week as she has epilepsy and the baby is a new born and the husband is firing for divorce and getting custody of their daughter. it wouldn't be safe to leave her with her mother and I am her only hope to see her daughter as the law won't allow her to have the baby unless there's a member of the family there with my sister (that would be me) as the fits could happen anytime and she could drop the baby if it happened when she was holding her.As for me if I go it would be for a few years and she was the one who helped me get where I am now. So I owe it to her.I just wish there were two of me so that everyone is happy.Thanks to everyone who answered my question before.You really helped me get the right answer.
2007-03-11 10:27:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
close your eyes and follow your heart..make sure u choose the rite decsion for u and only you..do what u think is best for u and not what u feel u should do..if ur going to be unhappy bcos u feel u sud be out there thats unfair to ur sister and her children..they deserve the best of u...and like u said it wudnt be forever..and lifes adventures dont come along to often..who knws whats in store for you..ive always thght that life was to be lived and if u get to help ur sister along the way what more could u ask for??? goodluck..and remember regret is a terrible thing to live in...
2007-03-11 10:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she on medication?? i know lots of people who have kids and have epilepsy including single mums im in the uk so maybe the law is different there.i personally would go a few years in Italy cant be bad plus you get to help your sister keep her child which would be fantastic remember it is only a few years for you but this is a live changing decision for your sister hope everything goes well whatever you decide
2007-03-12 05:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Italy
2007-03-11 17:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by kjh06_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to rearrange your life for awhile in order to help your sister? This is something very important and would mean a lot to her. This has to be up to you. Yes it is a shame we can't clone ourselves but giving of ourselves only makes us stronger.
2007-03-11 17:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋