Singles & Dating - 7 November 2006

My girfriend broke up with me cus she thinks i dont trust her,i made a mistake and snapped at her insinuating i dont trust her. I said sorry and explained how i was having family problems and health problems. She said she would have gave me a chance if i hadn't snapped at her. She told me she still loved me at the sart and that she always will but when i put it to her she says she doesn't love me just to get rid of me. Before this happened we where madly in love,she told me she never loved anyone as much as me and that she was looking forward to the future with me. It was our first row and im in pieces over it,i really love her and i want a second chance but she doesn't want to know but i know shes hurting deep down. Its been a month and she hasn't spoke to me. when we broke up she refused to speak to me it was all done by text messages,she said she couldn't speak to me, is that cus she still has feelings for me,im confused. She talks to our friends as if nothing ever happened.

2006-11-07 07:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

When sould you have your first boyfriend? In the first year of highschool, the last year, Junior high, college, HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-07 07:09:46 · 44 answers · asked by shaigirl1117 2

okay, there's this girl i like at school and i like her a lot. She knows that i like her along with the whole entire school. im positive i had a chance at the start of the year, but now its gone way down and she doesnt like me AT ALL. she thinks im a stalker cause i go wherever she goes and never talk to her cause i can never figure out what to say (we have exactly the same friends and we know each other pretty well) so now im like way down in the hole and i like her too much to let her go. if you have an idea for like a "comeback" (like in sports when you're down by 2 touchdowns in the fourth quarter) please list that. im a freshman in highschool so the "comeback" idea you have can last a couple years or sumtin. dont list negative comments cause they put my self esteem down, lol. again, she doesnt really like me, and i want to literally grab her attention towards me! i need ur help so plz help ME!!!!!!! ANYTHING WOULD BE GREAT

2006-11-07 07:08:39 · 27 answers · asked by German L 1

the best things to talk about or say to her

2006-11-07 07:08:03 · 13 answers · asked by nathan l 1

would u date a guy who has a small gut but has hard muscular arms and legs and is dieting to get rid of his gut, he is artistic funny and loves to make u laugth and likes poetry and loves danceing to classic Rnb and is 19 years of age black suburban dude

2006-11-07 07:07:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it that i always go for older guys and older guys always go for me?

i'm only 15 but according to my friend, i look like a "20 year old hot mama model!"

2006-11-07 07:07:15 · 6 answers · asked by Krissi 4

Before my bf met me he had 2 serious gf's (1+ years). I have no problem with that so lets move on. But I found out after he broke up with the second gf- within a few months he slept with this new girl from work on the first date and had a "f*** buddy" relationship with her. Soon after, she had to leave for college, they "broke" up ("broke" in quotes he would have liked it to continue but she had to go back to school hours away). Well again, like a month after that, he met some older ( like 5 years older than him) woman on the internet with a kid and starting having the same type of relationship with her until she started acting "shady" aka cheated on him. So I just found out just a bit ago that he starting dating me not even a WEEK after he broke up with her. I just kinda feel like if I was a ho like the other two, we would have the same type of relationship. He doesnt make me feel special, I just feel like he knows im a nice girl and wants to be with me just to be with someone....

2006-11-07 07:06:15 · 18 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2

we are together just 5 months but we are living together.everything has been really quickly.but now after time a can see that he has got his own life.he works 6 days in a week every day 8 sometimes 10 hours.every saturday he has got a football,every thursday he plays football and twice in month he has got a manager's meeting.but the worst thing is that everytime something happens to him he speaks to his friends at first.but he keeps talking that he loves me and he wants be with me till rest of his life.but i think that this is not for me.i love him but he has got too busy life.what do you think?is it normal?

2006-11-07 07:05:21 · 19 answers · asked by anjelik 1

So my friend likes Mike (i think). She is always wondering and asking me about him...I talk to the dude but only every once in a while. I really do want to help her but i dont know how...the guy's cousin told me that mike was talking to a girl from another town, that it might be serious, even though they dont go out yet. My friend and the guy talk every once in a while in the halls and stuff but thats pretty much it .
How do i help her out so she'll stop bothering me with her problems.
I dont even know if the guy likes her or not but i really wan to help her!!!

2006-11-07 07:04:52 · 10 answers · asked by rose H 1

I have a guy friend that I have known for years. I told him like 5 months ago that I liked his friend. 5 months later he tells me that he has feelings for me. I'm thinking he's doing this because I think his friend likes me too and my guy friend is feeling some type of way about this. It seems like he doesn't want me to be with his friend. So I don't know if my friend is feeling jealous, because I just view him as friend and nothing else and we never dated before.

2006-11-07 07:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

it seems like only fat ugly old men are around

2006-11-07 07:03:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 07:03:37 · 24 answers · asked by :-) 2

I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months and right before me he was talking to this other girl who stopped calling him. Well now she decides to come around again and now his feelings for her are comming back (which i understand because its natural). He decided to bring it upon himself to tell me that he likes me a lot but these feelings have come back he doesnt know what to do (since we r not official).

Great guy, nothing wrong besides this recent thing. But my question is how long should I give him to make a decision and how to bring it up?

2006-11-07 07:01:25 · 22 answers · asked by almond_eyes84 2

I met this guy last year at my friend's school. I didnt start talking to him (on myspace) til about a month ago. Now we're going to the movies together as friends(i think). Is this considered a date? because he hasnt officially asked me out and I've only met him that one time.

2006-11-07 07:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by ╣♥╠ 6

I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year because he said he wasn't sure if he loved me. This would mean that everything he ever told me since we've been together was a lie. I couldnt be with him anymore, and I cried for 4 days straight. I finally stopped crying, and I'm ok now, but I was hurt so bad that I fear I'll never be able to love again. Alot of you wouldn't understand how bad I was hurt, because there's more details to the story. I don't want to be one of those bitter girls who hates boys period, and if I do find somebody else who really does truly love me, I'll end up hurting him. How can I avoid being one of those bitter black women?

2006-11-07 07:00:18 · 18 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5

i mean,when a guy sees u only sexually and acts indifferent are there any ways to make him get close or even chase u?

2006-11-07 06:59:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

For Guys Only:
A friend I know is in a serious relationship with this guy...but he doesn't know she is ten years older (he's 30, she's 40). When she first started going out with him (three years ago!) she didn't realize there was an age difference. When she found out, she was "in too deep" and afraid to tell him. He hasn't ever asked her how old she is. They both seem really in love. Honestly, I would think they were the same age if I just met them...they both are good looking. He's got crow's feet & she doesn't. She has now become paranoid that if he finds out he wouldn't want to marry her. We keep telling her to just tell him. What do you guys think? Does age matter if a woman is a hottie? What about for a serious relationship/marriage? She says that since most women live 7+ years longer than most men, it makes more sense to marry a younger guy.

2006-11-07 06:58:55 · 9 answers · asked by BigCityGirl 1

He goes to college full time, but I work long hard hours at a very stressful job. He will help me sometimes when I ask him to, but he ends up mad. I 'd like to be able to relax on my time off too, but the house is in a wreck when I get home.

2006-11-07 06:57:13 · 29 answers · asked by Tracianne 1

My kids are older- 14 and 15- girl and boy. I ve been dating a man for a couple of months. I have no intention of them meeting anytime soon, but just though how long schould i wait. I am thinking a couple of yrs. am I wrong? I am falling in love and he is very patient. He is willing to wait and is totatly understandable. My kids have no idea I am dating him as of yet. But I think they have an idea...My ex doesnt even know. I am even afraid to let him know.. I need advise

2006-11-07 06:56:53 · 7 answers · asked by ceemagiclydia 2

..there is still a huge physical attraction, yet the decision was made to remain friends only. Some men are afraid to recommit, like he is..

2006-11-07 06:55:26 · 24 answers · asked by Dana 3

I have been dating this boy for going on 2 weeks and when we talk on the phone I talk to him but not alot and sometimes I don't even know what to say. Anybody know what I can talk about??

2006-11-07 06:54:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not the worlds most attractive person (I have heard comments regarding it a few times) and this is seriously affecting my love life.

I have friends and have no personality problems and have never recived a complaint before about that and have no problems at all with tlaking to people I am quite confident.

However whenever I try to go for a girl I am always massivly nervous about being put down because I am out of their league. Its not even like I go for the good looking one its just I feel they are all out of my league.

I have been with women before but those relationships have just 'happened' and it been about 6 months I have been waiting around for another and I need the confidence to try and jump start another one.

I was just wondering is there any way to tell if a girl is offended by your looks before asking in a way or just any ways I can get my confidence up to do this as I enjoy life I would just like someone to share it with.

2006-11-07 06:54:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Be honest ... would you consider to date a woman (22yrs) who has acne? I am just wondering as I am self consious, and I think that it would affect me, as being honest I wouldnt want to date a man with it!! Its soo bad as I was a good looking lass now I am spotty!!

2006-11-07 06:54:45 · 17 answers · asked by sunshine 2

When I look around and see what is out there, I realize how desirable I am. All these men are henpecked and emasculated. There are only a handful of women I would consider doing, and they should be grateful.

When I look past the spinsters and fat loads, there isn't much left.

Why do women like to play a game that they don't want the bazaam?? I know you all want it.

2006-11-07 06:54:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very concerned that my gf is not truly over one of her ex's. She has been open with me about all of her other ex's, but doesn't like to talk about this one, we'll call him Al. She dated Al about a year ago and all I really know is that things were going great and she really liked him. But she ended things with him to get back with another ex who had just gotten back from Iraq. She said that she had regretted breaking up with Al, but is over him now.The following red flags have really made me wonder...
-She has an entire folder on her computer of pictures of him and them
-I found a picture of them in her car
-I asked her to take him off her buddy list
-He reappeared on her buddy list a week later
-She gets upset with me if I bring him up
-She has consistently been checking both his, and his gf's myspace pages like once a week

These make me think that she is not over him. How can I tell?

2006-11-07 06:53:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-07 06:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

ladies allways complain that we dont like bigger girls and all that bull but they must be fin kidding me if ur a bigger overweight girl ur getting a man, but if ur an overweight guy your not getting jessica alba

guys arent you fed up of girls complaing about us not likeing bigger girls

2006-11-07 06:51:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

is my boyfrined scared of loosing me or somethink cos he never seems to get angry with me or even get into an argument wiv him .For the 9 onths i have known him n been going out with him we have never argued . I wish we would in a wierd way cos i feel he is scared of loosing me and i would love a good argument !!
Also if i ask him to do anythink for me he will do it like lend me money or make me a cuppa tea...it makes me laf now thinking about it but i really do depend on him abit, so ami using him..?

ANY ANSWERS KINDLEY ACCEPTED

2006-11-07 06:50:39 · 28 answers · asked by JoJo40 1

he asked me out then i said no and ur hokin then he said ya i am what whould u say i i werent i said i would say no.Then laters on he said i luv u come on will you go out wit me? i fell on the floor and ran away.truth is i would have said yes but is he playin?help me plz!
*before he asked me he asked if i still liked the boy i liked.and i dont wanna lose him cause like me and him have be friends for like 4 years*

2006-11-07 06:50:39 · 9 answers · asked by dj s 1

okay, there's this girl i like at school and i like her a lot. She knows that i like her along with the whole entire school. im positive i had a chance at the start of the year, but now its gone way down and she doesnt like me AT ALL. she thinks im a stalker cause i go wherever she goes and never talk to her cause i can never figure out what to say (we have exactly the same friends and we know each other pretty well) so now im like way down in the hole and i like her too much to let her go. if you have an idea for like a "comeback" (like in sports when you're down by 2 touchdowns in the fourth quarter) please list that. im a freshman in highschool so the "comeback" idea you have can last a couple years or sumtin. dont list negative comments cause they put my self esteem down, lol. again, she doesnt really like me, and i want to literally grab her attention towards me! i need ur help so plz help ME!!!!!!! ANYTHING WOULD BE GREAT

2006-11-07 06:49:49 · 20 answers · asked by German L 1