My boyfriend and i are getting along great I love and enjoy everything we've done together,but a close friend of mine who always tells me when he thinks someone is wrong for me,,Has currently told me he don't foresee this relationship working out..He also said that he thinks this guy is just using me..But my boyfriend asks me for nothing he just wants to spend time with me...I care a great deal about him, but i'm not wanting to get hurt again..I deserve happiness and bliss,as well as a man who treats me good and who's willing to except me for me.... i want things to work out between us too but could my friend be right?? I have no idea what the future holds everything show it's wonderful but in past relationships i thought the same, and it didn't work out...This shows different in all aspects..Hopefully i picked a good one this time I'm truely happy with him!!!
2006-11-18 19:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by Shawty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend and i are getting along great I love and enjoy everything we've done together,but a close friend of mine who always tells me when he thinks someone is wrong for me,,Has currently told me he don't foresee this relationship working out..He also said that he thinks this guy is just using me..But my boyfriend asks me for nothing he just wants to spend time with me...I care a great deal about him, but i'm not wanting to get hurt again..I deserve happiness and bliss,as well as a man who treats me good and who's willing to except me for me.... i want things to work out between us too but could my friend be right?? I have no idea what the future holds everything show it's wonderful but in past relationships i thought the same, and it didn't work out...This shows different in all aspects..Hopefully i picked a good one this time I'm truely happy with him!!!
My friend is a girl and I feel that his relatioship isn't healthy is see how he is with his girlfriend!
2006-11-18 20:02:12 · update #1
I believe and know in my heart (cause i've seen) that there are good non-cheating, non-abusive, well rounded men...Not all men (women for that matter) are the same..Some really were raised right and have proper up brings and know how to treat a women...
2006-11-18 20:12:33 · update #2
" Love could not live where there's no respect and trust ...and vice-versa." If you want this relationship to go a long way and succeed then try to trust your boyfriend without any reservation. Don't listen to what other people say...be it your immediate family...bestfriend or whoever. You alone knows your boyfriend...what and who he is to you. And don't you ever compare your present with your past...move on...Good luck and give yourself and boyfriend your best shot. Okey?
2006-11-18 20:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be the one to tell you this but there is no such thing as a good guy.Men don 't no how to be good they really don't.I have been married three different times and each one was good for a few years.My third husband was good for 15 years as far as I no.Everything I no and read say the same thing men cheat and that's the way it is.
2006-11-18 20:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this friend a guy or a girl,and are they currently in a healthy relationship of their own?
Think about it....
2006-11-18 19:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him and your getting on well, wotz ur problem??? why think about the past, and it sounz like you listen to your friend more than your boyfriend, it sounz like your friend is in love with you or he is jealous of you being happy.
2006-11-18 22:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your happiness and ask your friend why he says what he does.
2006-11-18 19:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋