My fiance ALWAYS, 100% of the time treats me like a queen when he thinks I look super hot, and when I doll up. BUT, if I don't doll up and dress all pretty, and if I just wanna relax, and not wear any make up--like when I get off work, he will treat me like crap, or with a careless attitude 45-50% of the time. Are all guys like that?
2006-11-07 06:34:28 · 31 answers · asked by free:eli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2006-11-07 06:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very "looks" oriented; although it might sound shallow, it is kind of the truth. However, the fact that he treats you a little better when you are dressed nicer seems to be more of a personal thing than an "every guy" thing.
You should bring up your concerns with him; he's the only one who can tell you why he acts like this.
Quick idea why he acts like this: When you look "super hot", is that when you guys are going out during the weekend? There is a chance that the times you look nice are the times that he wants to take you out and make you feel appreciated; while the other times are just when he's relaxing/chillin' himself.
2006-11-07 14:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like this. If this guy truly loves you he will love you and treat you equally dolled up and dressed down. If he doesn't, he's very shallow and just wants a gf that looks like a doll.
Sorry honey but the way it sounds, he's just with you for your looks. What if you got in an accident tomorrow and didn't look the same, would he stay with you? I think not.
(sorry to be so blunt)
Hope everything works out.
2006-11-07 14:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and you shouldn't have to be "dolled up" to be treated well. If you want this relationship to work you both need counseling before you get married or this can be the first thing to be called our in divorce court. It is better to resolve these concerns before you are married and have a family because it won't get easier. He may be projecting his concerns over your continued appearance based on a previous relationship or family member and counseling can help.
2006-11-07 14:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband likes me best without makeup and simply in sweats.. all I can say is" re-think" marrying a guy who doesn't adore you at any given time... if he only loves you when your dolled up than he is a superficial guy who doesn't know anything about love. Please do yourself a favor and don't rush into marriage with someone like that. To me his behavior would be a big turn-off and reason to find myself a more worthy guy....
2006-11-07 14:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sounds a bit odd. But then I guess it may depend on what you look like without make-up. For some women, there's a huge difference with or without make-up.
2006-11-07 14:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by RonboNC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all... naturally, I treat my woman extra special when she's slapped on the plaster and paint... but, I prefer her in jeans and a tee shirt... no mak-up... fortunately, she's got the kind of complexion/skin tone that she can do that... italian... naturally tan all the time... the only time I take her off the pedastal is when I throw her on the bed and tear her cloths off!
2006-11-07 14:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by jeep_man129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I prefer to have women any way they come, makeup or not, good clothes or not. The personality is the main focus. Ladies, email me at johnluisduffy@yahoo.com
2006-11-07 15:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by Firefighting Hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I' not!
I treat my woman like a queen all the time!!
2006-11-07 14:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ant Giron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are not you have an a.s.s hole for a fiance!! my husband of four years treats me like a princess with or without makeup i could be wearing a bag and he would still tell me i am soooooooooooo pretty!!
2006-11-07 14:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they're not. My husband loves me with no makeup in my pajamas.
I suggest you find a man like him. You're not always going to be pretty, even WITH makeup. Then what will he do?
2006-11-07 14:37:07 · answer #11 · answered by CuteWriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋