Other - Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

All your boyfriend did is talk mostly about freaky things? We have been dating now for about 3 months now and his birthday is real soon. So he told me that he will be here a few days before his birthday to spend some time with me. But I am scared that it could lead from one thing to the other. What should I do, I love him and all but I don' t think that I am ready for all of that! And the thing about it is that this will be the first time that I will get to see him in person and we really want to see each other, but I don't think that he is just with me for me, I have a feeling deep inside my gut that he is playing me. But when I asked him about it he said that he would never do that to me, because he know what it is like to be heartbroken. I just don't know!!!

2007-03-11 23:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Girlfriend kept on asking me to go to places (Parties and clubbing) that I normally wouldnt go...What should I do? I don't want to hurt her feelings!!! Please Help~

2007-03-11 23:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by HaX 2

just wondered what time zones you are in

2007-03-11 23:30:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my soon to be wife likes to bug me A LOT. its like i can never have any alone time ever. i work from home and i cant concentrate on my work cause shes always looking over my shoulder at what im doing and being real nosey and distracting me and wanting to go out and do things when i need to work. she doesnt work cause for some reason she got an idea from her family that she doesnt need to if shes in a relationship with a man thats well off financially. i told her she needs to get a job cause im not going to support her but i will help educate her in whatever it is she wants to be doing. but she doesnt take advantage of that. so recently ive just wanted her to shut up and leave me alone cause shes driving me crazy its like she wants to be glued to me i love her and everything but its gotten to a point its ridiculous i have dozens of things i want to accomplish in my life and i dont know how im going to do all these things if im with her and she wants to bug me constantly im depressed now

2007-03-11 23:15:22 · 9 answers · asked by v.e.n.d.e.t.t.a 2

I am 23 yr old.i have a B.F. who is a yr older to me.i live in banglore and he is in Mumbai.v meet once in 3 months.otherwise,v talk on phone everyday for one hour and also sms in between. V r a great pair and have been going on for 4 yrs (since college).v r committed towards marriage also. V were together for 2.5 yrs den he got a job in Mumbai and I in banglore. He loves me a lot. I too love him. No probems between us. Now, the problem is in my office one guy likes me .(actually lot of guys do, as I am little more than avg looking) v talk to each other some times but only friends..so, I have started to like him also.moreover, he is of the same caste as me and dat attracts me as my parents wil not oppose. My B.f and I r of different religion. Actually, I dont care about this but this is also a point. Wat to do? Shud I think of breaking my current relationship? I am too comfortable with my current BF. But I also want this guy in my life. Plz advice

2007-03-11 22:33:52 · 13 answers · asked by kamya aggarwal 2

I already asked this but i only got 2 answers, im hoping to get more. plz anyway:
There was this girl i was talkin to about 2 years ago. Sounds stupid but we were going out (Long distance) we had never even met in person. Yet i still loved her, and she did too at first, and we were 'together' for about a year. but towards the end she acted like such a ***** to me. i found out she was with some guy for a few months. then she told me how much she hates me and how she never really liked or loved me.

And now, between a year n 2 later, i feel like im over her. no feelings or nothing. but from time to time i just get these..images..in my head of things that remind me of her and it gives me chills sometimes. this happens just time after time very randomly. why is this haunting me so much?.

For example, ill just be on the computer, at work, watching tv, trying to go to sleep, doing anything, and suddenly im reminded of her from nothing, just outta nowhere. its like a haunting feeling..

2007-03-11 22:20:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im with a good man who is good for me we are perfect in every way but lately my kids have been telling me and their father that my fiance is mean to them... I'm not sure if their dad is feeding this to them or if there really is merit to it. I will have talked to my fiance about this and he has said he is stricter on my kids then his own because they need more instruction and they are with us every day, wheras his kids are only there a couple days a week so he is more slack on them. I'm not sure what to do and I worry that this will eventually break us up. I dont want my kids to be treated badly and if thats the case I'm outta here. Just not sure how to approach this one? Someone help please!

2007-03-11 22:13:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's the best way to train my wife. I know it's against the law to hit, but I would appriciate some good (and legal) negative punishment for her.

2007-03-11 21:54:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well... I just met with his folks recently. I feel relly offended with his dad's words. Everything he says is like against us. I feel so upset. After the visit, both me and my boyfriend didn't talk about it. We acted normally. I'm not sure if he knows or understand how i feel but i aint the kind of girl who tell everything especially my feeling to anyone. It's hard for me to utter all those words to him as me myself afraid that he will feel offended cause it's his dad i'm gonna talk about. I don't think his parents do like me. It really makes me look like a fool on that day. It hurt me badly but i cant say anything yet. I don't dare to say anything to him yet.

2007-03-11 21:41:12 · 3 answers · asked by wonder 1

2007-03-11 21:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by Bala 1

a lots of humors are now heard from the grandparents..they said that its the most important a girl has...if you lose it do you think your still complete? What if you gave it to the wrong person? How do you feel if you're not a virgin?

2007-03-11 21:15:05 · 10 answers · asked by marylyn g 2

Ok me and this girl i met her a while back and we became bestfriends.But i dont know if i can be her bestfriend because i like her and i told her and she didnt say and thing and she doesnt think its weird and were still bestfriends and we been talking alot no matter what time it is. When i get close to her she doesnt move or anything and we stand there and her arms are around me and mine are around her. But i dont think she likes me. When we talk she keeps smiling no matter what i say she smiles and when we don't talk we just look into eachothers eyes. And if i stay friends with her i know that i would start liking her more and more. She hits me alot so i like hit her softly and she just starts smiling at me and i love being with her and talking to her. I don't think she gets it maybe she does.

2007-03-11 21:12:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What characteristics would you endow & bestow upon your creation?

What would you give them that you don't have now?

2007-03-11 20:56:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

does this mean i have pushed him away completely? i dont mean to twist words around it just how i interpret what he said

2007-03-11 20:45:34 · 1 answers · asked by boo 1

confused love

2007-03-11 20:45:25 · 8 answers · asked by raghu_cool_at 1

I have lived away from home for a few years now but never actually by myself. i kept myself busy by visiting family on weekends or catching up with friends. sometimes i wear myself out keeping busy but if i stay at home on a day off I end up sleeping in, getting bored and feeling lonely.
I wanted to start foster care as its a dream of mine (see my questions) and it would keep me busy but thinking i'll wait a while yet. I am interested in finding the right man for me but not interested in simply having a boyfriend for the sake of it. I own a dog who lives with my parents and i love the companionship of a dog laying down next to me when studing or watching tv so i'm hoping to get myself a dog.
otherwise i find i can sit at home and just feel bored and lonely. I am extremely shy so not one to go out and join a sporting club(doesnt really interest me) but being alone makes me feel bonkers at times!i find i sit online chatting to friends or plan future dreams and time goes too fast.ideas?

2007-03-11 20:30:25 · 2 answers · asked by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2

If you had a extreemly hard relationship with a person but at the same time there was so much love nomatter what happened.
And you and the girl would fight alote and everytime she would call you back and make it alright.

Then one day you messed up to bad, and after that nothing was the same and you treeted her bad becasue she dident want you anymore and she found someone else...

So you stated comeing around where she lived once or twice

But consider the fact this girl never stoped talking to you for longer then 1 weeks when you guys where broken up and now she hassent called you in like a mounth and one week!

What dose that mean...?
What dose that person want?
Do you think he still cares?
In you'r opengion what is going thought this guys mind?

2007-03-11 20:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by Jazz 3

Life sucks rigt now and i want good help. I just want to go ot sleep and never wake up.

2007-03-11 20:19:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

his wife to be is 7 months pregnant and he has another son from someone else. i love him but i think its too late. he said he'll call me back tomorrow so we can talk about this.
what kind of advice can i give him to make sure he says "i do" on Saturday....pls i am desperate ....i still love him but he needs to move on with his life and i with mine....

2007-03-11 20:15:47 · 13 answers · asked by centralmite 1

what type of girl physcially do you loke, eample what color hair and eyes, hair length, skin type, lips, height, body, style, personality, and be specific.

2007-03-11 20:06:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know anyone who has a happy marriage. my parents just need to get a divorce i dont get why there even married, my mom cheats on my dad and cant stand him. also i think i read some where that like 55% of people who get married end up in divorce. so does anyone here have or know someone who has a happy marriage?

2007-03-11 19:49:46 · 21 answers · asked by lindsay 1

My 16th birthday is soon i have no idea what to wear tell me some made ideas!!!

2007-03-11 19:42:48 · 5 answers · asked by princess 4 1

My girlfriend took plan B once and had her period a few days later. A couple weeks later she had to take it again. That time, it took two weeks for her to get the period. Now its been over a month and she still hasn't had one. Is it the plan B? Should I be worried? Should we go to a doctor?

2007-03-11 19:31:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

yeh so i have been with this guy for like a month ok, but i have known this other guy for well over a year through yahoo and we talk on the phone we do our "drunkin webcan nights" and we just have fun i have such strong feelings for this guy whom i have never phisically met but i can't seem to have those feelings for my b/f. i mean i can't be in love with a guy that i haven't physically met before right? we talk about everything and show everything and i know if he lived closer we'd be great together even he said it, it doesn't make sense, i mean i feel alot of the " love feelings" towards this guy, you know what i mean the "lightning bolt, the tingle the smile on your face when here his name the excitement you get when your phone rings and it's him calling, the way you can just sit thre and sing a stupid song with him while you're on the phone and on webcam "scottie doesn't know" thats the song we sang haha it was great, yeh so i have feelings for this guy he's not my b/f wtf do i do

2007-03-11 19:19:26 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet Tartt 1

Don't say "my wife". That's cute, but no.

2007-03-11 19:15:25 · 9 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2

My boyfriend's daughter continues to mistakenly injure our one year old daughters. Black eye, scratches, bruise on face etc. How do I get him to understand that it may be jealousy instead of accidents. Every time his daughter comes over the baby is injured by her and she just says sorry it was a mistake just letting you know before she (meaning me) makes a big situation out of it.

2007-03-11 19:14:59 · 8 answers · asked by Marcella D 2

another caseworker on our case told us the 1st one should have never removed our children from our home and that she didnt file the proper paper work to do so ..but our kids were removed from our home and sent to my mothers house 3 hours away while in her care DCS never call to check on them like the caseworker said she would and she also told us she would be at our home on tuesday(this bgan saturday night the kids were removed then) she never called or showed up until thursday of the next week..the new caseworker doesnt understand some of the things that went on or why the other caseworker did what she did now the old case worker put in a request for court order supervision on our kids (all this b/c i reported my oldest son being molested by a family member(a distant cousin) but they are treatin me and my hubby like its our fault and still havent talked to any other kids claiming that they were also molested by the same man ....this is in tennessee

2007-03-11 19:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by touchmeforever2004 2

ok so i have been with this guy for alittle over a month, i am pretty sure is in love with me, he has stated a few times that he is refraining from saying the "L" word because he doesn't want to scare me away. ok so i don't love him as a matter of fact i knda feel nothing when i am with him, no tingle no lightning bolt no nothing, he's a great guy but i am pretty sure he's not the right guy for me. he already stated that he is going to try to change me so that i am not so weird, i am a weird perverted girl i like to do weird stuff i like to be spontanius sometimes but he's like the opposite, my sis's man siad he acts like he was locked away in a box for years becuase he just doesn't know alot of stuff about stuff, he's like this big computer geek math guy i dunno i just don't feel like we click and i just don't know how to tell him especially sinse we have had sex already, he's kinda not good at that either or kissing i dunno what to do :( please help

2007-03-11 19:11:51 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet Tartt 1

I'm going with the chimpanzee.

2007-03-11 18:49:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a coworker that I get along with really well. We have the same sense of humour and the same ideals and opinions, so we talk all the time at work. But that's it! We've only socialized once outside of work, and it was totally harmless. I have e-mailed him on the weekend two times and called him at home once in a year of working together, and it was always because we needed to talk about something work related that couldn't wait until the next business day. The relationship is totally innocent.

However, his wife seems to think otherwise. When she comes by, she is either cold towards me or ignores me. He has apologized before for the way she treats me, so I know I'm not imagining this! Also, she always seems to go out of her way to subtly let me know that she doesn't plan on sharing her husband. (She's very clingy, and my coworker has said that she's not like this at home)

What can I do to show his wife that I'm not interested and that she doesn't need to be concerned?

2007-03-11 18:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous