Soo my sister has been goin out with this one boy for about a month or so. Hes NOT the greatest thing & he has somewhat of a reputation with tryin to get into girls pants. But since hes like her second bf shes kinda in "love" . Everyonee tells her she needs to brake up w/ him bt she wont. Now a days she pretty much does everything he says [[like skip school and stuff]] it seems like hes the only important person in her life..Me and her used to be really close and now all we do is argue and fiight...She has no respect for anyone i mean shes pretty much ON TOP OF HIM...while me and my little sister are in the room w/em...Soo is there anything i should do or tell her??
2006-11-07 06:40:54 · 8 answers · asked by Alessandra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ewww---sounds like my nasty sister and her strange psycho boyfriend--no one liked them, the only thing they had going for them was that my mom liked them, and my mom is a B$*%ch and so her word was law so they were treated like freaking royalty, and it was disgusting---i just wanted to tell my sister "I think you can do better for yourself" but she would not have listened anyway, so i said nothing---just let your sister know what you are thinking and how you are feeling----
2006-11-07 06:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry friend, there is nothing u can do...if u say something to her, she will not understand it because right now for her the boyfriend is more important..your one negative move will make her think that u r her enemy.it seems like the guy has been successful in controlling her mind. however, this will come to a full stop only if he ditches her or she falls in trouble because of skipping school n stuff. she has to learn a lesson to come back to sense.
2006-11-07 14:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters DON`T tell her anything negative about her boyfriend, that will only make her stick all the more to him. If he`s such a creep she will eventually find her heart broken and hopefully a lesson learned... You just be cool about it and let her know taht you care and that she can trust you no matter what...
2006-11-07 14:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely talk to her. She may be mad at first but she'll get over once you save her from a big jerk. Guys like that are nothing but trouble. I don't know how old she is but there are way more guys out there that don't act like that & she could find one who is nice & respects her & doesn't make her do things she doesn't want to do.
2006-11-07 14:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you ,sounds quite alot like my older sister! she has been going out with this 17 year old BADD\boy. ifeel as if he is the only person she cares about... i dont realy mind them going out because from wwat i hear he treats her right but.trust me, i dont think there is anything you can do.. she'll learn from her own mistakes. im sure your sister is tired of hearing people saying that they should break up. its her decision to be with who she wants to be. i tried to break up my sister and her bf because i know fo sure he is not the one for her. i feel as if he pressures her to do stuff with him. my advice: be there for her,help her out and maybe even try talkin to her bf?(PRIVATELY ).
2006-11-07 16:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by SERENA !!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggetion is not caring anymore, she will see that your not there anymore becaus hse odesnt respect you. Let him use her, eventually he will dump her and she wil cry ralize you were right. She needs to know to trust you. She needs ot learn.
2006-11-07 14:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by rubikisses muuah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him break her little heart. she's gotta learn somehow. she'll come crawling back to you when it all goes wrong.
2006-11-07 14:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents he's trash maybe?
2006-11-07 14:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by zippo_lyp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋