Other - Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

whenever my bf has a problem he runs away from it. now he is running away from me and i cant let it happen. we are not a problem, but he has convinced himself that we are so that he can run away and feel safe. i dont understand it, clearly his thinking is off. the point is, he wants to stop being with me, bc he has convinced himself that his rough life (drugs, bad childhood, etc) will be better without me, even though i have made his life better. and im not saying that to be cocky. i raise his spirits when hes down and help him get help he needs with councelors etc. i have been his rock, and he is pushing me away bc he just wants to run away from his problematic life instead of confronting it.

in relationships, when one person pushes away, the other holds on tighter. that is what saves the relationship, isnt it?

what can i do to convince him that he cant run away from me, from his problems. im afraid without me he could end up in serious trouble in his life.

2007-03-11 11:25:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-11 11:21:29 · 15 answers · asked by Nic 5

OK...so here's the problem. My boyfriend and I have been becoming more distant and we've only been going out for three months. I don't know if maybe its suppose to be that way since we're coming out of the beginning stages. Or is this a sign that we're going to break up? .....

I only see him once a week since he goes to boarding school and we use to talk everynight on the phone but now its only twice a week. Its not that he doesnt call me as often as before , but we really dont know what going on in each others lives. Gosh ...i love him so much...and he has told me he loves me too...=(


Anyways... please help how should I talk to him about it ...or should I just leave it alone??...........

serious answers please!!......thanks

2007-03-11 11:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by badmab07 2

Why I am asking is because my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. The 1st 3 months were CRAZY. It was sooooo much fun and absolutely nothing was wrong.

3 months ago I woke up with this thought that I had fallen out of love with him. I was scared to death. Didnt eat or sleep for at least a week...was just a mess!

I dont feel like I love him as much as I have loved some of my ex's (abusive relationships...mostly emotionally) Now I just have fun with my current beau but for some reason am having doubts. I feel as though I have 2 ppl arguing about it. One telling me I love him the other telling me I dont....

Is it normal to feel this way? Am I just not in love with him yet? I don't think that it was just infatuation and then fizzled down and realized who we both really were together. There is no reason that it could have fizzled down cause he is everything I want...
This is my 1st non dramatic relationship and my friends say I seem so myself!
Thanks

2007-03-11 11:14:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Any latinos in here?

2007-03-11 11:12:21 · 3 answers · asked by robinsonliliana 1

2007-03-11 11:06:43 · 4 answers · asked by MEE 2

He's 17 ...... and ...... does he need to be in a rehab or can it be done by himself at home ??? What things would be an aide ?

2007-03-11 11:02:02 · 5 answers · asked by burlingtony 2

Like not beening greedy but like to buy you a pair of shoes or a shirt or a pair of earrings or something for your room. How do u get them to do it or get it for you. ( in other words , have them PAY for it?)

2007-03-11 10:54:24 · 7 answers · asked by Girly Girl Glam 3

but u are out with freinds,and that person comes up to u and says hi there how u doing ,i havent seen u for ages. do you smack the fu,,,, or just tell her to fu,, off

2007-03-11 10:51:07 · 14 answers · asked by BD M 2

hmm ive always wanted to know this one. your own oppinions please ^^

2007-03-11 10:48:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I havent smoked since this past summer
and now Im thinking about starting again....
I think I already know what I wanna do
so I was just wondering what you think about it
should i or should i not start smoking again?

2007-03-11 10:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by preggo&luvinit 3

I understand that when two people are in love, they have sex. But, every single night at 11 p.m, I am awaken to hear my parents having sex. They are so loud and I can't get to sleep. They have sex until 3 a.m and I have no sleep. I am a light sleeper, so I am awaken very easily and if I don't get my sleep I am very weak during the day. How can I deal with this? Should I talk with them about it? Or what? (No rude answers please!) Thanks.

2007-03-11 10:37:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I seldom meet my cousins because they are far away from me... and the seas of the Philippine archipelago separates us. During those times that we're together, I have this feeling I cant deny. Is it wrong to have a crush on your blood relative? I mean, I did not want to have this feeling... but i cant deny it!

2007-03-11 10:32:52 · 5 answers · asked by CA 1

what should i do???

2007-03-11 10:31:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-11 10:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by hosamzoromba 1

week as she has epilepsy and the baby is a new born and the husband is firing for divorce and getting custody of their daughter. it wouldn't be safe to leave her with her mother and I am her only hope to see her daughter as the law won't allow her to have the baby unless there's a member of the family there with my sister (that would be me) as the fits could happen anytime and she could drop the baby if it happened when she was holding her.As for me if I go it would be for a few years and she was the one who helped me get where I am now. So I owe it to her.I just wish there were two of me so that everyone is happy.Thanks to everyone who answered my question before.You really helped me get the right answer.

2007-03-11 10:27:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says hi when we pass in the hall, but i cant do more than smile, what do i do

2007-03-11 10:25:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do i get over being heart broken?... It brings me down pretty much daily...

2007-03-11 10:24:23 · 3 answers · asked by zach b 1

My girlfriend has given me small reasions to lose trust in her countless times. Most of my friends tell me that I should just let her go but I love her with every thing I have. But now every time I see some thing that seem like her cheating I start to jump to conclusions and say it is. Ive never been a jealous person untill now. So is this jealousy I have or just lost in trust in her?

2007-03-11 10:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by smith2cool06 1

We just had our first lil one 2 months ago and she had one already this was our first valentines(long story) and we didnt even go anywhere and her birthday is this week and she wants to go out with her friends, im not mad but its like we haven't been alone for even an hour since she got pregnant, is she playin with me to just keep me around or what? I don't understand we live together now i moved outta my apartment to move with her (longer story) and we sleep in the same bed but i feel like she doesnt even have interest in me anymore anytime we get a chance to have free time for ourselves and i ask if wants to have lunch, dinner or anything theres always an excuse i;m almost ready to give up trying to put the spark back in our relationship, we don't have sex and barely kiss anymore should i try to still make this work? (im goona take care of my son regardless)we are supposed to get married! please no answers about birth control or condoms too late for that i already know

2007-03-11 09:42:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. need a new scree name and heres what stuff you could use.
I love animals
i love Life
i love to laugh
i love my friends
My name is Misty
I love Hockey
and i Love LoVing Life!! lol
DONT do something corny like. animallover33.
Make it kinda interesting. And unique Please.

2007-03-11 09:13:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Races have nothing to do with this in a way, but I came from a short family and I'm asian and I'm 5'10 I'm not happy or sad but I feel like I am not part of the family, somehow. I get people staring at me everywhere just because I'm 5'10, I mean I'm not 6'5 or anything? I kind of feel thats bothering me alot.

2007-03-11 08:58:49 · 6 answers · asked by Jason 5

I have asked this question already but I seem to be getting similar answers no matter how I put it. I have gotten the answers saying looks dont matter and pick which one I fits me better...if I was able to answer these questions than I would be able to make this decision. I guess try to put yourself in my situation...

There are two girls in my freshman class that I seem to like and they both seem to like me. One of them I went out with for a little under two months...Over the summer I made a bad decision and let my friends from the camp I go to pressure me into doing some stuff with a girl that was at the camp. One of my friends from camp also lives in my town and told her and that is how we broke up. We had both moved on...she went to a different school for 2 years but now we are friends again and I think she sort of likes me. The other girl is not as attractive as my ex but we are a little bit better friends...we are not best friends so if i say anything it wont be that i

2007-03-11 08:56:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this is the fight I was in, Im the shorter one. Please dont say i got whooped becuase it wasnt close to a fair fight. What do you think about it?
http://s14.photobucket.com/albums/a301/missy_68/?action=view¤t=fightt002.flv

2007-03-11 08:51:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay well the ex still calls me, shes got a new man now and she i guess wnats to be friends i think... I mean if she still liked me she would have told me...

but anyways how do i stop talkin to her with out telling her i wnt to move on...

shuld i simply not answer, or shuld i answer and tell her i will call her later or wut...

whats the best way to do this without creating any anger

2007-03-11 08:25:59 · 17 answers · asked by zach b 1

2007-03-11 08:24:23 · 3 answers · asked by big burts bollox 2

2007-03-11 08:18:44 · 12 answers · asked by big burts bollox 2

My husband works a lot. I really love him and he is my best friend, but when he is home for extended periods of time, he messes up the routine.
Please don't get me wrong--we are a happy family, but I enjoy that I can spend time and energy on my son and do things for myself--I also love taking care of my husband, but sometimes, ..I'm just ready for him to get back to work--it sounds so mean--
I think absence does make the heart grow fonder.
What do you think?

2007-03-11 08:17:04 · 10 answers · asked by smp1969 3

Well she calls me and tells me she might only talk to me as an aquaintence cuz it wuldnt be fair to this new guy... anyways shes back in town for a week and we talk on and off for a few days the conversations start getting better and better... eventually she asked if a few of my friends were still a couple and said thats so nice and said it wuld be 2 years in october if we were still going out... So i go to bed thinking wow shes coming around but its been 4-5 days and she hasnt called back like she said she would...

I am just so confused why call me on and off and even talk about our old relationship then just stop calling.... what doews this mean!
?

my question is what do i do from here... Keep my cool waiting for another call and just be my self, or confront her and call her letting her know im upset and hurt and torn, or just try to talk to her...

im still very much in love with her....So what do I do... What can I do...!?!? help!!

2007-03-11 08:09:59 · 7 answers · asked by zach b 1

my new partner refuses to have sex during my period and thinks its odd that i want to! he reckons that most guys wouldnt and im just curious what other people think.

2007-03-11 08:01:08 · 59 answers · asked by louise c 1