Other - Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

I am person who do not talk much, so when i went into high school, i talked to people in order to make some new friends. But day after day, after so much bad events like grades decreasing, so i quit concert band, i am so stress that i started to skip school, causng my grade to be even lower, horrible than C classes even though I'm in an A class. So i might as well stay at home. Therefore my interact with friends get lower and lower, I even treat some people whom i talk or friends with like transparent, walk pass them like nothing happen. I really did want to talk to them, but i am just so stress that I can't find any event to talk to them.. I am lack of motivation, even though I had motivation i suddenly think of, it will just be temporary and I will lack of motivation again.. So now I had fewer friends and what horrifying is that I used to think it is OK to be that way! I am really confused, I do not know what to do. So how can i get really motivated again and get into the right path?

2007-03-12 08:43:01 · 3 answers · asked by SKyLaR 3

How would you get the man to love you again (the girl has broken the mans heart)

2007-03-12 08:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

why do men lie all the time and hurt you, why cant they just tell you the truth and get it over with? my partner has told that many lies he forgets and i catch him out!!!

2007-03-12 08:21:50 · 38 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2

My job is about to be eliminated, I am single and relatively young (mid 30s), and have lived in the same place (metro NYC) for most of my life. For a variety of reasons I don't like my life here anymore, especially since most of the people I know have started familes. I am really comfortable with uprooting myself and going to a place where I don't know anyone, but I hate my current situation. Where should I go? Serious answers only please...

2007-03-12 08:18:04 · 18 answers · asked by Atlas 1

Well i wanted to get my mum the new peter Falk book for mothers day but its not out till april so thats out of the question any idea what would be nice to get her ?

2007-03-12 08:14:20 · 9 answers · asked by Tonny C 1

Ok..im a little confused about something..My fiance was told by the girl he had messed around with before me that she was pregnant.He told her that he wanted a DNA test and that if the baby was his,she could put it on his health insurance and everything..he was willing to step up.Then after that,we dont hear from her.Then we get a phone call one day from her saying that his baby was born two weeks ago.The baby is now over a year old,she still has not gotten a DNA test, the baby does not have his last name,and he is NOT on the birth certificate.And now she is asking him to sign over his rights so the state will help her..We are a little confused here..What rights does he have in the first place if there was no DNA test and he is not on the birth certificate and the child does not have his last name.He has tried to be in the babys life,but she never returned calls and when she did, she would promise to let him see the baby, but never show.Anyone have any advice?? Please dont be rude.

2007-03-12 08:13:47 · 15 answers · asked by MandiGurl M 2

I have a friend who is 16yrs old about to turn 17. She is trying to leave home which I have tried to talk her out of it ,but she insists the living conditions are horrible. (I completely agree with her on that note). I wanted to get some information for her on this subject matter. How old must she be to sign for an apartment with me I am 19 well 18 going on 19 around the time she will move in. How old must she be to get her actual driving license on her own. How old must she be to put bills in her own name?

2007-03-12 08:12:11 · 3 answers · asked by chet g 2

He is a big kid really, a little odd and would probably like anything as long as it was imaginative enough. nothing too expensive please.

2007-03-12 07:48:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have only been with him 5 months and to be honest he has not seen me totally nakered as i can not get over the hang up of my jelly belly which hangs with a big mould of fat i think it is called a (apron belly). i so much wont to just take a deep breath and let him see me but embarressing is the word. and before and one says diet thats fine but wen you have had c sections u loose the elastisticy and muscle. please help

2007-03-12 07:37:45 · 16 answers · asked by where are all the good men gone 1

I don't understand why people are so offended that my husband and I don't want to have any children. I am not and have never been the "motherly" type. I don't think that babies are cute, I don't think they will make my life more fulfilling and I certainly do not think they are a blessing as we are NOT religious people. I like to sleep late, go on multiple vacations a year, and spend our hard earned money on nice things for ourselves. I have no desire or need to get pregnant, chubby, and poor just so I can experience the "joys" of motherhood (aka: changing dirty diapers, never sleeping and loosing your figure). Some of our friend's with kids are contantly telling us how lucky we are that we have all of this freedom. We see that too! I don't usually go into this much detail when people ask us why we don't have any kids but I would surely like to! They look at me like my hair is on fire when I tell them we are child-free and loving it. What's the deal?

2007-03-12 07:36:19 · 20 answers · asked by Laura C 3

Their mom died in October a day after I moved in. It seems that my fiance spoiled them before. They are polite kids and get good grades. But lately (since xmas) they just want more and more. HIs older 2 kids aren't like this. I talked to my fiance about it but it hasn't changed. He has easliy spent $3500 on them since (and including) xmas. What can I do if anything?!

2007-03-12 07:22:39 · 3 answers · asked by natsuko1 3

ok I totally live in a fantasy world!! (hey at least Im admitting to it) I have no drive in life because I truly believe that Im gonna win the lotto (which i never play) or meet and marry a filthy rich millionaire!! how do I stop this and realize that it probally will never happen!!

2007-03-12 07:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by Jealous?? 2

I still love him. To leave him would mean to break my own heart. He cheated on me once before we got married with a girl I barely knew, but had her in my phone book. I was pregnant and he knew. 3 days later he came home. Second time, we were married. I was still pregnant. He left me standing in front of the post office crying and begging him not to go. Days later I found him in the next town over. He had sex w/ a 39 yr. old He was also messing around with a girl that I was best friends w/ from Elementary to high school. I told him I wanted a divorce and he stabbed his self in the wrist. 6 months ago. He hasn't left since, but I still don't trust him. I go to my grandma's every other weekend... and that is the only days he goes running around town. When I go home I only know what he tells me he did. I don't know anything for sure. I am about 3 months preg. again. Should I stay or leave. If I should leave how do I break my own heart? It will be the worst pain yet! We're both only 21.

2007-03-12 07:21:14 · 66 answers · asked by Autumn Travelstead 1

what can I say or do to make her see that she is slowly killing herself?

2007-03-12 07:20:04 · 19 answers · asked by karen h 3

Basicly the title is self exsplanitory. I dont know what to do I mean she said she woulnt get sent out into "the feald" but Im not shouir. HELP!!

2007-03-12 07:17:31 · 2 answers · asked by Singer 1

What made me think of this, is something that I noticed yesterday. I was at Target, and this kid quit his job publicly and loudly right in the middle of his shift. (He was probably around sixteen) His supervisor told him as he was walking out the door "If you start a job on Sunday morning, and you quit Sunday afternoon, you are in for along road of burned bridges, fella!" The kid stormed out of the store, left his store apron laying on the table by the door, and made his way to the parking lot.

I followed him, and I watched as he climbed into his car (a shiny red 2006 or 2007 Pontiac Gran Prix, and sped away with the radio booming. He whipped out his cell phone as he was pulling away...probably to call his buddies and tell them he'd meet them at somewhere or other. The reason I know the car was his (and not borrowed from his dad) was it was lowered about two inches off the ground with those purple lights shining under the car. On the back windshield was a decal that said "low-playa".

2007-03-12 07:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help please,whenever i go see my doctor i always have a feeling when i look into his eyes i just think"I wish he would lay me on his bed and give me the once over"what do i do would you come onto your doc??

2007-03-12 07:13:20 · 11 answers · asked by DREAMER 2

2007-03-12 07:12:36 · 9 answers · asked by Nicki 1

I am on my mom's name and my name is bashful_mf7
i have been very nice n everything to my bf but latly ive felt that he doesnt really care one way or another..its been goin gon for about 2wks or so and i just now want sum help on why this is so or y i feel like this
so he invites me over on a tues...for friday or saturday..which is o.k. but then he says im going to my friends on friday..im kool with it then on sat..u cant come over my mom is sick..its kool.but then i find out its not really he just wanted 2 stay at his friend's longer i wouldnt mind i just would like to know..then he come s to skool..no hi or nuttin..when i leave he doesnt say nethin gor come to me and then hes wearing another girl's poneytalil 2 of em on his wrist.which i look at it as if u only do that if uve dun things.now the friends house he kinda drinks and im worry and he hasnt mentioned anything they did.i just want to know the truth.im 15 and i just wanna know if i should leave him or keep him am ia *****

2007-03-12 07:09:32 · 4 answers · asked by mrsgrumpy1969 1

v r in luv for 2yrs. all was fine till now. we belong to orthodox families. are families will never give permission for marriage. but we still thought when the right time came we will ask their permission. my bf was the one who used to say lets get married even if our parents doesnt agree. and i was the one who used to say we should respect their feeling also and should seek their permission even if it takes some time.cause we belong to middle class indian families. yesterday all of a sudden he decedided we cant get married for 5-6yrs cause he has 2 younger sis too. & if he marries me they will suffer cause they will not get grooms. this is because we belong to different castes. he says if i luv him i will wait. cause he thinks i can. yes my parents are supporative when i say i need time.but 5-6yrs!!!
i am 27yrs old. waiting for 5-6yrs means telling our parents at 32. i am the only child of my parents. they respect my decisions. but they too have their own dreams regarding my marriage

2007-03-12 07:06:21 · 4 answers · asked by Neelu 1

When I die (hopefully many many years from now) I would like to have my ashes turned into a diamond for my daughter. Do you think that would be strange for her or do you think its something special. I feel that I can be with her forever where ever she goes.. Is that creepy???

2007-03-12 07:06:04 · 17 answers · asked by Don't play w/ me 1

We were together for almost 11 months .He called me 2 days ago and asked me to give him some space. He studys for a difficult Bar exam. I was supporting him without any complain .
He said that I have two choices :Break up or give him some space for a while(5 months) so after that he will build this realtionship again .He said he loves me but he can not make my happy during this time ...During our conversation he was talking about his exam ,his mortgage and his company !!!!so What about me ?What's my role in his life ?All I offered to him during our relationship were Love ,Passion and sacrifice without expecting alot from him .
I don't deserve this .If I 'm a part of his life why he wants a break from me?It doesn't make sense .
He said that I'm so sweet and he loves to be with me but taking care of his problems is more important than our 1 year relationship ...

2007-03-12 07:04:48 · 23 answers · asked by labellesmile 1

i wana make her birthday special by her 14 yr daughter.

2007-03-12 07:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We all dream of certain things in life,but does anyone out there ever realy lay there when your bored and just fantasize about things that you want to happen but cant happen for what ever reason??

2007-03-12 06:58:29 · 13 answers · asked by DREAMER 2

May 28th ???

2007-03-12 06:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4

I am going back and forth with my boyfriend because he says that getting hit can't be worse then getting told you a bi*** or a sl**.
I'm not going thru this but we have a friend who is.
And verbal abuse always turns into physical abuse if you wait it out that long.

RIGHT?
Does anyone agree?

2007-03-12 06:22:38 · 26 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5

i accidentally broke a plate. it was supposedly too close to the edge and it fell while i had something on it. the only reason it fell was because i was looking at what my girlfriend did (the sink's pressure was low and she got it to have higher pressure)

then the plate broke and she keeps going ON AND ON after the mess is cleaned up. she keeps telling me that it was too close to the edge blah blah blah.

well i kind of get the point. it only fell because i looked away.

don't you hate it when someone just keeps going on and on after you get the damn idea?

2007-03-12 06:22:14 · 7 answers · asked by John Becker 5

2007-03-12 06:18:27 · 15 answers · asked by Jodi 5

2007-03-12 06:18:19 · 7 answers · asked by jake l 1

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now and he lives with his mom (hes 23) and I live with my parents still (i'm 20) (we live near the beach and everything is so expensive so we are waiting to move in with each other.)Anyway... His mother has been making comments lately. We were at dinner one night in a "nice" restaurant with my parents, his mom, my brother & my brothers girlfriend. Heres what happened... My boyfriend was near my college earlier that day and I asked him why he didnt call me to have lunch (sorta joking...) anyway she does this face, like thumbs to your ears toungue sticking out "nah nah nah" face like a 2years old... and says "He called me!" I just laughed it off.... We have always gotten along, but I just dont understand why she was acting that way. and the other day he decided to stop and get me flowers on the way home and then decided that his mother would get jealous/mad so he bought her some also? any suggestions? thanks

2007-03-12 06:16:01 · 8 answers · asked by jenn_41587 2