Why doesn't she want do anything with just me and her?

Question

We just had our first lil one 2 months ago and she had one already this was our first valentines(long story) and we didnt even go anywhere and her birthday is this week and she wants to go out with her friends, im not mad but its like we haven't been alone for even an hour since she got pregnant, is she playin with me to just keep me around or what? I don't understand we live together now i moved outta my apartment to move with her (longer story) and we sleep in the same bed but i feel like she doesnt even have interest in me anymore anytime we get a chance to have free time for ourselves and i ask if wants to have lunch, dinner or anything theres always an excuse i;m almost ready to give up trying to put the spark back in our relationship, we don't have sex and barely kiss anymore should i try to still make this work? (im goona take care of my son regardless)we are supposed to get married! please no answers about birth control or condoms too late for that i already know

Answer 1

Many women lose interest in sex and so on after childbirth.

You won't be able to judge whether the spark will ever return for quite a while, unfortunately.