but u are out with freinds,and that person comes up to u and says hi there how u doing ,i havent seen u for ages. do you smack the fu,,,, or just tell her to fu,, off
2007-03-11 10:51:07 · 14 answers · asked by BD M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Neither, smile very sweetly and say you are wonderful. You are an adult now and its time to put childish happenings behind you.
2007-03-11 10:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd just say hi, keep stone cold (cos she can remember what she's done to you!!!) and don't be too friendly. No need to make a spectacle of yourself by becoming angry and telling her to please feck off asap.
btw this thing happens to me all the time, i know so many ppl that were horrible bullies at school, and now pretend they're the best friends in the world. Yeah right, like i'm going to forget what they did to me....
2007-03-15 09:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Eevaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what sort of person you are and if you hold a grudge.....
I bumped in my school bully 5 years after and she said Hi there I just said Pis s off,
It felt good not to be scared of her anymore
2007-03-11 10:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People change! But if they were really horrible to you then you will know deep down whether to give a second chance to. Suss them out and don't give too much away - play coy. You are asking this question - so you must think they are genuine.
2007-03-11 11:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by Janie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you to forgive that person or just to walk off. The biggest question in my mind is has that person actually changed or was she just being nice. Perhaps she is now feeling guilty and regrets how she treated you. Maybe you can see if she is worth letting into your life, and if not just walk away...no harm done.
Hope this babble helps.
2007-03-11 10:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by whitechocolateyumyum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have said, theres a good reason for that, you are a terrible person and I want nothing to do with you.... Then walk away. You are an adult and shouldn't act childish but don't be nice either.
2007-03-11 10:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your better than this person, jut say hi and leave it at that.
thay will probley regret what they did anyway and feel ashamed of themelves when they see you. kids can be cruel sometimes but it is just a front, a way to fit in or a way of dealing with another situaion.
2007-03-11 10:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me, i got bullied 4 about 4 years from this girl at school, then, like you said about 12 years l8r, i was out clubbing with some girlfriends when this big fat ugly thing came up to me and said "hi fay remember me, How you doing" i looked at her and said, "really good, actually no thanks to you," i turned round and just walked away, she didnt know where to look, don't hit her, it will make you just as bad as her, your a stronger person 2 walk away, and your the 1 with good friends, not her... good luck!
2007-03-15 06:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by fay y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either say hi and then turn away or be like sorry I cant remember you at all and walk off.
But to be honest it's best to be gracious and not to brag about how well you are doing. Dont lower yourself....
2007-03-13 01:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how bad they were to you. can't you hold your head high to show them you are over it and proceed to tell them how well you are doing in life (and make them feel bad at the same time) lol. only kidding, most people who have bullied others feel totally ashamed when they are older and wiser, the same thing happened to me. it was so bad that i couldnt leave my house in fear of the other kids but now when they see me they hang their head in shame.
2007-03-11 11:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by YVONNE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋