Singles & Dating - 18 November 2006

Do it when you're in love, just for fun, it's a spiritual thing, just bodily, can be different things to different people/at different times, what?

2006-11-18 01:27:49 · 31 answers · asked by lady_s_hazy 3

...but we still go out together, have a laugh, and make love, but on the understanding that the physical side of our relationship would stop immediately if either of us met someone.
My question is, is this a really unusual relationship we have?

2006-11-18 01:27:47 · 15 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

Whenever im with guys, and i develop a relationship with them, theres always something in the back of my mind, would i ever marry him! Please tell me you girls know what im saying :P

2006-11-18 01:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by sarah4everlover 1

Whenever im with guys, and i develop a relationship with them, theres always something in the back of my mind, would i ever marry him! Please tell me you girls know what im saying :P

2006-11-18 01:26:06 · 5 answers · asked by sarah4everlover 1

What does it mean when you refer to a woman as your lover?

2006-11-18 01:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by sassy2006 2

What do you do if another woman "likes" your man and won't stop flirting with him? You know that she doesn't have a chance because he loves you, but it is aggravating to watch her try so pitifully to get attention. Should I try to tell her to back off?

2006-11-18 01:23:38 · 12 answers · asked by rini17331 1

what is homeostasis

2006-11-18 01:23:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like know if looks are all that important when u meet a nice girl? I mean of course she has a nice personality But lets just say her teeth aren't all that perfect but she has a pair of dimples to take away from it. I am just talking along that line. Please answer honestly!

2006-11-18 01:22:00 · 12 answers · asked by Dan 2

I believe that children under the age of 18 should not be allowed on this site. What do you think?

2006-11-18 01:19:47 · 17 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3

2006-11-18 01:19:03 · 14 answers · asked by prdnanny4evr 1

I like a guy named David.But, I helped my friend get him.instead of me getting him.i like him.but,y friend likes him 2.she said she has liked him for ALONG time.But,she hasn't.she is my best friend.she said if i take him,SHE WILL PUNCH ME IN THE FACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What do I do????????????????????????????i like him more than her,but she is happy with him!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-18 01:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by Melanie J 1

girl problems i like a girl but how do i know she likes me

2006-11-18 01:11:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this woman that is really into my man. She continuously throws herself at him. She gets very depressed when he is "mad" at her. How can you tell someone like this to back off?

2006-11-18 01:10:38 · 11 answers · asked by rini17331 1

are you a playa if you go out with someone then like 1 day after you break up...you go out with someone else? and it just kepps goin? or are you a player if you like a guy, go out with them for 3 weeks, dont like them anymore then break up with tthem, then go out with someone that same day? just wondering...

2006-11-18 01:08:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT I THINK HE KNOWS THAT I DON'T TRUST HIM ANY MORE AND ITS PUTTIN A STRAIN ON THE RELATIONSHIP THAT WE HAVE.....SHOULD I LEAVE OR STAY????

2006-11-18 01:07:11 · 14 answers · asked by christel s 1

This girl was my secondary school classmate. We used to know each other only barely. But God knows how many times i peeped at her during lesson instead of looking at the board. However, i was a shy boy (though still is) and the fact is that she had boyfriends one after another THROGHT OUT the teen years. and God know how many times i felt sour and my heart sank whenever i saw her with her guy(s).

During the poly years, i had a girlfriend and she was having a relatively more committed relationship. so my heart was with my girl at the time and hence u can only say that i have been a secret admirer "on-and-off" for 10 years.

OFF, is when i have a gf, my heart have no one else. and even when i'm single, i won't fall for a girl who is attached.

ON, is for the times when we were both unattached. it kind of give me hope bcoz she is available. For the past 10 years, i never take any action for these "on" periods.

For the past 2 months, we kind of reconnect our communication. Bcoz i'm studying in uni now and she is working, we have chance to chat for few hours daily on MSN. (mon-fri working hours only though, coz she don't usually use msn at home)

From recent chats,
she told me that she is now single, and she mentioned that she is not a late-queen for dates nowadays.
And after she know that i used to have one painful and hurtful relationship, she said that ppl have to move on and "if there's a good girl whom u like then give it a try"
She also claims that she only regard herself who had only 2 relationships coz sec sch histores are just childish ones.

We talked a lot rubbish, shared a lot of views, joked a lot and "suan" each other a lot and i feel (or maybe only i feel)that we start to have some connection.

So, last week, i managed to find some courage a said..

"you wrote on my sec sch autograph book that i can call u anytime, so.. can i call u tonight??"

but she replied "lol.. i have a dinner appointment tonight."

I was rather disappointed. I thought, if she doesn't mind me calling she would have state a time or sth.

But soon after, she said "next time we catch up with a movie, after your exam?", "when your exam finish?", "talk is cheap, fix a date now"....

so, our tentative date (or sec sch class monitor-monitress re-union if putting it mildly) is 3 dec!! just 2 days aft my exam. But the point is that we only chat on MSN and have not advanced into phone-talk and constant sms-es.

I keep thinking of her recently. and thinking..
Shd i postpone it? coz i just had a bad haircut.
what shd i say? how shd i behave? will i just blush and panic? is that anything in my walldrode that can match her smile and style? shd i pay for everything? where shd we eat?? It's not like i don't have experience.
Although i had gf before. But this time is different. She is a special person to me. (else i won't admire her for a decade
So now i'm like completely anxious and excited at the same time.

She is a very pretty girl to me. i looked at her that way for the past 10 years. so it's not like i'm saying this coz she is grown up now and having her own fashion taste.

But i have a low esteem of myself. coz i don't think i have the look. and that i'm just a poor student who owes the bank loan of $18k.

The tough point here for me is:
IS there another guys who express interest in her?
DOES she already has someone in mind?
when shd i tell her my feelings? the feelings that have been kept inside me for 10 years?
Should i buy her a present (and say it's christmas present) for that day?
Should i just write a love letter and confess everything? (probably not coz she might freak out)
What shd we do after movie?
OR.. after all, she might actually just take it at friendship level and that i am thinking way too much?

I feel that, sooner or later, i have to confess my feelings for her and give it a try. else i'll only keep thinking of her and suffocate myself.

What shd i do?
1) Taking it easy and naturally? (i think she will be taken by another guy if taking it slowly. coz she is just such a nice girl)
2) Show my feelings soon? (what if she got stunned and don't talk to me even on msn)

I'm so paranoid!! How i wish that behind every girl there is a equation and by solving it, you understand her thoughts and have her loving you!
(haha.. i'm engineering student)

Can ppl out there advice me? Especially girls. I would be glad to hear your opinons. Thanks a lot if u manage to read finish this essay.

2006-11-18 01:05:19 · 17 answers · asked by sp_jimmy 1

i am a 11 years girl. i am very brainy. did not like any boy before but there are many girls who like him. is cool, sexy.
i feel he likes me bcause he has a soft corner towards . im not
sure.should i tell him clearly or start impressing him more.
really i luv him a lot.

2006-11-18 01:04:00 · 3 answers · asked by vaishnavi w 1

2006-11-18 00:59:39 · 5 answers · asked by enjoy:-) 1

2006-11-18 00:57:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

you are recently going thru a bad break-up. so you have a drink and listen to a good sad song, and cry for your ex. and you know they don't cry for you? My song I hear is "Like we Never Loved at All"

2006-11-18 00:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 00:55:50 · 8 answers · asked by shadab 1

i use to love having sex a little too much,but now nothin. it's ruining my relationship fast

2006-11-18 00:51:46 · 18 answers · asked by jen j 1

2006-11-18 00:51:25 · 3 answers · asked by Ricardo 1

2006-11-18 00:51:10 · 17 answers · asked by christel s 1

2006-11-18 00:47:42 · 9 answers · asked by div_wat??? 1

2006-11-18 00:47:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been going with this girl for about 2 years now, we got engaged a year ago! She tells me now that she is unhappy. She wont say it's me that is the whole problem but she "just can't do this anymore" And she needs her space! Well she still lives with me in another room. She was still wearing the ring around me and then takes it off when she leaves the house. I make more money than her and have been paying all the bills since we moved in together about a year and half ago. She doesn't have anywhere to go so I told she can stay with me aslong as she needs to. All she does now is party with her friends and get drunk. I am 27 years old she is 25! I love her very much and she says she loves me. I'm starting to feel a bit used. I would do anything for her, I'm happy to know she is safe! All her friends think she is crazy for leaving me they think i'm a great guy! What should I do?

2006-11-18 00:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by snowcamp4u3 1

I like this one girl and i think that she like's me but i don't what to. so far all i have to said to her is hi and name.

2006-11-18 00:44:43 · 8 answers · asked by darryll w 1

2006-11-18 00:43:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 00:43:38 · 8 answers · asked by mahesh 1