Well she calls me and tells me she might only talk to me as an aquaintence cuz it wuldnt be fair to this new guy... anyways shes back in town for a week and we talk on and off for a few days the conversations start getting better and better... eventually she asked if a few of my friends were still a couple and said thats so nice and said it wuld be 2 years in october if we were still going out... So i go to bed thinking wow shes coming around but its been 4-5 days and she hasnt called back like she said she would...
I am just so confused why call me on and off and even talk about our old relationship then just stop calling.... what doews this mean!
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my question is what do i do from here... Keep my cool waiting for another call and just be my self, or confront her and call her letting her know im upset and hurt and torn, or just try to talk to her...
im still very much in love with her....So what do I do... What can I do...!?!? help!!
2007-03-11 08:09:59 · 7 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she is dating someone else, she has obviously moved on. She probably wants to be friends with you and be close, but is probably not thinking you are still in love with her. You need to tell her how you feel and if she isn't interested in being with you again, I suggest you tell her that you need time to move on because talking to her brings up your old feelings and confuses you.
2007-03-11 08:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it seems she was just talking to you. I don't think she ever wanted to get back together with you. I say just cut her out of her life. As much as you probably don't want to, it's the best thing in 98% of breakups. If you stay friends, it would just complicate things more. I would say that you shouldn't wait for a call or call her. Move on. Meet someone new. Take some time to get over her, but move on.
2007-03-11 15:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Desperate for Answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she has another guy, so this won't go anywhere. Anyway, would you want a chick that goes behind her BF's back?
You want to hook up and maybe sleep with her, then keep your cool, don't confront, and perhaps give her a call and say you want to catch up and hang out a bit because you miss her.
You want to move on, then DON'T return calls, because she's only calling you to keep her options open. Don't set up a meeting, and just ask about her current boyfriend and how they're doing.
Your call...
2007-03-11 15:16:28 · answer #3 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that she is still confused and she didn't commit totally to the other guy, if am in your place i would never retreat... Go ahead start teaching yourself some tips on how to get her back through doing things that might amaze her. Be creative and fight for your love. Everyone desirve a second chance.
2007-03-11 15:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by abeer k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants her cake and to eat it too. She doesn't want you or like you enough for you to be her boyfriend, and she doesn't have nice enough manners to call you when she says she will.
What she wants is for you to swoon over her and boost her ego when she feels it needs to be blown up a bit.
Drop her like a bad habit--which is really all she is
Find someone who will like you and respect you and not use you
You are not in love with her--love is a 2-way street--I think the person you should worry about loving more is yourself-like yourself enough to not accept such mean behavior from others--don't be a sap
2007-03-11 15:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by smp1969 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her! That is the only way you'll know where you stand, then you can get on with or without her in your life. But don't be afraid to ask the question!
2007-03-11 15:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by missbubbles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's a saying ,curiosity killed the cat ,women by nature are very curious .
i don't think she meant much more ,just that curiosity .
there's a reason she's your ex ,time to move on .
2007-03-11 15:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋