My Girlfriend kept on asking me to go to places (Parties and clubbing) that I normally wouldnt go...What should I do? I don't want to hurt her feelings!!! Please Help~
2007-03-11 23:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by HaX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The thing is I dont want to change. She enjoys having fun in Parties/Clubbing while I am the more conservative type.
2007-03-12 00:00:37 · update #1
What are your reasons for not normally going to places like that? Is it something that would change, like getting used to the scene or gradually making more friends in her group? Or is it something that definitely isn't going to change? It's not clear from your question whether you've actually gone to any of these places yet or not.
If it's something that definitely isn't going to change, your only option is to explain yourself to her, with both self-respect and respect for her. Then it's up to her to decide whether she can then adapt to you or not.
2007-03-11 23:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Fiona J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing always happend to me. just tell her no. dont worry about hurting her feelings. if shes worth it she'll accept that its not ur type of thing. maybe think of other things u guys can do together. if she keeps bothering u and wont respect that thats not what u want to do maybe u should find another girlfriend one that shares more of ur same interests. ive had bad experiences with girlfriends that like to party and goto clubs too much sometimes its better to just find someone else.
2007-03-12 00:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by v.e.n.d.e.t.t.a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your grandma's sick and you have to go visit her.
2007-03-11 23:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then just go with her!
2007-03-11 23:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by CELiNE:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋