Other - Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

your partner doesnt want to have children while you want
(but except that you love each other very very much and you have a great time together)

2006-11-12 08:00:17 · 18 answers · asked by girl24gr 3

I am in a complicated situation. During June, I met a girl in Hong Kong. We had a relationship. When I came back to Canada , I still called her. We are still in love with each other.

Now the thing is, she was married, but the husband cheated on her with his previous wife. She then left him a year back, now the husband came back and offer her 2 million dollars to stay with him!! The husband has a land in China which worth around 3 millions =$420,000 Canadian$

MY GF SAID NO, because she wants to be with me. She said that being rich is nothing if I am not with her.I am so touched. I told her that I would go back to Hk next year. The husband kept asking her to stay, she said "if my boyfriend isn't coming back to HK next year, then I 'll go back to you", of course, she only said it just to keep his mouth shut.

So you see my problem? I love her but I know if she is with him, then she'll be rich. I don't have 3 millions and I want her to be happy. Should I let her go??

2006-11-12 07:55:57 · 11 answers · asked by Webballs 6

child into adaption if you knew your selves that there is no way that you can give him or her any good future...

2006-11-12 07:44:36 · 20 answers · asked by lolipop 3

in the eye is not enough to keep the pervy old bloke next door from eyeing up my smalls on laundry day.Any ideas what i can do to tackle this embarassing problem??

2006-11-12 07:40:54 · 22 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

I seem to be questioning my friendship with my close female friend.The reasons being is that when I told her how I felt she said no because she didn't want to risk losing the friendship.Other reasons included:

1)Her view of a relationship is what we already do(apart from physical), so I asked would it be that wrong to add the physical aspect to it.She said NO, but that it wouldn't feel right-what does this mean?
2)She said we wouldn't work out as a couple but said she does not know why--has got a feeling,would not even give it a try.
3)Said I'm attractive,but its just ME as a whole that she does not see herself being with.What's this mean?
4)Said she don’t deserve my feelings,someone else does
5)Said I was too easy/available-meaning?
SHE ALWAYS TELLS ME THE TRUTH-WUD NOT LIE TO MAKE ME FEEL BETTER/SPARE FEELINGS,IS ALWAYS HONEST

Not spoken for 6 days now:
What is she thinking\feeling??
Will she get in touch with me?? Why hasn't she got in touch asking whats up??

Advice?

2006-11-12 07:37:52 · 9 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2

2006-11-12 07:28:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I went out with this (self-described) shy guy last night. It was a blind date, 1st time meeting one another in person. He was SO shy. We sat down and it was like he had no clue what to say to me. We did end up having a good time, but I felt like I had to work on getting him to open up and talk to me. He was obviously nervous, fidgeting, etc. I started to think he was "just not that into me." But when the date was over he blew me away with an awesome 1st kiss. It was like night & day.

So do shy guys express themselves better...um...physically? Or what was this about? Help me out guys.

2006-11-12 07:27:49 · 6 answers · asked by M K 2

If you don't believe in premarital sex and your boyfriend does do you think that it is right for him to have sex with another girl because you won't?

2006-11-12 07:24:49 · 32 answers · asked by D'Whannah Lowe 2

I never want to do my homework or chores and I stay up late and can't get up the next day. I don't understand why she even cares. It's my life. I'm almost 15.

2006-11-12 07:15:04 · 6 answers · asked by Aaron P 1

How many of you have a true friend?

Many people say that it is hard to find a true friend and in many lives, someone perishes without even having one...

So, how many of you have a true friend and what makes them so special?...What is a true friend in your own words and do you think you fit that description perfectly?

2006-11-12 06:58:14 · 20 answers · asked by Lina 4

my boyfriend dumped me on msn....[how low is that] this was 4 1/2 days ago....i cried a couple of time and i did stuff with my friends...but it still doesnt help..i dont know how i can i get over him!!!!!!!!! and now he asked out another girl and soo they are going out now and well im not that kind of person to hate him for that or anything but i just hate seeing them together at school all happy and everything... soo what should i do???

2006-11-12 06:52:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

hi, well this is no joke and this is really hard to tell for me, so please PLEASE help me. I'm a 26 year old guy, I had a 22 gf and we split up because I moved to another country. Now something is happening to me, I feel attraction to young, preteen girls. like 14 or so. yeah yeah, I know you're probably thinking "gee, what an animal" , "F.U., pedo!!!" But thats the point, I DON'T WANT TO FEEL THIS WAY!!! It just happened!! Is it normal? Am I a pedo for liking 13 and 14 year old girls? Should I get any professional help? Please don't hate me, because this feelings are against my will and are driving me insane. I NEED to know if its normal or not. Please.

2006-11-12 06:42:47 · 20 answers · asked by BTII 6

My mom is very old fashioned, she believes that the women should do the cooking cleaning and all that stuff so she "trains" me to be a good house wife, on top of that my mom wants me to get my degree in nursing and make a lot of money, and then on top of that she expects me to marry a rich man( or marry for money more than love). Also, she constantly gets mad at me for having a messy room i am almost 17 and she keeps talking about how I am soo messy for a teenage girl (which by the way i honestly try to clean when i have the time) also most teenagers rooms are messy. I believe she got this idea because she is from the philipiens and she had to clean and help support herself at a young age. My older brother was never really home so my parents never got to know how teenagers are. Also, my curfew is 8pm, when all my other friends have a curfew of 11pm. Please if you have any comments on how to get my mom caught up plz post!!!

2006-11-12 06:38:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-12 06:37:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mostly because of using the kids to get what she wants, and at the end she does, all the time. Ideally I would like to slice her head off but don't want to end up in jail. What could I do instead?

2006-11-12 06:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by little_friend 3

2006-11-12 06:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by Joseph J 1

I'd just like eveyone's suggestions for girfts that say "I Love you." It can be DIY...or whatever. thanks.

2006-11-12 06:17:22 · 7 answers · asked by BlondeQT 3

I'm single for 2,5 years. Everytime I try to find a girlfriend everything goes wrong. This must be my 6th or 7th failed try. I'm doing dance classes and I like a girl. When I dance with her and I see how she looks at me I bet that she likes me... she has that look... plus that she likes dancing with me. But when the class ends she avoids me telling me that we will see each other the next time... today for example she said that she must leave to see someone.. I want to talk with her.. but not a chance. A few weeks ago I asked her out and she didn't said yes but she didn't said no. Then, once we met on the street and she kissed me on the cheeks- I thought she likes me... is it just my imagination? I don't know what to do... I know she is single... I wish I could talk with her more... but if she avoids me... Shall I stop going to these dance classes and try to forget her? Please help me. I'm getting really depressed... I thought love finally came to me... I'm just stupid?

2006-11-12 06:13:42 · 5 answers · asked by europe 2

YES YOU WERE RIGHT THE ONE WHO HELPED ME WITH MY QUEST., MY MOM HAS DATED BLACK MEN BEFORE BUT SHE DONT LIKE THE DIFFERENCE OF LIFE, THE MUSIC THE WAY SHE SEES SOME BLACK PEOPLE ACT, BUT YET SHE WILL COME BACK AND SAY THERE IS WHITE TRASH JUST LIKE THERE IS BLACK TRASH! WHEN I COME HOME TO VISIT THEY WANT TO MAKE JOKES ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE, WE HAVE AND WILL 4 THE REST OF OUR LIVES DEAL WITH THE LOOKS AND THE TALK BUT WE CAN HANDLE IT, IT REALLY DONT BOTHER US, BUT I JUST WISH MY FAMILY WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO KNOW HIM FOR WHO HE IS. BUT I'M WILLING TO DEAL WITH THAT TO BECAUSE EVENTUALLY THEY WILL MISS ME

2006-11-12 06:07:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl thts really gettin on my nerves one day shes friendly and nice to me and the next day shes teasin me every chance she gets
wat does dat mean?
wat should i do?

2006-11-12 05:57:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I do my best not to upset her, but she's most of the time unhappy. We fight and then make up. I love her but I can't take it much longer. We talked about it, she says that i shouldnt upset her anymore. I think she's too spoiled. I know it's our problem and we need to talk and resolve it ourselves, but we already did that and it didn't work. Maybe some of you had experienced something like this and have some advice for me. Thanks

2006-11-12 05:50:05 · 16 answers · asked by brr 2

I just so happen to be browsing around on the offender search on mi.gov and I put in an ex's name. I didnt think I was gonna see his name up there, but there it was. In jail for armed robbery. We didnt leave off on good terms but I know he doesn't have anyone else that cares enough to write him. I know I wouldn't scold him or ask "what were you thinking" or saying "I told you so" because that is the last thing anyone in jail needs to hear. Should I write him and give him encouraging words, like keep ya head up or dont drop the soap (j/k)?? but still.. If you were in jail, would you want to hear from your ex? And what encouraging words can I say?

Let me say that I am happily married to a man I've been with for 5+ years and have 2 beautiful little girls. I would not write for a relationship, I would write exactly what I said - encouraging words Please.. serious answers only

2006-11-12 05:48:34 · 17 answers · asked by A.J. 4

Any thoughts on when these might be in a persons life?

2006-11-12 05:34:46 · 13 answers · asked by eagledreams 6

I'm clueless how to relate to my sisters bf so I have no idea how I should write about them, how it is in real life is just too boring I tend to just say hey hows it going? things are good he says then we say nothing simnply because he's my sisters bf and well I find that kinda weird for reasons I don't get. So I need to write this charactor and he relates to me the main charactor so all ideas would help thanks!!

2006-11-12 05:33:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's sister lives out of town. She is his only immediate family. We have been exchanging Xmas gifts for the kids. In the beginning, we didn't have kids--so it was a little easier. Now there are 7 kids, and it's getting hard to find presents--toys are repeating, clothes not needed, and older kids wants being more expensive. What happens is we end up asking what everyone wants/ needs/sizes/colors...etc. Then if it isn't right, it becomes a hassle because we are about a 1000 miles apart. This year I suggested giving the older kids gift cards and that they might like to go pick out something they wanted. My sister in law seems open to change, but said it was too much like swapping money. She suggested to set a dollar amount, buy and wrap presents, put our names on it. I know gift cards aren't personal, but I thought at least they could get cards from favorite stores. My new idea is to a $20 small Xmas gift idea and focus on making each kid's bday more special. Thoughts?

2006-11-12 05:27:33 · 7 answers · asked by crazymom 4

My co workers daughter is in middle school. Last week she was falsely accused of cheating on a test.The teacher humiliated the girl to tears in front of the class, even put her hands on her, the girl walked away, the teacher grabbed her again and tried to reach in her pockets!!!..it turned out she was NOT trying to cheat.There was a conference with the teacher, the mom, the girl and the principal. I asked the mother what she planned to do about it within the school, and she just said "Nothing, we already had a meeting with the principal, I do not want to embarass the teacher any more, I will just leave the poor woman alone" The teacher admitted she felt the girl was cheating but totally denied grabbing her. Other kids in the class did verify the teacher grabbed the girl.After what the teacher did to her daughter, why the h--- is she worried about hurting the teacher's feelings? It was proven that the girl was not cheating, she does not get in any trouble in school, and is quite shy.

2006-11-12 05:19:14 · 16 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3

How to believe again?

2006-11-12 05:05:41 · 9 answers · asked by rochelle 1

I see many good looking women married to fat guys. Why don't they leave?

2006-11-12 05:01:07 · 10 answers · asked by mixle_2 1

my boyfriend just talked to me and said that he feels like the relationship is one sided, like he's putting in effort and im not. the problem is that im in college (he is too) but im uberly involved and don't spend enough time w/ him, im in a sorority, radio dj, work, and homework too, but i need some advice as to what i can do w/ him that will be fun for the both of us, or just how to become more involved in what he does, im not self centered, but im really independent and like to do things on my own. what should i do?

2006-11-12 04:56:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE HELP

2006-11-12 04:40:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous