2007-01-08 07:44:58 · 15 answers · asked by 007 and a half 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe she is getting it somewhere else.....
2007-01-08 07:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Southern Country Girl 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Could be she is not feeling well or she is going through the change in life (you did not say you and your wife's age) It might not have anything to do with you personally--she could be tired of having to work full time and then come home and tend to the kids and dinner and clean up (dish's) then bath time and homework the laundry---Its not easy being a woman with all the work load that we have--men sometimes tend to forget the "little " things we do--and then expect to have enough energy to make mad passionate love to you --After you came home from work was allowed to relax have a nice dinner and sit while the kids are being cared for--so if maybe this is the case JUST maybe I said then take on her role for a couple of weeks and see how much energy you have at bed time?? Want to woo her?? Then on a Sat. send her to the spa and make dinner arrangements and hotel arrangements too--make her feel special--a nice way of saying thank you for all you do --
2007-01-08 07:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is the ONLY one who is qualified to answer this question. There could be at least a hundred possible reasons -- some of them having nothing to do with you. Obviously, it's time to ask her what she's feeling and why she doesn't want to have sex. Maybe your timing is bad. Make sure you choose a good time to have this conversation -- not when either of you are stressed and on the run to do the next thing.
2007-01-08 07:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just needs attention. Do u give her attention? if not that could be the reason. Maybe you need to spend more time with her, like the old days.... take her to the beach or park. Then take her to dinner and HOLD HER HAND!! then go home watch a movie and cuddle with her. But the trick is to act like you dont want it. She'll be thinking that since u are doing all this that you want sex, well if you act like you dont want sex she'll be more willing to do it. Write her a love letter and leave love notes around the house, be romantic. If you need tips try lovingyou.com. i introduced my guy to it and he loves it! or email me lynn_and_juby@yahoo.com i'll be happy to give you advice.
The BAD NEWS:
if you do all that and she still doesnt give it up she's
1. Cheating
2. not into you anymore
3. has an STD or infection
whatever the case may be just be open minded and do your part!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-08 07:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by LC 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you ask he why? She must have a good reason. Good communication is essential in a marriage and there may be a logical reason. Your wife will provide the answer, not Yahoo.
2007-01-08 07:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes. You're probably being too demanding. Marriage is a two-way street. Always remember that she's your wife and not something else.
2007-01-08 07:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dude do you stink like ****, or is her boots under some other guys bed get a clue maybe she pregnant, maybe she just don't fill good, maybe you need to get a tool enlarger, maybe you need to try and satisfy her needs for a change and not just your own.
2007-01-08 08:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by stanley w 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe it is not you maybe t she is having a bad week. or she dont feel well. or she just dont feel like it. You gotta give a women a break.
2007-01-08 07:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is simply tired and needs some rest.
2007-01-08 07:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shucks - who knows. It could be she's not feeling well or maybe you're too quick.
Talk to her and ask her - she can answe it best.
2007-01-08 07:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by The First Lady 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take her out for dinner in candlelight then go home and make love.
2007-01-08 07:46:55 · answer #11 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋