Other - Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I am so depressed. I thought about suicide. I hate my life. My Parents are christian, but they are too overprotective, I dress how they want, Listen to the music they want, i try hard in school, but its never good enough. I try hard with them,that i dont know what i want. I am always crying, and i started to cut, but i stopped. I dont know what to do. I just want to run away. Im not aloud to do anything. I cant wear pants, cut my hair, no makeup, no rock music(even if its christian).And to make it worse my beloved cat just died. I cant go anywere. Im 16, and turning 17 really soon. I hate it, i dont know what to do! if you have any advice, then bring it on. Just please dont make fun of me. The other thing is, is i dont have any friends to talk to. Seriously, i tried to tell them, they got mad at me, and wouldnt talk to me. I dont have any real friends to just talk to, I just want to know someone cares!

2007-01-08 08:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by =] 1

My bloke and I are at breaking point. We argue about absolutely everything and then stomp off from each other. When we do actually get to talk, there are so many aspects that everyhing gets bought into the argument at once. We can be accusatory and mean and nasty with each other and then walk away again.
To break this cycle, I thought that maybe I could work out a list of what people argue about. My idea was that I could make a list and then we could sit down and thrash out solutions/compromise for that SINGULAR problem only - moving onto the next bone of contention when one has been resolved. The problem has become so BIG that we need to step back and break it down into bite-size chunks again.

I was thinking a list like...

Money and Finances
Sex and the Bedroom
Going Out
Housework and Who Does What
Etc.

Anything you could suggest would help me to think this through...trust me, we will have rowed about it.

We desperately love each other and this is killing us. Help!

2007-01-08 08:33:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone will say "Your hair looks good." and I'll reply "It's so frizzy/ I don't take care of it like I should." or they may compliment my nails and I'll say "I dont really like the colors" or I'll point out the one that's broken. The other night my friend said she liked my makeup, and of course I said "I dont think I did a good job. I'm not good with makeup. I'm not a makeup person." I'm pretty modest and I get shy easily when someone openly admires something about me. Every time someone has something nice to say, it seems like I have to say something back to downplay their compliment- its almost as if I'm trying to tell them I dont deserve a conpliment, but I dont mean to. I dont know why I do that and I've been told "You cant even take a complimet." I truly dont know why and it bugs the heck out of me. Could it be that I'm not used to being noticed or I just dont like to be noticed? What are your thoughts on this?

2007-01-08 08:32:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still have feelings for my exgirlfriend and i wish i could trust her more. We were on a relationship for 3 years and i did her wrong and then she did me wrong...but after that i changed and expected the same from her, but she just became a totally diferent person. I have lost the trust in her and its been hard ever since... i can't let go of the feeling thats why i still try to be with her, but whenever i get those feeling i get very insecure and unhappy. She always keeps coming back to me and wanting to fix things saying she will change, but at the same time she keeeps messing up.

2007-01-08 08:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by J . B 2

for example,
1. watch the sunset or the sunrise
2. cook a meal
3. go out on a fancy date
i want to make a list for me and my boyfriend, so that we can slowly check off everything. :)

2007-01-08 08:25:06 · 27 answers · asked by molly connolly 2

About 18 months ago i decided that i would be a stay at home, i have loved every minute of it but sometimes i think that my husband's opinion of me has changed....or do i just have to much time on my hands and i think about things to much?

2007-01-08 08:16:27 · 19 answers · asked by Lisa P 1

My girlfriend of two years recently broke up with me about a week ago. I was not being the best boyfriend and she was unhappy. She is now going out with my friend, who is a very nice guy. She wants to remain friends with me and I would like to do the same. We both go to school together and have a few classes together. I work with my friend and we often have similar shifts. I am trying to remain friends with her and I am ok hanging out with either one of them. My problem occurs when I hang out with both of them at the same time. They try not to act like boyfriend and girlfriend so they dont upset me but I can see the sparks between them and it reminds me of everything we had together. I commute 30 minutes to school and most of my high school friends have moved away so outside of them I dont really have any other close friends. Any advice on how to move on with seeing both of them at one time or another every day would be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-08 08:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by fljsnake 1

2007-01-08 08:08:37 · 6 answers · asked by Jeremy DIal 1

WOULD U RATHER SATISFY URSELF OR THE PERSON? HONEST ANSWERS

2007-01-08 07:58:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

wat do u do when u lose someone that ur really close to and u can't get thought ur thick head he is never coming back how do u get ur amoshion's out.and how do u get away for an while

2007-01-08 07:57:32 · 1 answers · asked by naudica w 1

Yesterday was the guy I'm datings birthday and his ex call 73 times. He never answer the phone because she is so crazy. One time she broke in his house and trash it and the stole his truck and three weeks ago she punch him in the face 4 times. I have only been seeing him for 2 weeks and I really like him and would love to kick the **** out of her. I know his ex from 6 months ago on my birthday when I did almost kick her butt and she did run from me so I know that she wouldn't want to fight but she won't leave him alone. I don't really want to get in a fight over a boy because I have never done that and I know that she would put me in jail because she tried on my b-day. She doesn't know that we are dating because I don't want her to burn his house down. I think I should just kick the **** out of her but I don't know. Help, how do I handle this crazy person.

2007-01-08 07:55:27 · 7 answers · asked by lex83201 3

i use some time viagra my age is 29 .its good or not please tell me

2007-01-08 07:50:46 · 2 answers · asked by khuram s 1

2007-01-08 07:44:58 · 15 answers · asked by 007 and a half 2

i had a relationship of 3 years , and now my exgirlfriend wantst to be friends with all my friends and flirt with some of them..........what should i do.

2007-01-08 07:44:53 · 9 answers · asked by J . B 2

And did people ever find out? Was the teacher punished?

2007-01-08 07:32:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I absolutely love the bonsai tree, i'm amazed just how small they are...and it is said that the bonsai tree is a symbol of immortality, and symbolizes mastery over nature...if you could give me your own definition of your own symbol of immortality, and mastery over nature what would you use as your symbol?...... and what does the name bonsai mean? this shouldn't be too hard.

2007-01-08 07:29:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 07:18:49 · 15 answers · asked by rusco21 3

2007-01-08 07:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by saaqibmom 1

me and my boyfriend live together. we have a good relationship except for the fact that he never wants to have sex. He is 29 and im 24 . I consider myself a very pretty girl. but when it comes down to me wanting to kiss my boyfriend passionatly. he always thinks i want more and pushes me away. I one day asked him if he were cheating because i didnt know what else it would be. He said no and we had a huge fight over it because i asked such a horrible thing.. that's done with but he still doesnt want to touch me.. He always says " its the wrong time , and my mind isnt into it" .. i try to start things when hes not working, like when were just watching t.v, or when were in bed, or at a time when he's not stressing over work, but its like he only wants sex 1 time every 2 weeks.. I dont get it? He always tells me he loves me very much and he tells me he wants to be with me forever, but he alwasy make up any reason to say no. like my head hurts, im tired, i dont want to, i have to work.ect

2007-01-08 07:18:19 · 16 answers · asked by shellz23 2

My Dad has my original copy of my change of name document and i am trying to get a provisional driving licence. So i can start my driving lessons, but i am unable to get one because you have to send the original and i dont have one.

I cant get another original as there is only one which my parents have and wont give me back.

is there anyway i can get around this, without contacting him an causeing more trouble between us than there is already.

2007-01-08 07:14:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 07:13:33 · 9 answers · asked by saaqibmom 1

I work and live in the US and have a french gf whom I love very much.We are in a long-distance relationship.We've dated for over a year and things are good between us but lately there have been some problems and i don't know how to handle them.My mom lives with me and doesn't like her.I have tried to talk to her but everytime i end up disappointed.I think she should go back to India and stay there with family where she will be in better health and people.She stays sick here most of the time.I pay for my brother's tution and take care of my mother.But i feel sometimes that i am being held back because i m being forced to live a certain way and act a certain way according to wat my family and mom prefers.I don't want to abandon her but at the same time i want my freedom and my gf who is ready to give up france, friends and family for me.I've met her parents and they r nice ppl.I m only 22 and young to be taking care of others when i can't do wat i want and move ahead in life like this.

2007-01-08 07:10:21 · 7 answers · asked by tiger 3

I know I've asked this a few times, but the answers seem to stall out after a while and I'm just trying to get some advice from a bunch of different people....
I've read many posts out there regarding different things that turn me on, but my wife won't go near them, (specifically stockings, high heels) and it seems like many on here really get into that.
Anyone out there know how to help me? (outside of any snide remarks regarding divorce, looking at adult images or movies; etc If we ever do go out..her heels are the first thing off when we get home...even if I try to sweep her off her feet. And this is not all about me...I am asking because we do things her way all the time..she's on top (which I don't mind) and its right before we go to sleep... I should note its only once maybe twice a week that anything actually happens at all.

2007-01-08 07:01:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 06:58:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is as sharp as a blade, can cut like a knife, but is not a knife?

2007-01-08 06:58:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 06:53:45 · 4 answers · asked by sadie 2

my husband and i have just moved back to our hometown, and we were in a car accident. because of the accident we lost our car, we unfortunaly had no car insurance. so we cannot get a rental, we were unable to rent the apartment we had waiting for us because my husband couldn't work for 2 weeks, oh my god life just gets worse. any ideas on how to make life better?? we are obviosly having to start over and don't know what to do anymore!!

2007-01-08 06:50:51 · 11 answers · asked by silandsarah 1

i would like to no what your biggest fear is in life. would u mind shearing with me please.?
mine is loseing another child to death

2007-01-08 06:50:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know its still over a month away..but im already thinking about it..this year is going to be special. I was wanting to make a coupon book with thoughtful little cupons of things that i can do for my boyfriend this year, fun, a little naughty, something outside the box...any ideas are welcome.

2007-01-08 06:47:05 · 2 answers · asked by magickitty0621 3

Her legs were spread as far as they could go. She was rubbing her jeans at the area where her legs come together with both hands. Whats up with that?

2007-01-08 06:46:08 · 20 answers · asked by 55 and trying 5