im in love to death with this guy...we're not of the same race but we've transcended since we were close friends. hes a bit..racist towards other people..saying this and that, to me, not to their faces.
should i be worried? i love him...i really doo........*music in ears*
2006-11-18 22:08:19 · 16 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im thinking..maybe i can change him?
2006-11-18 22:19:03 · update #1
he seems to have a bit problem with people who are not white.. : (
2006-11-18 22:23:36 · update #2
That's half of the men i've been with and I was just very up front that I was going to love all people and they could be how they wanted to be but it wasn't gonna change the way I am.. He obviously can't be that racist if he's dating you and I wouldn't worry about that. People who are racist are scared of the unknown and brain washed... go for it and maybe you'll rub off on him alittle bit that the color of a persons skin doesn't mean that the person is any less of a person and that were all human beings that deserve to be loved..
2006-11-18 22:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a "semi-racist". If a person is making racist comments about people from other races, then he is a racist. No doubt about it.
And no, I wouldn't touch a racist with a ten-foot pole. Racism is the worst kind of stupidity loose in the world today.
2006-11-18 22:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is racist. A racist has hate in their hearts. It is only a matter of time before you see that hatred spilled out into other areas of your lives. You have to determine for yourself if this is the kind of thing you want to connect yourself and your soul with.
2006-11-18 22:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel and you really want to go out with him. if he say ya say "but first you have to STOP saying racist thing to other people or it wont work"
i Hope i could help and yes i would date him if he stoped the name calling and stuff
2006-11-18 22:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by fruit_cake_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is "semi racist"? Either you are racist or you arent. Love him, but from a distance!
2006-11-18 22:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by pathstr8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because do you really want your kids picking up on racist remarks like that from their daddy.
2006-11-18 22:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a male. Dating another man would represent a major change in lifestyle. :-P
Why be so childish about your feelings? If he's obviously arrogant and impolite, treat him like he should be treated.
2006-11-18 22:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron Zachariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I wouldn't date any man, racist or not.
2006-11-18 22:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red neck can be good a racist, who care, if only you know.
2006-11-18 22:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, what about all the people in you life that he could be racist towards.
Do you want to have to drop them???
Do you want your kids to have that influence???
I hope not.
Unless you too are racist....
GET RID OF HIM!!!!
2006-11-19 08:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Shea Butta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋