OK...so here's the problem. My boyfriend and I have been becoming more distant and we've only been going out for three months. I don't know if maybe its suppose to be that way since we're coming out of the beginning stages. Or is this a sign that we're going to break up? .....
I only see him once a week since he goes to boarding school and we use to talk everynight on the phone but now its only twice a week. Its not that he doesnt call me as often as before , but we really dont know what going on in each others lives. Gosh ...i love him so much...and he has told me he loves me too...=(
Anyways... please help how should I talk to him about it ...or should I just leave it alone??...........
serious answers please!!......thanks
2007-03-11 11:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by badmab07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Long distance relationships are hard. He's around other people that you don't know, and you're with other people he doesn't know.
Are you both strong enough to really have this withstand time? It depends. You only see him once a week, used to talk every night and it's changed to only twice a week.
For me, when I was in long distance relationships, we'd talk at least 5 nights a week, and we saw each other every weekend if we could.
But different couples handle it different ways. If nothing else has changed, and he's still interested in your life and vice versa, don't worry so much about it.
Your relationship is so new to be going through long distance, and it's going to be very hard since you haven't gotten to know each other well BEFORE the long distance started.
2007-03-11 11:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Fabulously Broke in the City 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation, but a bit worse. my bf is not talking to me anymore and we are very distant now. i also suspect he is cheating on me or either he has lost interest in me now.
anyway, he may just probably be busy, so he doesnt have time to call you a lot. But at least he still makes effort to talk to you every week to remind you he still loves you. But if you want to talk with him more often tell him how you feel. communication is key to have the relationship to continue.
2007-03-11 18:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't even guess if something is wrong...only the two of you would know that so my advice would be definitely to talk about it with him. If it's bugging you, you should discuss it or it will probably keep driving you crazy and you may be worried for no reason. Long distance relationships are tricky beasts but with good communication it is doable (at least for some time)! Good luck!
2007-03-11 18:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by oreocat7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow okay you seem a little shooken up about this and i can see why what the question on my mind is does he still tell you he loves you and do you tell him you love him????????
because if you do your relationship is just distant if i were you (which i'm not ) i would call him and talk to him about it (but calmly don't freak him out by making him think you are going to break up with him) and tell him you love him and you just want to know how he feels about it hoped i helped hun take care and follow your heart!!!!!!!!!!:)
2007-03-11 18:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bubble S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is talk about it. That is the only way you will know what is going on in his head.
2007-03-11 18:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by ☆Soon 2 be Mom of 2☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you than contue to go out with him
see where this relationship goes!
2007-03-11 18:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by monnie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt like that to...but mine was different...if he goes to boarding skool...i really don't think it's going to work out gurl...ur relationship will just drift more apart....so mayybe j sould just end it now...before yyou fall more for the guyy...
2007-03-11 20:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by sw33t ch33kz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋