I've been going with this girl for about 2 years now, we got engaged a year ago! She tells me now that she is unhappy. She wont say it's me that is the whole problem but she "just can't do this anymore" And she needs her space! Well she still lives with me in another room. She was still wearing the ring around me and then takes it off when she leaves the house. I make more money than her and have been paying all the bills since we moved in together about a year and half ago. She doesn't have anywhere to go so I told she can stay with me aslong as she needs to. All she does now is party with her friends and get drunk. I am 27 years old she is 25! I love her very much and she says she loves me. I'm starting to feel a bit used. I would do anything for her, I'm happy to know she is safe! All her friends think she is crazy for leaving me they think i'm a great guy! What should I do?
2006-11-18 00:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by snowcamp4u3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I definately think she is using you. I am so sorry that you are in love with someone who does not seem to reciprocate the sentiment. You deserve to be treated much better than this. I would give her a week to get out of my house and tell her it is time to find a new home and a new sugar daddy.
2006-11-18 00:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be irritating about how decision making will be made on your destiny family individuals. If he's not prepared to take heed to and negotiate now, what's going to ensue down the song, even as different subject matters get up (and have self assurance me, they'll)? Your monetary concerns are only as valid as his want to be close to his family individuals, and there needs to be appreciate for the sentiments of both companions. His reviews that the lady could follow the guy and that in case you loved him you'll agree stink of emotional blackmail.
2016-11-25 02:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by barela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from the situation that you are describing i can say that of course she is using you!!!WAKE UP!!! don't let others use you in a way like that!!!but if you love her that much you could just show her that she really needs you after all!! for example you could go out with your friends, meet new girls and do all the stuff she does!!if she gets jealous means she still likes you but if she doesn't you need to go on and try to forget her!!i know how difficult it is but you have to do it!! NEVER LET PEOPLE HURT YOUR FEELINGS AND CONTROL YOUR LIFE!!!
2006-11-18 00:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offense! ur girl is INSANE.
she's using you, after she hurts you she still lives with you. what kind of girl is that and for you, you are such a MARTYR, you know that she doesnt like anymore be a man dude start that single step. MOVE ON! because if you still think of her, you are just killing yourself. Maybe one day she will go with other guys! and worst thing seeing them having sex in your own house.
think dude!
have a nice day!
2006-11-18 00:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by dj_joker03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is totally using you. Give her a couple of weeks to find a place, and then GET RID OF HER. She may say she loves you, but as far as I'm concerned, that's not love.
2006-11-18 00:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shes using u. U need to be strong, take charge of your life. U cant move on if shes there
2006-11-18 01:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find urself another girlfriend; go out with her and have some fun, and tell ur ex to move out and stay w/ one of her partying friends. SHE'S USING U BABY!!
2006-11-18 00:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by ms_diva47 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your getting used BIG TIME. Give her a timeframe to find herself a new place to live and then move on. She's just using you!!
2006-11-18 00:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly, sounds like shes met someone else...especially ifs she wearing the ring around you and taking it off when she leaves....i think you need to get her out and meet someone else, you can do better than her
2006-11-18 00:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by bshelby2121 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r getting screwed lol!
she is using u like bloody hell,cant u see dat already n u have 2 put up dis question?
DUMP HER N GET A NEW GIRLFRND
2006-11-18 00:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by coolashluv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋