are you a playa if you go out with someone then like 1 day after you break up...you go out with someone else? and it just kepps goin? or are you a player if you like a guy, go out with them for 3 weeks, dont like them anymore then break up with tthem, then go out with someone that same day? just wondering...
2006-11-18 01:08:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yah, i mean i always thought a playa was someone who dates many men or women at the same time. but if you go from one to the other...your not cheating on them. and yes, who cares what other people think?
2006-11-18 01:15:47 · update #1
yah, i mean i always thought a playa was someone who dates many men or women at the same time. but if you go from one to the other...your not cheating on them. and thank you for your comments
2006-11-18 01:16:07 · update #2
and it isnt me im talking about. it is my friend. everyone thinks she is a playa, but she doesnt know. i told her to just take a break from guys but she says she cant help it...HUH?!?!? lol
2006-11-18 01:23:31 · update #3
You still could be considered a "playa" by today's standards. But it's low-level play - especially for a True Playa or True Diva.
But you are still considered a playa because you're playing the "game of romance". You could be toying with some of those guys feelings. Playing with them. Maybe they deserve it, maybe they don't. I don't know. But in games, we all take chances, so...
Oh well... Welcome to "the game", I guess.
Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"
2006-11-18 01:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by mo2dajizzo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your really talking no because your not really cheating on someone and thats what being a playa kind of means playing games behind someones back but then you kind of are because you are playing games you might think your not but in everyones eyes they do see it as playing games because that person really likes you and then you just leave them and go with someone the next day
2006-11-18 01:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by *LaTiNa_BoNiTa* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A player is someone who does just that - plays with people's emotions. It is considered "cool" in school, but can have drastic ramifications if you hurt the wrong person in the real world. For instance, I know a woman who actually stabbed her husband because of his infidelity.
2006-11-18 01:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by tcom1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you are a playa on the fizzizzle,, no one will look at having a relationship with a one hit wonder
2006-11-18 01:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a player if you hookup with them one night and say you see them again only to be full of cr*p lol and be seen with someone else. Sounds to me you just haven't found what your looking for.
2006-11-18 01:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both sound like player material to me. It's not really a good thing for guys or girls to be players
2006-11-18 01:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by So'sYerFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought you are a playa if you go out with a few guys at once! coz you are playin them and foolin them so each one thinks you like and want them! try it, its fun
2006-11-18 01:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by hellinbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother about the opionion of others? Do what u consider to be good and reasonable.
2006-11-18 01:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a fear of comitment, not a playa!
2006-11-18 01:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both categories are players. They are not to be admired!
2006-11-18 01:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋