Why I am asking is because my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. The 1st 3 months were CRAZY. It was sooooo much fun and absolutely nothing was wrong.
3 months ago I woke up with this thought that I had fallen out of love with him. I was scared to death. Didnt eat or sleep for at least a week...was just a mess!
I dont feel like I love him as much as I have loved some of my ex's (abusive relationships...mostly emotionally) Now I just have fun with my current beau but for some reason am having doubts. I feel as though I have 2 ppl arguing about it. One telling me I love him the other telling me I dont....
Is it normal to feel this way? Am I just not in love with him yet? I don't think that it was just infatuation and then fizzled down and realized who we both really were together. There is no reason that it could have fizzled down cause he is everything I want...
This is my 1st non dramatic relationship and my friends say I seem so myself!
Thanks
2007-03-11 11:14:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's more normal to become "bored" (if you'll allow me to use that word) in a stable relaxing relationship than a wild as you say "dramatic" one. The highs and lows in the dramatic are just more fun but also more emotionally draining. Not healthy in the long run but everyone should try it once.
2007-03-11 11:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by zp055att 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, especially if you are still a teen ager. Relationships are quite fluid when you are very young and inexperienced. Time to move on.
It is good that you ditched an abusive boyfriend.
Find other activities, make new friends, and maybe there will be a nice boy to befriend.
If you are still in school, you really need to concentrate on doing well in your classes. Boyfriends can WAIT. Boys really don't become fully human until they are in their early twenties anyway!
2007-03-11 11:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oddly enough, sounds pretty normal to me. If your friends say that you seem so yourself and you feel comfortable, I'd say just wait and see how it goes...I find the older you get, the less craziness there is in meaningful relationships...and really it's only been 6 months...sounds like things are heading down a good path to me!
2007-03-11 11:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by oreocat7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. You are not used to a normal relationship and don't know how to handle being happy with no drama. It's rather nice if you give it a chance. Don't be in a rush.
2007-03-11 11:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every relationship starts with crazy and then gets normal-you'll keep doing this until you find someone who makes you feel crazy all the time-that's the difference between love and infatuation
2007-03-11 11:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Melinda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are one of those women that craves drama in their relationship, u love him, and yet u are looking for the soap opera plots which is not happenning because u finally find a guy who treats u right, try to adjust yourself, this might be ur happily ever after guy.
2007-03-11 11:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine all of us have a touch loopy in each and each individuals. i'm usually very suspicious of absolutely everyone who claims they are thoroughly sane. loopy human beings can each now and then be "smarter" than frequent human beings because they have a distinct way of searching at issues and do not continuously experience the favor to slot in or imagine like easily everyone else. it truly is now to not say that they are continuously suitable yet they can each now and then furnish unique ideas to ascertain a project.
2016-12-01 20:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to say becasue i am not an expertice in this area but i say give yourself time to adjust and see if you still feel the same way..if you are still having doubts then i think we both know that you ARENT in love with him, you guys are better off as friends...but i really dont know just trying to help!
2007-03-11 11:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by dani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because you haven't had a relationship like this.. You just have to get used to it.. (a relationship without drama)
2007-03-11 11:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by ~Katie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your neither crazy or normal, your just human. people can have break-downs in their life but if u really want to be with your boyfriend then go ahead
2007-03-11 11:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋