Trust ISSUE...?
so my boyfriend and i have had a rocky past... more so for me than for him. 2 years ago we had some "complications" and since then i've had some what of a trust barrier. nothing has happened in the two years since, and i have forgiven him, but i have not forgotten. now we have TRUST ISSUES. is it my fault that i have a problem trusting him completely, or should he accept that what he did had consequences, and realize that it's going to be a little more difficult to earn all of my trust back? I'm not saying that I haven't done anything wrong... but not to the degree that he has. I have not broken his heart, I have never given him a reason to fear losing me! Coming from him... what I do wrong is basically (from my veiw of what he tells me) care too much. In my veiw it's either all or nothing, it's been 3 years, after that long a relationship can't just be a "you do what you want, I'll do what I want" kind of thing, am I right.
2006-11-07
06:31:17
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