what's a way to find out if you partner is cheating?

Answer 1

If there is a shred of doubt, there's something amiss...

Answer 2

There are all kinds of ways. Investigators, snooping, sneaking around behind his back.

Does that sound fun? Probably not. I'd venture that he's doing something to make you think he's cheating.

So who cares? Do you trust him? If you do then let it go. Would you rather trust your man and be happy or doubt your man and be miserable. You can live any way you want - it's your choice.

So you check his emails and all that stuff - send out a private investigator. Hey, maybe you can even get his email password and find out who's sending him emails. Well, you have just:

1. Drawn an incredible amount of negativity into your environment and into your relationship.
2. Proven that you do not trust yourself, because if you did you'd trust him.
3. Spent - hell, wasted - a lot of time, energy, and possibly even money.
4. Run the risk of scaring him off when he finds out that you are snooping.

So don't do it. If you doubt him, then break up and move on. Get yourself out of this rut - but I guarantee you that the next person you get together with will be suspicious, and raise the same questions. Until you take care of yourself you cannot take care of your external environment, because you are projecting your perceived limitations onto others, in this case your boyfriend (I'm assuming this is your boyfriend. If it's your husband then you'd REALLY better start trusting).

FP

Answer 3

As the village elder, I'm often asked this question by young women, and this is the answer I give them. As soon as your man walks into the door, this is what I want you to do. Drop to your knees, and start giving him head. Don't allow him to shower or do anything, just whip it out and start suckin' like there's no tommorrow. If your partner's meatstick tastes like a fishstick, or smells like an Italian whorehouse, you know he's been cheatin'. If not, you're in the clear! If he's cheating on you, this will enable you to twist his testicles off. If he's true, then, well, you've just thanked him for his fidelity!

Answer 4

All the evidence will be right there in front of you. He will change his routine, maybe start coming home from work later and later, not call you as much or on time. He might start trying to look alot better before leaving the house.

Answer 5

You ask them & you pay attention to the signs.

There are always signs and either the cheater explains them away or the person being cheated on rationalizes the signs.

Answer 6

Try. I think its www.spywear.com My BF sent me a link once where you can get clothing as a gift that also has listening ie tracking in the clothing itself. That was kind of scary, I did not know what kind of message he was trying to get accross.

Answer 7

Are they acting different? New clothes (underwear especially)? Picking fights with you?

Answer 8

if you really know your man or woman you know how they act talk etc. people start to act funny when they are doing things they don't want anyone to know also you could maybe keep your eyes open for things ...

Answer 9

look around 4stuff**