I've suspected for a while & heard from various people that my other 1/2 is cheating, i've asked her but she denies it obviously. I've heard that another car is parked out the front of our house when i'm at work (the same type & colour as my suspect) again she denies it. Her car has been seen at his place ( she denies it).
What i really want to know is if there is a drug (truth serum) or a way to hypnotize that i can do or some other way to get her to "fess up"
2007-01-28 11:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by bundyguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol ahh yes the truth serum, don't i wish i had some of that stuff in the past! I reckon she's cheating, you reckon she's cheating, the neighbours reckon she's cheating - what are you waiting for? Don't wait for her to validate you being trampled on and dump her. If however you are in a committed relationship and it's far more complicated than that then hire a detective to follow her. Get the evidence (that you probably already know via your gut feelings) confront her then dump her.
2007-01-28 11:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there is a truth serum readily available on the marketplace.
I would change your rountine a bit or get a friend to drop by, take some photos of the car infront of her place and confront her.
The other issue is the issue of trust. If you don't trust her then maybe it's time to pull the plug on the relationship, if you can't trust her now when do you think that you will be able to trust her.
Goodluck
2007-01-28 19:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been watching to much TV. There is no need for any of that. You want to know if she cheats? Try these simple ways.
1. Is she giving it to you?
2. Does she work late or go out a lot with her friends?
Have one of your friends drive by in a car she does not know and see what you see. Also come home when she does not expect you..and see what you see and one of the best ones, tell her you are going out of town and then drop in..but dont ask unless you want to know.
2007-01-28 19:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and if there was it would prob be illegal to administer it without her permission anyway. Follow her. Set up a camcorder somewhere where she will never suspect. They can run for 6 hrs I think. You can program it to start at any time with a timer too. Say, 1 hr after you leave, etc. Hire a private detective.
And after she "fesses up" then what. ?? 2nd...3rd...4th chances?
2007-01-28 19:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to know? If you found out she was in fact cheating are you ready to face the situation? Unfortunately that's probably why you didn't just drive over there. Just do it, facing all your trials and tribulations in life will lead you to your ultimate dreams. If she is the one for you, have a "communicating" open discussion. No yelling please! it could make you look bad, perhaps she is just talking. Either she is your true love or she is holding you back from your true love. Be cool
2007-01-28 20:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jon F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of those are available to you. Just come home when the car is in front of your house. Or, better, yet, visit a security store and get one of those small video cameras that can be hidden nearly anywhere - leave it in the house recording.
2007-01-28 19:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by jack w 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well those other people that have told you did they give you a time and day, that this is happening? maybe you should just pop home for a quick lunch break when you are "at work"
also you could check phone records to see if there are any numbers that come up on the bill alot.
2007-01-28 19:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by scott k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drug her. The easiest thing I can think of is tell her you're at work a few times when you are not and go by her house a few times to see if what everyone tells you is true.
2007-01-28 19:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta agree with Lucas S. Hire a dective. Gotta be legal.
2007-01-28 19:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest leaving work early a few times to see if you can catch them that or call cheaters and tell me the day and time and ill watch it
2007-01-28 19:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by streetdestroyer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋