All your boyfriend did is talk mostly about freaky things? We have been dating now for about 3 months now and his birthday is real soon. So he told me that he will be here a few days before his birthday to spend some time with me. But I am scared that it could lead from one thing to the other. What should I do, I love him and all but I don' t think that I am ready for all of that! And the thing about it is that this will be the first time that I will get to see him in person and we really want to see each other, but I don't think that he is just with me for me, I have a feeling deep inside my gut that he is playing me. But when I asked him about it he said that he would never do that to me, because he know what it is like to be heartbroken. I just don't know!!!
2007-03-11 23:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you have a gut feeling about this guy you should trust it. If you do meet him and it all starts getting too much for you organise a friend to ring you at a certain time or you could tell your man that you aren't ready for the sexual side of the relationship yet and would like to get to know him better before you even go there. Just make sure you are smart about it and have everything covered incase something goes wrong. Good luck and i hope that you stay safe.
2007-03-12 00:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you meet this guy? What freaky things does he talk about? If you have never met him how are you 'dating'? You need to make sure that meeting him is what you really want because I get the feeling that it isn't and if not then tell him. Personally I would go with your gut instinct and stay away.
2007-03-11 23:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that its a good idea to meet this guy just yet. Sure it will be nice to meet him in person and all but do you really know him? Do you know enough about him to even be considering meeting him ALONE? Trust your instinct. God gave us instinct thats almost as real as him slapping us in the face saying " quit doing that". This guy sounds dodgy... make an excuse of going out of town and never contact him again.
2007-03-12 00:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your woman's instinct. If he ever comes to see you, make sure you go out with a friend of yours. NEVER go alone. You will know first hand if his intentions are true or if he's just playing around. It is still good to see him, so you'll know if you two could get along pretty well. If he does otherwise, well, it's time to wrap it up and move on.
2007-03-12 00:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by aLLie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so crazy how poeple can sit there &straight B.S.us in our face &still use that played out story about how they would never play with someones heart cause they know how it feelsB.S girl STOP,NO&DONT GO THERE!IF HE RESPECTS U &feels your worth it he will chill till your ready but if you have an od feeling about someone or something dont go against your gut feeling i really believe thats the one thing that will lead you the right way ,goodluck
2007-03-12 00:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by buggazmommy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is one thing that I have learned from my dating experiences and that is a woman should always trust her instinct. Too many times I have ignored my gut and ended up regreting it later and spending time being heart broken.
2007-03-12 00:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never met him in person. Well go out with him right instead of going to a quiet place and test what he is like. If your suspicions get the better of you then just tell him its not going to work.
2007-03-11 23:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut instincts.Tell him in advance you are not ready for what he may be expecting .So if that is why he is comming he needs to forget it.If he comes then dont be alone with him.Always have someone with you.Be careful hun....
2007-03-11 23:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by annie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your insticts. Simple as that
2007-03-12 00:13:13 · answer #9 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut
2007-03-12 00:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋