I LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT I THINK HE KNOWS THAT I DON'T TRUST HIM ANY MORE AND ITS PUTTIN A STRAIN ON THE RELATIONSHIP THAT WE HAVE.....SHOULD I LEAVE OR STAY????
2006-11-18 01:07:11 · 14 answers · asked by christel s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It'll NEVER work without trust...
2006-11-18 01:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are chained, you can leave. If you don't trust the person, if you have a strained relationship then why torture yourself? You love him so much, I understand that, but staying in a crap relationship becuase of an unquantifiable emotion will only lead to unhappiness down the road. You could always break things off and give yourself and him a chance to see what is really important to you in a relationship. Good Luck.
2006-11-18 09:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by ape2016 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest u have to do what u think is good for u. if you follow your heart than it will lead u the right way. if u love him enough than you will try to fix things and to give him a chance to regain ur trust. but if deep down inside you know that it aint gonna work than u need to walk away b/c skies the limit and you never what is in stored for u in the future. God will put u through a tunnel of pain right before he gives u happiness.
2006-11-18 09:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lagrima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break, go somewhere for a few days. See what its like you could find that the relationship has been under a bit of stress, a little break could improve your situation.
2006-11-18 09:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont' know if you can have much of a relationship without trust.
perhaps over time trust can be built, but from my experience you have to separate yourself first.
i hope that last part made sense.
2006-11-18 09:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grand mother always told me that if you are thinking you should leave it is time to leave.
2006-11-18 09:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by Chillypepers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit done have tlk with him and if u know hes lieg leave and dont go back.
2006-11-18 09:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.. time will heal all wounds... u will meet somewhere better and that trust is important or u will be insecure
2006-11-18 09:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by The Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
up to you, why listen to us, if he cheated and you cannot trust him move on, you will find love again, we all do,, hurts for awhile, and takes awhile to trust again,
2006-11-18 09:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU DON'T LOVE ONE ANOTHER .
THEN WHY STAY?
THERE ARE A LOT OF OTHER BOYS ON THIS EARTH
2006-11-18 09:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋