I have a guy friend that I have known for years. I told him like 5 months ago that I liked his friend. 5 months later he tells me that he has feelings for me. I'm thinking he's doing this because I think his friend likes me too and my guy friend is feeling some type of way about this. It seems like he doesn't want me to be with his friend. So I don't know if my friend is feeling jealous, because I just view him as friend and nothing else and we never dated before.
2006-11-07 07:04:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes after a few years, you suddenly see someone in a different light. He probably wasn't in touch with his feelings until he thought of you being with someone else. Then, he saw you in a different light and realized that he has some kind of real feelings for you.
2006-11-07 07:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Nicegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is all just peachy. He obviously feels that given the fact you two have been such good friends for several years makes him a shoe-in to becoming something more! So what you need to do is sit him down and set the record straight. If he is truly your friend he will understand. Better to get this all straightened out before things get too confusing. That will put both of you at ease then. Good luck!
2006-11-07 07:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how love is sometimes. You have a boy or girl friend. You like that person you hang out with them and then suddenly or maybe not so suddenly propinquity turns to passion and then you want that girl friend to be your girlfriend.
He told you hoping that maybe you felt the same way. If you don't and don't think you ever will get rid of him. Keeping him around as a friend will only hurt him more as he sees you going out with other guys.
2006-11-07 07:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your friend because he does like you....maybe just did not know how much he liked you until he realised that you were interested in someone else. I would ask him if he wants to be more than friends, and see what happens, that is if you think you would have a deeper feeling towards him than friends.
2006-11-07 07:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Want No Trouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He very well probably is jealous. It sounds like it's because he might loose you to his friend though and that's going to put a little spark in his testosterone.
Find out if he's for real and figure out what you want. You have to make yourself happy first so do what you can to better make a decision.
2006-11-07 07:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be jealousy but on the other hand naturally you can have a connection with you male friends on the level that you have a lot in common and 5 yrs says that he cares bout. As far as him liking you that is plain and simple because if he thinks his friend isn't for you then he can lash out and say those things...but my advice is to wait and watch...
2006-11-07 07:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just finally got up the nerve to tell you. Probably when you told him you liked his friend he felt jealous and then realized that was because he liked you.
2006-11-07 07:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he does really like you and he just cant tell you because he would have felt dumb if you didnt like him he might also not like the fact you wanna date his friend which might make him fell like the middle man if you were to date his friend and something bsd happened he may fweel like it was his fault cause you met the guy threw him
2006-11-07 07:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by SexyMandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there could be two possiblities
- either hes jealous .. like u said
- or he himself is unable to find a girl for himself so hes just thinking to try u out
2006-11-07 07:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by snip3r_scorpion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens all the time ur friend is probably being legit on his feelings
2006-11-07 07:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by dizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋