i think my man is happy to plod along doing the usual stuff pub football trip away once a year - i need some excitment we have been together 6 years.
2007-01-08 02:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you can afford it, you two need to go to one of the Hedonism resorts in Jamaica. if he is not into finding "adventure" with you, thats ok. you have to accept that your husband is his own person, too. you can go and find your own adventure...your own things. just don't involve other men. no cheating or stuff like that. get some friends...go camping with them...go whitewater rafting. grab your car keys and some money and just drive with no destination, find a bed and breakfast and crash there for the night. go sky dive. join a club. buy a motorcycle. explore a small town somewhere. take scuba lessons. be "chldish". do stupid, crazy things like you did when you were younger. try to get your hubby involved but don't resent him if he doesn't. one of the best lessons i have learned is that even being married, each partner can have their "own things" they do, and SHOULD do them. and you shoud both nurture that need, for yourselves and the other.
2007-01-08 02:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by beechjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short! I answered another of your questions along a similar line earlier. If you are bored of life then do something about it - you only get one!
Talk to him about it. If he doesn't want what you want, then you have to ask yourself if you should be together, or finding someone who is more likeminded.
erm...... or depending on your scruples.....just have an affair
2007-01-08 10:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thrash it out with him. Tell him what you want. Differing attitudes to life can cause a big rip in a relationship. Better its broken off softly than destroyed by differing desires.
2007-01-08 10:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by tickTickTICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to say **** it and go some where u have never been before and do things u have never done before! go some where exotic and expensive, a once in a life time trip.
2007-01-08 11:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by kiki_dees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a nice holiday together or are you talking travelling here? Could you find a new hobby (jointly or just for you)?
2007-01-08 10:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a little early (its the 7yr itch) it happens to everyone! 7 yrs you get in a rut and need a change ::::; changing other things in life at this stage can help a relationship( moving home/job/the things you do together ::::: things need re/newing
2007-01-08 10:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to one of the Hedonism Resorts on your own. Tell him you are going to a quilting display.
2007-01-08 11:15:10 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell him this. I bet he wouldnt mind some excitement too. Good luck
2007-01-08 10:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being more adventurous in bed.
2007-01-08 10:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're bored, lets chat sometime. gdsn71 on yahoo IM
2007-01-08 10:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by gdsn71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋