies. Have confidence in yourself because confidence is sexy and make sure you smell nice, I love the smell of a freshly showered man with hair gel and a splash of nice smelling cologne(armani code by giorgio armani, good stuff, my boyfriend has it, I love it). Be polite and introduce yourself to all the pretty girls and if one seems interested ask her on a date or get her number! Good luck!
2006-11-18 19:37:19
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answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6
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Never a silly question because you have the reason to feel lonely and depressed...Do things which will help you address this feelings by joining any sports or clubs which will give you the opportunity to meet new friends of the opposite sex...Goodluck!!!
2006-11-18 19:35:47
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answered by chona a 4
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yeah you should study something like go to college if your not. if you don't either become close friends with a girl there or date one. then you might need a make over. Try dressing to impress. greetings smiles and open doors always help. they remember that.
2006-11-18 19:39:43
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answered by tribal811 2
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it aint a silly question hey its serious i think but hey if ya that worried than go out and meet new people ya never know ya might even meet someone ya got a lot in common with
2006-11-18 19:31:24
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answered by Anonymous
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this problem not nly n u but seen in most of 17--22 age guys........bt you had the guds to ask like ths.....try to be company with new friends wherever you go,who knw zat luck will come from where!!.i m sure you will get one...all the best
2006-11-18 20:08:20
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answered by munaiz 1
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hardly considering that I realized to communicate with human beings i do not comprehend. I also had to coach myself now to not evaluate others, now to not p.c.. out the proper searching human beings to communicate with at the same time as ignoring the try, and to ascertain broadly so as that i ought to have something to say to human beings.
2016-10-16 09:39:16
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answered by forker 4
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