v r in luv for 2yrs. all was fine till now. we belong to orthodox families. are families will never give permission for marriage. but we still thought when the right time came we will ask their permission. my bf was the one who used to say lets get married even if our parents doesnt agree. and i was the one who used to say we should respect their feeling also and should seek their permission even if it takes some time.cause we belong to middle class indian families. yesterday all of a sudden he decedided we cant get married for 5-6yrs cause he has 2 younger sis too. & if he marries me they will suffer cause they will not get grooms. this is because we belong to different castes. he says if i luv him i will wait. cause he thinks i can. yes my parents are supporative when i say i need time.but 5-6yrs!!!
i am 27yrs old. waiting for 5-6yrs means telling our parents at 32. i am the only child of my parents. they respect my decisions. but they too have their own dreams regarding my marriage
2007-03-12 07:06:21 · 4 answers · asked by Neelu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you intend on having children the longer you wait the more dangerous it will be for you, you may want to let him in on this fact. If you truly love him, you will wait, but keep in mind the dangers of bearing children at a later time in life.
2007-03-12 07:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's too long of a waiting period and u should talk to him about it and make him understand where ur comming from and what u expect him to do c/s men don't easily understand a womens view of things
2007-03-12 07:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by gator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you will wait. It sounds to me you are spoiled and you want what you want right now. You should respect his wished and if you can't then you should leave him because you do not deserve him.
2007-03-12 07:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by soccerbabe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since he told you, "if you love me you would wait," you tel him "if you love me we should get married now and dont wait 6 years."
2007-03-12 07:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by cbamerica10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋