I still have feelings for my exgirlfriend and i wish i could trust her more. We were on a relationship for 3 years and i did her wrong and then she did me wrong...but after that i changed and expected the same from her, but she just became a totally diferent person. I have lost the trust in her and its been hard ever since... i can't let go of the feeling thats why i still try to be with her, but whenever i get those feeling i get very insecure and unhappy. She always keeps coming back to me and wanting to fix things saying she will change, but at the same time she keeeps messing up.
2007-01-08 08:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by J . B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Having a good relationship is based on each others TRUST. And it seems like none of you have (trust) for each other. Ask yourself whether you're willing to put up with this kind of BS and if so, how long? You will soon realize this is not worth fighting for. Why be with someone who makes you feel unhappy and insecure?
2007-01-08 08:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by ☑ gDübb¹ ® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like 'young love' gone awry! You may continue to have feelings for this girl, but you also seem to realize that it's just not to be. Learn whatever lessons you need to from your past relationship, and move on. You need to get this girl and the relationship out of your system so you can see the other girls that are in front of you. A clean break may be in order, although you don't necessarily need any hard feelings between the two of you if you can avoid it. Take the honest approach and tell your ex-girlfriend that you can't be happy as things are and want to try to move on. You've given it more than a few chances. Good Luck
2007-01-08 16:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live in a fast society (USA) where folks don't put much emphasis on morals. You treat sex too trivial and that is why there are so many broken hearts and minds along the wayside of the streets of America. You have to get back to the basics, where a human being is treated as a person and not to be used as shown on the TV and movies.
Talk to her and start again from fresh if you all can.
2007-01-08 16:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell her! Let her know you still have feelings for her, but that you dont want to have a relationship eith the same mistakes made over and over again. Put the ball in her court, tell her what needs to be changed, then let her make up her own mind. If she thinks its worth you two getting back together, then maybe she will change. But it does you no good to get in an emotional uproar over her every time she messes up. Give her space, and give her time.
2007-01-08 16:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a b/f like that once and in the end, after all his promises and lies, finally I had to ditch him. Luckly he ended up getting married and if I just try to contact him in anyway, he assumes I want him back. I laughed so hard the last time I talked to him and he said that he was married now. I laughed hard and I said like I want that bullet again. We dated for 2 and a half years. I also stated that I had been with my current boyfriend for 3 years. We broke up last month, we had a problem. I'm not good girlfriend material, now.
2007-01-08 16:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with life without her. She is not doing anything to earn your trust again and you will be miserable worrying about whether she is cheating or you will be miserable if she actually cheats. End it now or just prolong the pain.
2007-01-08 16:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it. Been there, done that...believe me, you need to get over her now. It won't get any better.
2007-01-08 16:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like me and my ex. Whats your real name? lol
2007-01-08 16:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand where the question is here.
2007-01-08 16:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋