Other - Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

i've dated a few koreans
they end up falling for me and telling me there past love life after we get intimate...and then they up and leave go out with a korean girl and just *boom* pop the question then why tell me you love me...

i feel so depressed..sometimes i regret growing up in an asian family.....why do asians ask me out -build a relationship with me ...tell me you love me then leave me....it hurts alot and i'm depressed...

i truly would like to find an asian guy who wouldn't use me to break my heart....i'm afraid to open up again ...i'm even afraid to open up to my friends cause they read me like a book...

i just cry and they ask me what's wrong and all i do is repeat the same story but with a different namehow many relationships should i become heart broken from until i find a guy who doesn't want to leave me...everything is right.nothing goes wrong.sometimes i hate myself cause i'm not good enough , or i wish i could be asian but i dont want to be.i want 2 b accepted

2007-01-08 13:58:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

The thing is that I told my boyfriend to get out of my mother's department in which we are living. He don’t want to leave and he is frightening me that if he leaves he is going to take the baby with him. I told him that if he does that I was going to take him to jail because without my permission he is not allowed to take the baby nowhere. What are my rights?? How can I force him to leave me alone? He wants to be with me against my will.

2007-01-08 13:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i have been dating my girlfriend for 5 years and 11 months. Every so often i get bored and i feel like i don't like her and i only desire to hang out with her once or twice a week. I still love her but i just feel like i want to chill with my friends for a while then i get over it and i chill with my girlfriend a lot more. Now She is in that phase for the first time in our relationship. Im trying to give her space but shes not understanding it's just a phase and everyone goes through it.

My question is; does everyone here in long term relationships go in and out of the phases a couple times a year or is it a big problem. I can't imagine being with out her i love her very much im hoping it's just a phase.

2007-01-08 13:42:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

to make things brief, my bf & i broke up about 6 months ago, but we both couldnt let go- we loved each other too much. we are finally starting to talk again and considering getting back together

but both of us have really changed over these months, and although there is conversation when were together, there are also a lot of awkward pauses. i dont think this is an indication that we wouldnt work, i just think were not yet used to each other like we used to be

I cant fill the pauses with telling him what ive been up to these 6 months and neither can he, bc but we both tried dating other people (etc), and thats hardly a good topic starter for a reconciling couple

so how do i avoid the awkward pauses? every pause makes me less hopeful for our relationship..

and what can i talk to him about? hes artsy, reads the ny times, is really into politics, likes partying, etc.. if those details help at all...

thanks so much.

2007-01-08 13:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

she calls me her boo boo and she wants a nickname . please help me

2007-01-08 13:33:13 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1

Answer seriously.

2007-01-08 13:23:43 · 25 answers · asked by Rick James 1

Stephen John Mielke. I need to locate him to relinquish his parental rights. He has never seen my daughter and she is now 10. My husband really wants to adopt her but we cannot locate him. The county child support office has not been able to locate him in over three years! He has 3 younger siblings, Laura, Andy, and Amy, and his mothers name is Pat. He is from Minnesota and we are NOT looking for any money we just need a current address so my husband can adopt my daughter. If you know him or his siblings please please help. Thank you.

2007-01-08 13:15:14 · 4 answers · asked by momof3 2

Once again, I took back the father of my only 2 children. He keeps comming back to me. I have never loved anyone else. I let him live with us again, because he really had no where to go, and this man still, once again, disrespected me by e-mailing his ex girlfriend on my computer, then, hiding in my bathroom and calling her on his cell phone to plead with her to respond to the e-mail he sent her. So, I told him he had to leave. Now I feel bad. I know I should not feel bad, everytime I let him into my life, it's good for a while, but he just keeps doing innapropriate things. I put up with it and say nothing at first, but It eats away at me. So, my question is: Should I feel bad that I kicked him out again?

2007-01-08 12:55:11 · 22 answers · asked by tootrue66 1

My mom or dad's cell phone rings whilst she/he's driving. She/he passes it to me to check the caller ID (was expecting my brother's text message/call to pick him from the mall) Of course the ID nbr. would be completely unfamiliar to me since it wasn't my brother's. Besides, it was a text. Suddenly, my parent asked for the cell phone to be handed back to her/him, and I did. I only saw the (nice) number (long distance) and remembered it. Then when she/he asked "who was that from" and the quick answer was "an insurance agent" . I felt very suspicious. Should you try calling that number to find out if the parent is up to no good or "playing" hooky ? Or better to just leave it. help... what's the best thing to do now?

2007-01-08 12:49:09 · 4 answers · asked by PikC 5

should i ask him it might rewen are good frienship is it worth the risk of my asking him out!!

2007-01-08 12:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by TEIRRA 4

What do you get a guy for their 16th bday... hes a guy i kina am talking to and he have dated b4 so i want it to be something sweet because he got me a cute teddy bear for my bday! so any ideas?

2007-01-08 12:37:38 · 12 answers · asked by Sendy S 1

My husband's daughter is so disrespectful. She is almost 22, married to a creep that doesn't work, & has a 3 year old. She is an LPN & makes pretty good $$$.

Husband is a bipolar ADHD kind of guy - can't hold a job, has tried to get disability - he is almost 22. She takes the 3 year old to daycare because she doesn't trust him to watch her.
They both have cell phones. They eat out because they claim they don't know how to cook. They both smoke & drink. There is a $100 cable pkg in their trailer so he has something to do during the day.
She has left us msgs asking for money to pay her utility bills - she says they will accept a credit card. We refuse to pay her bills. She expects dad to drive 200 miles to come & see her, but she wouldn't drive 15 miles on Christmas day to spend an hour with him.
I am really losing it when it comes to this selfish kid. Dad would rather I dealt with her so he doesn't look like the bad guy, & that's fine, but I am going to let her know what I think.

2007-01-08 12:18:24 · 8 answers · asked by Troy 3

I know the boy sence three grade

2007-01-08 12:12:10 · 7 answers · asked by danasiadavis 1

i have a boyfriend and i reallllllllllly like him, but then theres my x-boyfriend who calls me everyday and hes like my best friend and i think im starting to like him again!last time we went together we was together for 7 months then we broke up, then we got back together for 2 more months,then broke up and now hes telling me he loves me and he wants to marry me and i dont kno what to do because i kinda do love him,and i havent even TOLD him that i have a BOYFRIEND!!!!i dont kno what to do

2007-01-08 12:09:38 · 15 answers · asked by Jasmin 2

I'm 15 and i really like this guy but i don't know how to go up to him and say hi or to get him to notice me. what would can i do to impress him and stuff like that.
WHAT CAN I DO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-08 12:04:25 · 5 answers · asked by sk8er girl 1

Hey Everyone; I'm a 26 year old gay man, and i have only told a couple of people. I'm really afraid to tell all my family and friends. I think that they will be mad and no longer love me. I'm really scared. I want to live my life, and i'm under so much pressure. should i tell my family and friends, or should i keep it to myself. It just keeps getting worse as i get older. I'm tired of the "why are you not married yet" question. Any thoughts on what to do if you were in my shoes????? Should i come out and live my life as an openly gay man?? Thanks

2007-01-08 12:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by nwr1192 1

I recently split with my bf as he has started a new job&didnt have much time 2 see me&because he was always so busy i hardly heard from him.This got me thinkin he had gone off me&i felt like he didnt care anymore.we ended up splitting up even tho before he started to new job our relationship was amazing, we never argued & was really happy. I just couldnt handle the way things went,the thought of him not caring made me really unhappy.We have had about 6 weeks apart,we met up last week and talked about the situation.we both want2get back together but he is even more busy this year so i would probably only see him once a week&i wouldnt hear from him often as the hours he works are long.. I am worried that if we get back together i again will feel uncared 4,which may lead to me feeling unhappy,i used to ask if he had gone off me which led to a argument cos i didnt believe it was just cos he was so busy.shall i get back with him and put up with only seeing him once a week?

2007-01-08 11:59:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-08 11:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by concerned mother 1

give me 3 good reasons to stay on here.............

2007-01-08 11:46:43 · 13 answers · asked by Tony D 2

Just looking for suggestions for small peace offering gift after having an argument with your boyfriend. He's really into cars and electronics but I'm just looking for something small nothing too flashy just something that says I'm sorry, forgive me, lol

2007-01-08 11:40:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 la 3 gym 4 history 5science 6 reading 7 math

witch class should i ask the boy i really like
6 i site right next to him

2007-01-08 11:36:51 · 2 answers · asked by TEIRRA 4

you all anserd my qestion now i think i am going to ask him out what should i say i realy realy like him a hole lot i mean alot what should i say to him how should i ask him out? help me!! what should i say

2007-01-08 11:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by TEIRRA 4

if it pronounciation then whats the difference?

2007-01-08 11:28:12 · 8 answers · asked by innocent1 1

bossy,gives silent treatment. when he wants something all of a sudden he is in a good mood.

2007-01-08 11:25:46 · 23 answers · asked by tag_along37 2

school so hard.I'M TIRED of trying.there is never progress i fail everytime. I'm thinking of dropping out of school.I hate when people say try!It's like they just use that word as a pass or something.It's Very DEPRESSING!

only if suicide wasn't a sin.

2007-01-08 11:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have my baby father's name (Resse) on my arm in chinese writing and my mom says i'm crazy but if nobody knows what it means then they won't have any questions. Do you think that was a bad idea because i do love him and i plan to name our child after him so it's still not a stupid thing.

2007-01-08 11:14:17 · 11 answers · asked by Zy'rellie 1

2007-01-08 11:10:52 · 3 answers · asked by thnksfrthmmrs92 1

I mean on a regular basis too. I sleep in my panties and a t-shirt, Unless I fall asleep after ***.

2007-01-08 11:08:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal for a male teacher to give his 14 year old student a back rub? It's gross don't know if he molests children he might have kiddie porn on his computer his face is always bright pink and his room smells gross his he doing what i think he is???
If I tell knowbody would care cuz they all like him hes known as a good teacher so they won't care now what?

2007-01-08 11:05:33 · 22 answers · asked by Aj 2

2007-01-08 11:05:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous