Other - Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

Just a question,should interacial relationships be allowed?Or should we as people stay pure?Im coloured from south africa,im mixed and inlove with a white guy,whats yall views,comments?

2007-01-28 02:39:46 · 14 answers · asked by Cassý 1

my boyfriend is considering going into the army, and i want to know how this could affect our family life. I really dont know anything about the army so i dont know how all that stuff works but if anybody who is could please tell me how being in the army and having a family works out please let me know!!thankx...

2007-01-28 02:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by alex jade 2

My friend is 17 he has a girlfriend who is 29 he has been with her since he the end of 15. Well, basically he was happy with her at first. She has 2 beautiful kids that he adores, they love him. The woman is a liar and she does have alcoholism, she has smoked marijuana before with a co-worker who is African-American. She is Caucasian & her ex boyfriend she had the two kids with is in prison for selling drugs to the police, he is Filipino. Basically the woman has started causing him a lot of hassle lately & has been lying to him, then confessing the truth about it later. He doesn't really trust her... but she says she has never cheated on him, he knows this woman better than me and told me that he still isn't sure if he can believe her anymore. She still lives with her parents! She abuses drugs when she has them. She drinks a lot, he has tried to help her & given her many chances. but, still she isn't changing. She still isn't what he thought her out to be. what should he do? He <3s her

2007-01-28 02:33:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone knows they way to a girl's heart is to be sweet, sensitive, and caring but how do you win over a guy? Though the guy I like is a little bit out of my leauge I have a hunch he likes me, so how do I win him over?

2007-01-28 02:33:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well im 15 and my bf is 16. I'm really really really in love with him. A few months ago we broke up for 2 days, and he just told me last night that during those two days he got drunk did some stuff with his ex [the one he broke up with for me] and now they have a kid on the way. at first i started freaking out and screaming at him then he started ignoring me [he hates it when i cry] and i told his mom to tell him its over, well she started telling me i need to seriously think about this, she said that i can choose to walk away or stay, but if i chose to leave he might not make it through, but then if i stay im gonna have to have his ex and their baby in my life forever, and im gonna have to deal with him paying attention to them. i'm gonna have to give up alot and become a step mom to this baby at age 15....... what should I do?

2007-01-28 02:32:56 · 28 answers · asked by Just Me 2

I am a new kid in a school. My family moved. I had a choice in gym to do dance or ice hockey, because all the girls picked dance, I chose it too. I am pretty shy, and the thing is that the teacher said we might do the tango in class with a partner. I am nervous because I hate being embarassed. And the thing is that there are some boys in dance too so some of the girls will partner with boys. I dont think we can change to the diffrent sport.What can I do to stop being so cautious about it?

2007-01-28 02:26:42 · 22 answers · asked by berry u 2

2007-01-28 01:54:53 · 34 answers · asked by peanutbulls 4

And what did you lie about?

2007-01-28 01:44:41 · 32 answers · asked by Free Range Human 2

when guys are sitting down, they look down towards their crotch (lol). i've always wanted to know why...i have gotten many answers, but none seem to be correct...

2007-01-28 01:44:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have to sell our house and move soon to another state..(from NY to SC) all my family is here in NY and my dad is in a nursing home..I visit him @ least 3x a wek and talk on the phone to him 3 times a day !! My husband wants to start his own business and all the reasserch weve done tells us our best bet will be in SC... I approached this subject with my mom last year and she practically freaked out !!.. I know I have to do whats right for my family (Im married with 2 small children)..but how do I convince my mothe she has to be more accepting of our decision ??? Im torn.. about my dad..he will be Devastated if we leave.. we just cant afford to stay here and support our family..Help any ideas ?

2007-01-28 01:32:15 · 8 answers · asked by DRD 3

I sometimes see couples groping each other without even thinking who might be watching. Are they not embrassed by their actions or are they just overcome by lust and blinded by love?

2007-01-28 01:27:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19. My parents dont accept my girlfriend cause she is a different race. I am Tamil and my parents want to get me a Tamil girl. I have a Sinhalese girlfriend, and my parents said that if i marry her then they will disown me. What can i do?! I dont want to be unfair to my girlfriend. Even though it will hurt, i think I have to eventually break it off but not too far away, I dont want to lead her on and then break her heart. I think its her right to meet other people, I dont mind being miserable, I just want her to be happy. Please someone help me.

2007-01-28 01:23:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So here's the deal. I've been chatting with this boy that I met online for quite some time now (since about November of last year). I'm really starting to like him, which leaves me with mixed emotions. I would like to meet him, but I also feel that it would be wrong to. The only thing is, though, that we happen to live in the same town! It's extremely bizarre, but there is a university in my town (which makes it a bit more normal). I'm still in high school and he's attending the local college. He said that maybe we could hang out some time. I'm really not sure if it would be safe to, though. Is there any way that I could meet him while being safe at the same time?

2007-01-28 01:21:39 · 18 answers · asked by dancerforlife! 3

i would never dream of getting into a swim/bikini, whatever. i don’t know why.i'm not overweight, i am probably a little more underweight/average. i'm just naturally like this. i also survive in baggy t-shirts and hoodies! everyone always asks me why i do....i don't have an answer for this because i don't know!

in school we have to go swimming and i never go, for the obvious reasons. i've got i don't know how many detentions oover this because i just have to say i forget my stuff.....

i want to wear so many of those tops other people do....but i just can't pull myself to do it!

i have been like this ever since i was about 12/13. it's been so long i don't think it'll change over the years.

yes, before you tell me other people worry about this, i know other people do but i go a little overboard on it....

2007-01-28 01:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel 1

-Would you expect a 14 or 15 year olds to be one?
-What do gentlemen do?
-How do they behave?
-What is your "dream gentleman"?

2007-01-28 01:15:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

WOW WHERE SHOULD I START? I have been a relationship for 3 years now. It have been rocky from the beinging. I n the beginging I have to admit it was my fault.. I didn't help him out with the bills, basically I let him do all the work. And i relize what i was doing and i started working helping out with the bills giving more then he has basically. Since he has been with me. " no lie" he has had over 25 jobs, either he does not get along with his boss or he jus don't like it at all. I even told him that he could stay home and I will work, so he could go to school and find his carrerr that suit him. he says he loves me and thatt he wants do be with me. But honestly i believe is is miserable with his life and him beinging miserable is bringing this relationship down ...what can i do HELP

2007-01-28 01:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by helpless 1

About a year ago my friend got a girl pregnant that he used to date in middle school (we're all the same age, 23 now). Then hadnt spoken sinse middle school and when they met up again last december they started dating again. She gets pregnant, and then they got married after only being together for 6 months. Ever sinse the wedding I never see him anymore, I dont think his wife likes me at all. We've been best friends sinse kindergarden and we've been through everything together. Now I cant even get him to stop by and pick up the gift for the new baby, let alone sit down and have a drink with him and find out whats going on with his parents and such. Its not just me either, none of our other friends ever talk to him anymore either. So did my best friend divorce me? If he did, should I be there for him if him and his new wife hit a rocky time?

2007-01-28 00:44:22 · 18 answers · asked by deere73 2

2007-01-28 00:38:38 · 21 answers · asked by Sam 2

and I just wanna be alone. I wanna switch off the phones and go to a place where nobody knows me and just go crazy and have fun!!
For my bad luck, I'm going on vacation next week but with my whole family, cousins and aunts included. They're nice people but I just wanna be left alone. What should I do? I feel like I'm on the verge of a breakdown and I dont really know why I feel so stressed!

2007-01-28 00:17:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

your all cruel. you know that?
why are women so cruel. Generally ive found women are capable of being much more insensitive.

Its because they know they can get away with it.
your all real sneaky

2007-01-28 00:15:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Apparently your chances are MUCH better of a lasting relationship if you judge your partner within 2 points. Not a lot of people know that. More interestingly, is there anyone out there who would say that their partner is MUCH better looking than they are and if they were strangers they would be out of your league.

2007-01-28 00:12:48 · 18 answers · asked by Truman 3

My bf and I have been dating over a yr. He stays with me 5 to 7 days a week. He has his own place. He gives me money toward groceries and gas. He mows the lawn, does small household repairs, does his own laundry. In a few months, I will be "hurting" financially once my child support ends. I do have a decent job. But I will still be short every month. My bf knows this. And yet, he doesn't want to hear it because he says that there is nothing that he can do to help. And he doesn't want to move in since he is not "in love" with me. I have been forced to look for a 2nd job (I live in rural area) that will work around my full time job. No luck. I might have to move several states away so that my family can help. I feel that that would be going backward, especially since I have been in this area for 12 years. If he and I lived together, it would help both of us. He knows this. Since I cannot convince him to change his mind and I love him, how do I respond? Do I just keep mum and deal alone?

2007-01-28 00:06:22 · 3 answers · asked by whoanelly 3

How do they make you feel muy argument against it is i do hang around on street corners with all my friends but we dont cause trouble to others so why are people always moaning.

2007-01-28 00:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by hayliielouiise 1