Other - Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I have 3 boys and I pay c s a for them
But she wont let me see my boys anymore just because I have a girlfriend this has been going on for a year now (have been with new girlfriend 11 months)
They used to come to our house but since shes asked r divorce she wont let them come and now all because I have asked for 15% of the house when the boys grow up
Should I take her to court to force her to let me see my boys or should I leave it
And do you think it is right that a father who wants to see and provide should be forced top pay her full c s a payments or do you think they should give her less untill she lets me see them

2007-01-08 04:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by simon b 1

My girlfriend Dana went to a party and met a guy there...she knew him from her sister's place but never spoke to him. She sometimes sits outside and talks with his wife they are not friends I guess they just talk to be cordial. Well anyway she called me the other morning and told me what happenend and asked me what she she do....I told her to run the other way. She obviously wants to do the opposite...they have made plans to meet up out of town in a few months she says she is not looking to sleep with him again but be forreal why else are they going out of town together?? LOL she is calling me now....she said she went to visit her sister and the first person she saw was his wife it made her feel bad and now she is at a lost as to what to do next she doesnt want confrontation with the wife and she cant get around facing her unless her sister moves. I dont know what to tell her maybe someone on here can help.

2007-01-08 04:04:56 · 34 answers · asked by chinalady 1

Why can’t I be happy? I’m a stay at home mom... healthy kids.... I just can’t grasp how lucking I am!!! Maybe I need to go away for a week!! I have all the reasons in the world to be happy!! I just can’t be happy!! I don’t want to push the people I love away!!! This is my problem. The Problem is me!! I have to find a way to beat it! I want to be a better mom!! That is the first thing I need to do!!! I treat other kids better than I treat my own!!! It’s not fair!! This is not how I want to live my life!!! How can I stay at home and enjoy life? I need a schedule… Do you have a stay at home schedule? What is it? I mean like the exact time and what do you do?
Needing help in Texas!!??!!
Mirohama

2007-01-08 04:04:54 · 8 answers · asked by mirohama 2

Ok, so tonight is the national championship game, and i told my mother after Ohio State beat Michigan that i was going to go all out for the game. I had stuff to put in my hair to make it red just for that night, i was going to go to the costume shop in my area(its open all year round) to get some face paint and such. I had my clothes all lined up and everything. Until a few days ago she told me i couldn't.
She told me that i might want to tone it down because it wasn't just going to be our family at our uncle's house. my aunt is having family over too. now i'm not even going to the party.
what would make my mom change her mind like that? She would have known that my aunt was having her family there way before hand too?

2007-01-08 04:02:15 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

why don't people take the time to get to know someone properly before they judge someone

have they never heard of the saying don't judge a book by its cover

theirs more to people than how they look or what they can do. dose no one care how they make others feel

2007-01-08 03:59:31 · 13 answers · asked by nat 3

My boyfriend and I are madly in love and have been for three years, however i'm 21 ans he 22.
During a chat the other day he said he does want children "one day" about ten years from now but I can wait that long i want to start settling down within 4 years!!
I dont want to force him into anything in which he is not ready for nor does he want to hold me back from the family I've wanted for a while now!
I want to wait about 4 years as I want to have a house in myown name before bringing a child into the world!i want he or she to have a stable envirnment both for a home and emotionally in every way possible!

Does anybody have and serious advice guys and girls please help me!!
We dont wanna give up what we have but both want the other person to be happy.

2007-01-08 03:55:23 · 18 answers · asked by rosa_govan 3

Before my husband and I got married he had a roommate who is also his cousin. When we got married we also bought a house. The roommate couldn't find someplace else to live with such short notice (we were engaged for 1 1/2 years). So we decided to let him live here while he continued to look for a place to live. It's been 8 months and he's still 'looking' (he does actually go to see places) he annoys the heck outta me, since he's constantly around, doesn't clean up after himself and often decideds to follow my husband and I on our dates...(we let him know we're going out to a movie that night, he decided to go too...in his own vehicle, then needs to see the same movie when we get there). Before we were married my hubby lived with this guy for 4 years....and doesn't really see the problem because he is often away because of work. I'm sick of this guy, I married my husband, not this other guy. I shouldn't have to clean up after his filthy lifestyle, he's not my husband or my child

2007-01-08 03:55:12 · 8 answers · asked by bluearia 3

Is it some sort of mothering instinct???

They should date/marry/whatever a man for the way he is, not for what they can change!!!

AND then to add insult to injury, they complain - "You're not the man I first met!!!" Of course not, you NEEDED to mess... Then they find someone else and do the same all over again!!!

2007-01-08 03:55:10 · 14 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7

2007-01-08 03:45:02 · 10 answers · asked by kool 1

Does your husband, or boyfriend, use viagra?

Does it work?

Has it made a difference?

Are there any side effects?

2007-01-08 03:28:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year I ended a six year relationship. My ex and I are still good friends. I've had another boyfriend for about four months now. He will not accept that I am friends with my ex. We fight about it constantly! And to make matters worse, my ex and I have the same best friends, so it's impossible to avoid him altogether without putting my friends in a bad position. What should I do?

2007-01-08 03:28:11 · 8 answers · asked by Rosie aka Rosie 6

i heard noises one day when i got home, and i thought only my brother was home so i cracked open the back bedroom door, and found my brother and my boyfriend having sex. this was a week ago and now i dont know what to do, i've had nightmares, my boyfriend is acting like nothing happened--they didnt see me when i walked in, i got in my car and drove away...i dont know what to do! help!

2007-01-08 03:23:32 · 14 answers · asked by Pam J 1

I am in a strange situation. When I met my husband I immediately thought "Wow! He has 90% of the qualites I always wanted in a partner" But I had a really hard time deciding to marry him or not cause I didnt particuarly loved his culture (or the stereotypes of his culture).
Anybody in the same situation?

2007-01-08 03:16:36 · 10 answers · asked by Alejandra 1

i love this man but i just feel like i can't tell him that he is not cutting it in bed. i mean i do enjoy it but i just don't have and orgasm, wich i was having ..pls help me..

2007-01-08 03:13:40 · 14 answers · asked by vivi010571 2

Very very briefly, to any woman with kids, what would you do if you had a male cousin so obsessed with your kids that he fought and ultimately got rid of any new man in your life who might be a potential threat. No matter what, he won't go away. Bearing in mind this man is 47 and still a virgin. Just can't work him out at all.
Is he lonely or is he a perv? How the hell can you tell?

2007-01-08 03:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5

im 20 weeks pregnant and worried sick hes RAF so i knew what i was getting into but its killing me anyone in the same boat? no stupid comments please

2007-01-08 02:58:33 · 13 answers · asked by emmachampy 1

Well here is the situation. i have been trying to get my family to meet my boyfriend for the past month and well it hasnt worked out. i tell them about him and that he wants to meet them and they just say thing i rather not hear. my brothers feel that there is someone else out there for me. they do not even know him. the thing is that he is not christian. he is catholic. i love this guy and to me he is what i want. well my family thinks that i am just infatuated with him. what?! uh! but they say that ok they will meet him. then i find out that my dad does not want to meet him at all because he is not a christian. what can i do?

2007-01-08 02:53:08 · 1 answers · asked by bbb 2

2007-01-08 02:53:03 · 2 answers · asked by ReSa 1

2007-01-08 02:52:53 · 1 answers · asked by ReSa 1

well i wrote this question and answer Why can't i jus stay single?
boyz keep cumin up to me and askin me out wut to say ? and this guy had to be an A**HOLE and write this


lookof200...About Me

if you are not waiting for Mr.right you are not normal. wut an A**HOLE and i am waitin 4 mr.right.

2007-01-08 02:41:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 02:34:36 · 7 answers · asked by Tom K 1

i think my man is happy to plod along doing the usual stuff pub football trip away once a year - i need some excitment we have been together 6 years.

2007-01-08 02:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by Pebbles 2

1. What do you wish women understood about you?

2. What ideas do women have about you that aren't true?

3. What ideas do other men have about you that
aren't true?

4. What do you wish other men understood about you ?

5. As a man, how do you wish to be treated?

6. Are you satisfield with any of the treatment
you receive?


Thank you!

2007-01-08 02:30:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf got a puppy on Friday. I found out about it when I got home late at night. He said he wanted to surprise me, that's why he didn't tell me about it. I repeatedly told him in the past that I didn't want a puppy because we live in a small one bedroom apartment, and I didn't want to spend the money or time on it. I also told him that we ( actually he, since I won't have any part in taking care of it) cannot afford vet bills if the dog were to get sick. He understood, and he wants to get rid of it for those reasons, but at the same time he still wants to keep it. I want it out, he's pooping everywhere, and I LOATHE the smell of dog. It's a shame, the dog is cute as hell, but we just don't really have the resources or the room for it. I also work in a restaurant and don't want to have dog hair (it's a husky/chow mix) or dog smell on my clothes when I go to work.
Anyway, would it be a great surprise if I took the puppy to the SPCA or something like that while he was at work?

2007-01-08 02:26:20 · 6 answers · asked by Tina 3

messed things up with my ex. he is really stressed keeps having panic attacks and is scared of me or a relationship with anyone. he says i dont love (he) myself or anyone' does this mean he deffinately doesnt love me or just where hes at at the moment. he hates leaving the house. we used to be great together until we split up i want him to remeber what we were not what happened after. do u think hell ever get over the fear. hes asking for space but he doesnt call , he says he needs to sort hislf out. he is seeing a counsellor . but he also says when i aks if he thinks well be tovether 'i cnat see that far into the futur i can barely see tommorrow' HELP . well men ever see beyond the fear

2007-01-08 02:22:20 · 5 answers · asked by lola f 1

my breasts are different sizes... one is about a half cup size bigger than the other.

i've been insecure about it when wearing bikini's or taking off my clothes.

what is your honest opinion regarding uneven breasts?

thank you in advance!

2007-01-08 02:20:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the rule for cheatin? i mean how can you define it is whether cheating or not......

2007-01-08 02:06:54 · 17 answers · asked by Love cake:-) 1

if you split up with sum1 and had a kid together, would you take the child away from them never to let them see the child again?

I never did anything to deserve this but it happened to me. and i think its very unfair.

2007-01-08 02:00:38 · 11 answers · asked by mech_warrior172003 3

You should eat breakfast. You should try harder in school. Get a job. You need to act more responsibly. Your not making me proud. Im ashamed of you, why don't you fix the situation. and it goes on. People who judge you hardly look at the mess that they are. How do you put people like this in their place. Spare the rod spoil the child. i know... but what is the Rod?

2007-01-08 01:55:39 · 3 answers · asked by kirk b 1

2007-01-08 01:47:22 · 9 answers · asked by behnaz s 1