My girlfriend of two years recently broke up with me about a week ago. I was not being the best boyfriend and she was unhappy. She is now going out with my friend, who is a very nice guy. She wants to remain friends with me and I would like to do the same. We both go to school together and have a few classes together. I work with my friend and we often have similar shifts. I am trying to remain friends with her and I am ok hanging out with either one of them. My problem occurs when I hang out with both of them at the same time. They try not to act like boyfriend and girlfriend so they dont upset me but I can see the sparks between them and it reminds me of everything we had together. I commute 30 minutes to school and most of my high school friends have moved away so outside of them I dont really have any other close friends. Any advice on how to move on with seeing both of them at one time or another every day would be greatly appreciated.
2007-01-08 08:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by fljsnake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay away from both of them. You need to develop some new relationships. Hanging around with either or both of them will just make you depressed and make it harder for you to move on.
2007-01-08 08:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find out what true love is and isn't. To find out, I suggest you read in the Bible, I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter". It says that love is patient and kind and seeks not is own way at the expense of others. This love is such that it will gladly give its life to save the life of the other. It says that of faith, hope and love, love is the greatest This love is what has kept my wife and I married for over 28 years.
Sir, if love dies, it wasn't love in the first place, but something else. The something else will always fail. I suggest that you find a Bible believing church and join the singles group there. Most of the people there will be practicing this kind of love and you will find someone that will be the one true love for the rest of your life.
2007-01-08 08:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure there is a little lady somewhere around that you like. Just ask her to tag along when the three of you are hanging out. Time heals all wounds... You can't let this get the best of you. Maybe this was for the best.
I was in one for 10yrs when I left. It has and is taking a lot of time for me to get over him.. The more time you have invested the longer time it takes for you to get over it. Stay strong!!! And try to be good to the next woman that you get with.
2007-01-08 08:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just give it time. Hang out with your other friends, read a book, listen to music that you can relate to, do something you love (hobby). Most likely, there are plenty of girls out there. If you can't have her, you should be happy she's with someone who you know will care for her. If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. You can't force it. It's not your fault. Somehow, you'll find someone someday. Patience is a virtue! =)
2007-01-08 08:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, that's just wrong. I couldn't do it. And I don't think a friend should do that to another friend. Find a new girl and spend your time with her. Forget those two.
2007-01-08 08:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new girlfriend, having a new girlfriend will more then likely do the trick if take two aspirins and ask the question again tomorrow.
2007-01-08 08:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by stanley w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋