My girfriend broke up with me cus she thinks i dont trust her,i made a mistake and snapped at her insinuating i dont trust her. I said sorry and explained how i was having family problems and health problems. She said she would have gave me a chance if i hadn't snapped at her. She told me she still loved me at the sart and that she always will but when i put it to her she says she doesn't love me just to get rid of me. Before this happened we where madly in love,she told me she never loved anyone as much as me and that she was looking forward to the future with me. It was our first row and im in pieces over it,i really love her and i want a second chance but she doesn't want to know but i know shes hurting deep down. Its been a month and she hasn't spoke to me. when we broke up she refused to speak to me it was all done by text messages,she said she couldn't speak to me, is that cus she still has feelings for me,im confused. She talks to our friends as if nothing ever happened.
2006-11-07 07:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to add that i do trust her more than anything and that she has got the wrong idea
2006-11-07 07:20:13 · update #1
I cant stop thinking about her and i really know shes the one i want 2 be wit,i want 2 spend my life wit her and she said the same b4 this happened.she told me that a few days b4 we broke up
2006-11-07 07:24:33 · update #2
when we did break up i did annoy her a bit,i tried 2 hard 2 get her back,i think she was sick listening 2 me,she threatened 2 get a restraining order against me cus she knew i wud stop when she said that,i haven't made contact in 2 weeks
2006-11-07 07:41:26 · update #3
she said she cant forgive me but i know shes hurting,her friends understands me and believes i deserve a second chance
2006-11-07 08:19:23 · update #4
recently she has changed her bebo account name to i will always love u,what does that mean???
2006-11-07 21:56:01 · update #5
aigghtt man u need to relax i was in ur shoes before and i was asking the very same question a few months ago
if she doesnt want to talk that s fine
just either email or text
just saying "hi" act like u have move on
(u r probably saying no i dont want to do that) well let me ask u everything that u have done till this day has it work, NO, all ur caring has it gotten u closer NO, because right now she doesnt want it, she is fill with negative feeling and in order to rid of these feelings u need to stop pressuring her into a relationship
just simply be cool act like u r enjoying ur space
and that everything is good around u
believe me it will work and continue being ur self but dont pressure her soon she will allow those walls to drop
but do not once again pressure her or try to convince her to be with u
2006-11-07 07:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may had a very bad experience before and/or she is still emotional.
did she said anything about breaking up? if so, she must have a very good reason to say it.
there may be certain things between you and her that is not compatible to her from her views.
if so, analyse what is the things that is incompatible between you and her. then try to be a better you, a better person for the next girl who comes into your life.
a relationship is holy.
take your time before commiting to a relationship.
know that there are other girls out there waiting for you.
you may not be able to change yourself totally but if you try hard and sincerely, you will realise 1 day there are many things to accomplish in life.
helping people in yahoo answers is 1 good thing.
ps: she also has a new life to move on ahead.
and so do you. you have to move on ahead in a new life.
your possible future is sometimes you will think of her as a memory and a reminder to yourself to be a better person for your new girl and family.
cheers and good luck!
mercury of love
2006-11-07 21:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear about that, I just went through the same thing.You should just give her some space and dont seem desperate.Honestly if you dont trust her the relationship will not last very long if you did get her back.
2006-11-07 15:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by dallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some answers. Don't look desperate, if she doesn't come back just look for another girl. It hurts but happens every day.
2006-11-07 15:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing games with you. It is called emotional abuse. Anyone who can't forgive - you should forget. Best in the long run. If she comes back - use her but don't get attached.
2006-11-07 15:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a chance to cool down, then talk to her... a romantic present wont hurt your chances either.
2006-11-07 15:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by sweetasiananngel13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋