i heard noises one day when i got home, and i thought only my brother was home so i cracked open the back bedroom door, and found my brother and my boyfriend having sex. this was a week ago and now i dont know what to do, i've had nightmares, my boyfriend is acting like nothing happened--they didnt see me when i walked in, i got in my car and drove away...i dont know what to do! help!
2007-01-08 03:23:32 · 14 answers · asked by Pam J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-01-08 05:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awful. I'm sorry to hear that. Its hard to find out that your boyfriend is gay or bi but to find out that he was doing it with your brother!!!! That's some crazy mess right there. I would confront both of them...maybe together to see how they both would react. I would personally dump your boyfriend because he cheated on you and it doesn't matter if it was with a male or female. As far as your brother, I wouldn't trust him around anymore of your boyfriends. It seems like he likes to turn them out.
Please get checked out for STD's. It doesn't matter if he cheated with a guy because we all can contract an STD, no matter if we're gay or straight. You just need a peace of mind and make sure you haven't contracted anything from him. You don't know who else he has been messing around with.
2007-01-08 03:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used as a cover for their immoral act.
Break up with him.
He will still come around to see your brother as they are "friends" now.
If you have a decent relationship with your brother, tell him what you saw and if you have any biblical background, show him where it states over and over that this type of behavior is wrong in Gods eyes.
2007-01-08 03:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to go and get tested. Since your Boyfriend is bi-sexual. Then you need to be honest with him and tell him that you know his secret. Point out the fact that you saw him and your brother together.
2007-01-08 03:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to make it known that you saw them, you also need to demand answers as to what the !@#$%^&* is going on because this sounds like there is some shady things going on behind your back.
2007-01-08 03:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by Realone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your boyfriend alone!!!! Can you imagine him kissing you, touching you after he had sex with a man, who happens to be your brother???I wouldn't. Dump him!!
2007-01-08 03:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by iunona_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. go get yourself checked for Std's
2. ask b/f if hes gay or bi or not.
3 if he says no, to both then dump him for lying, as he has a problem with telling the truth.
2007-01-08 03:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest. Tell them you saw them and ask all the questions you want. You might have been mistaken. They could have been wrestling...
2007-01-08 03:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Krystle D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops
2007-01-08 03:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, thanks for that. you've challenge promoting him as there's a glut of those for sale at present. you may want to attempt including really grubby photo of a few b*mbo as an incentive. strong success
2016-12-02 00:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mention it to anyone, but lose the boyfriend unless you like queers and STDs. ~
2007-01-08 03:28:29 · answer #11 · answered by Pey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋