Other - Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

I'm 15 I'm 4'11 and I have hazel eyes and dark brown hair, I still haven't had my first kiss yet and I've asked guys out before but they always say no, no guys ever ask me out. Actually most boys in my school tease me and look at me with disgust. My mom and my grandmother always say 'don't worry about you're better than them' but it doesn't help. I still feel insignficant and like I don't even deserve to have someone that would treat me like crap. I have a 90 GPA and I'm a high school freshman. I'm a first degree black belt in karate and i'm in a lot of clubs (science, library, renisannce), i fill up my life with a lot of activities and computer time to drown out my lack of social life, my friends are the same way so we only occasionally hang out after school much. Even my mom teases me about my lack of my social life she says I spend to much time on my computer but they're is never anything else to do. Can someone please give me a real anwser about why boys don't like me?

2007-01-28 12:55:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriends a college freshman (just turned 18) and I'm a highschool sophomore (15) so I can understand why they're skeptical but we've been dating for half a year in secret and he loves me. He said he'll wait till I'm out of highschool until we can date again but I want to know if there's anything else we can do about it. I can honestly say that I love him, and if nothing works we're both ready openly date and wait till I'm out of highschool till we can finally be together. But my parents think I'm to young and that I need to focus on school. It's just frusterating beyond belief.

2007-01-28 12:47:56 · 6 answers · asked by lilmissyme778 2

I have always been in drama filled relationship and finally I decided to get out of them. 6 months later I met this WONDERFUL guy who is so caring, genuine, attractive, funny, makes me smile and brings out the best in me. I'm not jealous of him and I trust him 100% which is very strange for me. I think that in the past I thought that "love" was mis-trust and jealoust because that showed that I didnt want them to have anyone else therefore I "loved" them. Now that I trust him, I question my love for him. I have convinced myself of so many things. Commitment phobic, anxiety issues (which I have), hormones, End of infatuation, and falling out of love. I just have this gut feeling that something is missing or that something is wrong. My whole family LOVES him and I sometimes I question myself and wonder if I am with him for me or for my family.

I want to be with him forever. He makes me happy and I LOVE doing nice things for him

People say follow your gut but I WANT to be with him!

2007-01-28 12:47:36 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

I have met some very nice and incredibly confident men who know what it is

they are looking for and for whatever the reason we just haven't clicked yet

but I have been on other sites and this site http://www.nudistfriends.com/?tid=ice has classy men and women who are considerate and respectful towards eachother

so Thanks and I haven't given up hope yet

2007-01-28 12:43:05 · 2 answers · asked by woow cool 1

My girlfriend is an unemployed 19 year old girl with a 1 year old child who lives with her mother and father.

She wants to put her son in day care so she can get a job and actually buy him stuff with his own money and learn to be more independent but they refuse to let her put him in a daycare since neither her nor her sisters were put in daycare when they were small.

After she had given birth she had 2 anxiety/panic attacks and was put on medication for it which she used only for 4 months and then stopped when she realized it was all just mental.

My girlfriends mother has threatened her several times that she will take her to court and take her son away from her because of the fact that she is a 19 year old girl with no form of income to support the child and has been on medication.

I tell my girlfriend her mom is just bluffing but shes really scared. Is there any truth to what her mom is saying or any place I can get information on this?

2007-01-28 12:39:51 · 5 answers · asked by hitokiribakura 1

let's just say that I know someone who I think is being abused by his or her parent/s.I'm not sure but I suspect it.What should I do?

2007-01-28 12:38:44 · 13 answers · asked by Nikki 3

everybody has been to scared to say anything for more than 10 years and now it is affecting my children and our relationship. i dont want to lose my mum and best friend. she says it is noone elses business but hers.

2007-01-28 12:36:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-28 12:33:34 · 26 answers · asked by buggles06 1

how do i forget the person whom i really love n we hurt each other by breaking up due to some reasons... how do i stop thinking abt the person n not let the person control my mind, my heart all the time???

2007-01-28 12:32:13 · 3 answers · asked by -LOST- 1

I am very attracted to my boyfriend....How do I know if its more than just the attraction that is drawing me to him?!?!

2007-01-28 12:27:39 · 4 answers · asked by dawson190154 1

is ebay bad for an 11 yr old..i am 17 and my sister wants to use ebay and me and my mom says no..but i never used ebay and my mom never used it either......we were just wondering..should we?

2007-01-28 12:24:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family is going to pensacola fla. this summer. We are taking my grandmother who is 83yrs.old in very good health. We are going to camp out because that is what she likes to do . I was also looking for some things to do during the heat of the day.I have to boys who are going w/ us they are 7 and 2. I need to keep them busy and entertain my grandmother at the same time.I havent been there since I was 17. I'M not sure what they have to do there. so any infromation will be helpful.. THANK YOU!!!!

2007-01-28 12:19:55 · 1 answers · asked by jen 2

2007-01-28 12:16:32 · 23 answers · asked by Man Of Wonderment 1

I had my son while I was in college. At that time I chose to basically give up everything that I love to be a mom. I finished college, and over time I have noticed that I don't do much of anything for myself...and come to think of it...I really don't have much fun anymore.

I am looking for suggestions of things to do for fun...that are not expensive. What do you do for fun? What are you most passionate about (and I am not talking about sex either!)?

2007-01-28 11:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by daisy31 3

We used to get along- but now (3 years later) we have a 2 yr. old, and all of a sudden my husband is completely into politics, books, etc... When we first met, he was fun, wanted to go see movies, go out once in a while... and I'm 22- So I still want to do those things- but he doesn't. anybody else have an age gap- and dont really have the same interests anymore??

2007-01-28 11:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to get him something really special because he is always doing so much for his daughter. He is a single dad and he deserves the best. I need some great gift ideas that would be special yet affordable. Also, should I get his daughter a valentines gift?

2007-01-28 11:23:36 · 13 answers · asked by raven25 2

her family is fun to be around and they are toatally nice to me and they act like im one of them

2007-01-28 11:20:10 · 1 answers · asked by Sami F 3

I've suspected for a while & heard from various people that my other 1/2 is cheating, i've asked her but she denies it obviously. I've heard that another car is parked out the front of our house when i'm at work (the same type & colour as my suspect) again she denies it. Her car has been seen at his place ( she denies it).

What i really want to know is if there is a drug (truth serum) or a way to hypnotize that i can do or some other way to get her to "fess up"

2007-01-28 11:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by bundyguy 1

Please tell me a person won't leave me alone and says that he lives in Austraila and I want 2 see if he is lieing and if he ain't then i don't want 2 ignore him and hurt his feelings!!!!!

2007-01-28 11:16:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi All,

How can one deal with rejections? What if one gets rejected by a girl he loves, gets rejected by a university he admires, gets rejected by friends, gets rejected by the sports team he wants to join, ....
what if one's life is full of rejections..
How to suceed in a life with no intelligence, no luck, no beauty?

I dont think finding a niche just to be successful can solve the issue.."Rejection" - it feels as if its more innate - some thing that one cant escape just my moving places, changing girls, or trying different things.. something fundamentally has to be changed...what is it? i dont want to answer my own question here... Aren't there any brilliant, smart thinkers who can answer my question ? How can you even gain confidence to succeed in life after so many rejections? What should be right way?

Would appreciate well thought and mature answers...

2007-01-28 11:05:23 · 7 answers · asked by neo a 1

i'm a dad to a 7yr old son matt who is my life.i have joint custody with my exwife and we split our time with him 50/50.my question is how much contact(email,phone calls ect) do you have with your ex?the problem is my ex hates my new wife(for no good reason) and which in turns makes my new wife want me to have nothing to do with her except for real emergencies about my son.please i don't want anyone to tell me how to deal with my wife or exwife.

2007-01-28 10:55:01 · 1 answers · asked by bobmarkly78 1

we were together for 2 and a half years and i still cant get over her. i have a current girlfriend but still always think about the old one.

2007-01-28 10:52:58 · 17 answers · asked by Nick H 2

Discussed with parents, parterns, friends!

2007-01-28 10:51:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to make sure I am not leading you on because a lot of you like me and I don't feel the same way.

2007-01-28 10:48:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

he told me he loved me heaps and heaps and i said i loved him too....that was on wednesday...he hasnt even msgd my fone...it is now Monday...
why is he doing this? was it something i did?
(he said it first not me)

2007-01-28 10:23:54 · 2 answers · asked by ticklish101 2

My boyfriend keeps saying soon he going to purpose to me, but when!?!? everytime we get in a fight he tells me when he was going to, but he said it's sooner then i think, but he hasn't and from what i know, he was supposed to on New Years! its January 28th and he still hasn't! Did he forget or what, do you think he thought bout not doing it anymore!?! If so, do you think he could atleast tell me!? I really dont want to ask him this but i need to know! lol

2007-01-28 10:23:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you also tell me the first time you did it and if you remeber where you did it.

2007-01-28 10:12:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever since my mum has had the internet she's been meetin up wiv men from there and sleeping with them she even kicked my pregnant sister out and her boyfriend jus so she could have a bloke 14 years younger than her round. she turning into a prostitute.

2007-01-28 10:09:46 · 24 answers · asked by dummy_blonde 1

i did i am so embrassed.i couldnt help it.please help

2007-01-28 10:06:10 · 6 answers · asked by angie w 1

I am trying to figure out the NEW idea of an ideal housewife. From how the house looks to how she treats her husband. Not the ideal 1950's housewife of Donna Reed (because we don't have scripts or writers) but a REAL housewife.

An example is:
Keeps the house clean as if she is expecting company. Looks nice when the husband comes home (but what is looking nice?).

Thanks for all the answers!!

2007-01-28 09:52:31 · 12 answers · asked by KJ97Y100 2