So my friend likes Mike (i think). She is always wondering and asking me about him...I talk to the dude but only every once in a while. I really do want to help her but i dont know how...the guy's cousin told me that mike was talking to a girl from another town, that it might be serious, even though they dont go out yet. My friend and the guy talk every once in a while in the halls and stuff but thats pretty much it .
How do i help her out so she'll stop bothering me with her problems.
I dont even know if the guy likes her or not but i really wan to help her!!!
2006-11-07 07:04:52 · 10 answers · asked by rose H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask Mikes cousin if you think your friend has got a chance with him...but dont tell her.
2006-11-07 07:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there on both sides! She just wants some confidence but she doesn't know that she is soooo annoying, so tell her in a nice way. Be honest about the other girl might be a possibility. Tell her to write him a short note or something to break the ice. She might get hurt and then be prepared for more complaining! U can handle it or tell her honestly.
2006-11-07 15:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the simple solution: let your friend do more talking. If she doesn't talk, the guy she likes will never be attracted to her because he doesn't know barely anything about her. It seems your friend isa bit shy, try to get her to talk to this guy, it is the most important thing you can do! Justtell her if she wans him, she better just stat talking. Then it is when you can also talk to him, and your friend can use you to tell him she's interested... Good Luck
2006-11-07 15:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by J&B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her, i had a guy friend ask me once y girls dont like him, i asked him if he wanted the truth, he said yes, i said then you need to loose wait, this year he has a girl fruiend! just be honest with her, thats what good friends are, honest! the best way for her to find out about whether or not he likes her is to ask him flat out on her own, she will never accomplish anything hug her friends side, she needs to be independant when it comes to guys,a guy if he is a real strate gentelman will respect that and if he dosent then she deserves better!!
2006-11-07 15:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by campkid4ever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that Mike told you to tell her that she should do you first and if you like it you will report that to Mike so he can take a stab at her.
2006-11-07 15:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him if he think she is cute and would she be some one he would go out with if he say yes then tell your friend to shut iup and go talk to him :)
2006-11-07 15:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by mrsp27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your confused cause you say your tired of helping her but yet you want to help her. if you dont want to help her just tell her as nice as you can she will probably get mad, but she will get over it or be mad along time
2006-11-07 15:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be honest and tell her and tell her to let the guy know that she is interested in him
2006-11-07 15:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by It's MEEEE!!!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there relationship seems really boring.....tell her to do every thing her self cause its her relationship not urs.
2006-11-07 15:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her what you know
2006-11-07 15:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋