yeh so i have been with this guy for like a month ok, but i have known this other guy for well over a year through yahoo and we talk on the phone we do our "drunkin webcan nights" and we just have fun i have such strong feelings for this guy whom i have never phisically met but i can't seem to have those feelings for my b/f. i mean i can't be in love with a guy that i haven't physically met before right? we talk about everything and show everything and i know if he lived closer we'd be great together even he said it, it doesn't make sense, i mean i feel alot of the " love feelings" towards this guy, you know what i mean the "lightning bolt, the tingle the smile on your face when here his name the excitement you get when your phone rings and it's him calling, the way you can just sit thre and sing a stupid song with him while you're on the phone and on webcam "scottie doesn't know" thats the song we sang haha it was great, yeh so i have feelings for this guy he's not my b/f wtf do i do
2007-03-11 19:19:26 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet Tartt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah we also agree that brown eyed girl by van morrisin reminds us of each other and we sang that too, god i'm screwed. he lives like 5 hrs away.
2007-03-11 19:30:21 · update #1
sounds like a great plan...just make sure when you do meet you have someone with you. if you like him that much, get together sometime, just not alone...never a good idea.
2007-03-11 19:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you, without trying to rain on your parade, is meet him now or cut him loose. Why? Because the feelings will only get stronger and everything is completely different in person. If you already have a boyfriend, you could lose him as well during your online charade. I just ended a nightmare relationship, where we were both convinced we were in love, etc, etc... It went on for 4 months and I felt completely safe because I had met him in person (first) on 3 different occasions. We talked about everything under the sun, and I thought this m*therf*cker was really my soul mate. Well, I was in for quite a treat when he came home and nothing was like it was supposed to be.
In short, he had lied about being married...leaving out 2 of 4 kids that he fathered. He couldn't stay away from his (supposed) ex-wife who really isn't his ex yet! Talk about a nightmare. When asking myself what I could have done differently...I could have waited until he came back home to find these things out - instead of investing love and care packages, phone bills, online chat time, etc...
A nightmare I'm still recovering from. Meet him now before you invest another minute, and that's the best advice anyone here can give you.
2007-03-12 02:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Gorgeous George 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should thank your lucky stars you are not married with this problem.
You have the freedom to choose who you want to be with but, obviously, you can't have both.
Ask yourself, what does on-line man have or do for you that reality man is lacking? What is it that you REALLY want from your man?
Can you and reality man communicate better to re-kindle your romance? Remember what attracted you to reality man in the first place.
On-line man is a fantasy and unless you plan on going to meet him in person sometime soon, I would stay off the computer for a while and dedicate yourself to the man who is right in front of you.
2007-03-12 03:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...there was a time when i really liked this guy. he was a friend of my brother. i study in an all girls school and him in an all boys. ive met him physically but hardly ever. i kinda started liking him after a few chats on ym. then i thought i really liked him even though i only REALLY knew him on the pc. after a while, i realized i didnt really like him and that i just thought i did. i got a crush on a chat window and that was all. i didnt REALLY know him and i knew i was just kidding myself...i hope you'll understand ur feelings better...good luck
2007-03-12 03:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by vrules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Coffee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 03:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by ennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋