I NEED BIG TIME help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

okay, there's this girl i like at school and i like her a lot. She knows that i like her along with the whole entire school. im positive i had a chance at the start of the year, but now its gone way down and she doesnt like me AT ALL. she thinks im a stalker cause i go wherever she goes and never talk to her cause i can never figure out what to say (we have exactly the same friends and we know each other pretty well) so now im like way down in the hole and i like her too much to let her go. if you have an idea for like a "comeback" (like in sports when you're down by 2 touchdowns in the fourth quarter) please list that. im a freshman in highschool so the "comeback" idea you have can last a couple years or sumtin. dont list negative comments cause they put my self esteem down, lol. again, she doesnt really like me, and i want to literally grab her attention towards me! i need ur help so plz help ME!!!!!!! ANYTHING WOULD BE GREAT

Answer 1

Play hard to get, or maybe be seen with someone else........you never know she may take notice then because she has realised that you are not chasing her (which no doubt she has noticed).

She might be playing hard to get as well. It can't hurt to try this and you never know you might end up with someone who likes you and vice versa.

Answer 2

you stay she thinks your stalking her? back up and give her space to relieze that your not stalking her! yoyu may have lost your chance at the begining of the year but dont loose hope!! when god closes a door, he opens a window, just cause one girl passes, dont wate your life wating 4 her, if you do, you'll miss the right girl and then you'll spend your whole life wishing you hadn't wasted your timeworring about the past girl then you'll worry about that and do you see where i'm going with this? DONT SEND HER CANDY OR FLOWERS OR ANY THING ELSE, GIVE HER SPACE!!!!!!!!! she will totally back off and think your totally wierd if she doesnt like you and then all chances are down the drain, be a gentelman, think about the way your making her feel, some one "stalking" you isnt always the best feeling, trust me!

Answer 3

If you get a chance to talk with her on the side privately as possible, first tell her your sorry for upsetting her, and making her think that she should be scared of you. And tell the truth, that you like her very much and like being around her, sstart out by saying that you would like to be friends again. You could find out from the friends also what she is thinking, maybe one that is closer than the others? Break the ice, and talk, you will feel better for it.
Good Luck.

Answer 4

Okay first back off big-time from her so she can the stalker thing behind her. You say you two run in the same circles so don't let her catch you staring at her. If she talks to you be nice but short answers. If anybody ask you ab her tell them you have decided to move on and are looking for someone to date. When she things you are over her and she thinks you have moved on, that is when she will come back around. Girls HATE when people tell them that the guy they thought was head over hills with them is over them. It crushes their ego. Whether she likes you or not she will not want to hear this! Just be casual and fun when she is around and she will eventually open back up to you. I definately would start talking to someother girls. You might find out for yourself that she aint all that after all.

Answer 5

Sounds like you're desperate. Best thing to do is just be yourself, don't try to show off or be nervous around her besides she is just a girl just like any other girl. You need to be confident when you talk to her and your friends, no girl wants a sissy type boy friend but don't be an over bearing control freak, also be calm not uptight all the time.

Maybe you can invite her and your friends for a night out somewhere and just have good time, make sure you're well groomed, confident, calm and neat.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Sounds like the best idea right now is to give her space. Let her think you are over her. She may end up missing the attention. You can't make someone like you, so you may have blown your chance. Perhaps ask her out on a date after you give her some space so you can get to know each other.

Answer 7

The thing is, if you ARE going everwhere she's going adn you like her and she doesn't really does make you sorta of a stalker.

Girls are genreally not attracted to boys who are so eager and desperate. They like guys who are level-headed, sure of themselves, and aloof.

So, the answer is, be cool, level-headed, sure of yourself, and aloof. Stay away from her. Do things in school that ur supposed to, not because you can be near her or show off to her.

Showing off is immature and dorky. Haunting her shadow is too.

Hanging out with people, filling ur time with activities, and surronding yourself with many freinds, espcially girls, is a much better way to get her attention.

Even all of this, doesn't guarantee ANYTHING.

Good luck.

Answer 8

Please don't act immature about this. Please don't "grab" her attention. Phone her. Ask her to go to a movie, or bowling, or to a concert - one on one, away from all your crowd. Behave like a young adult and don't go out of your way to impress her. Act like it's something you do all the time.

If she says no, I'm busy, then ask if another time would be better. If she still puts you off then the answer is "never" and you should shut up and back away before the entire school thinks you are "untouchable."

Answer 9

The way I see it , you have not much to lose.
You need to realize its only fear of the unknown.
Put some thought into what you want to talk about(if you like her you will put effort out), after all if you have the same circle of friends, you know her, find out what interests her. Then go talk to her and do not be afraid , be calm and confident. It will get easier.
Trust me, this is only practice for what lies ahead in life.

Answer 10

Kind of blow her off. Don't seem to interested in her. Tell your friends that you are over her so they can tell her that. Don't be mean, but just stop being so stalkerish. Start hitting on some other girls. Before you know it she will be wondering what happened and why you aren't so interested in her anymore. That will get her thinking. Give this stuff a try.