child into adaption if you knew your selves that there is no way that you can give him or her any good future...
2006-11-12 07:44:36 · 20 answers · asked by lolipop 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Many new parents start out with the fear that they will be unable to provide for their child. Oddly enough, you'll never know what you are capable of if you fail to try. If you live to provide for and take care of your child...you can do anything. If you live to satisfy your own needs and wants, you should put the child up for adoption...but know this...not all homes that adopt children are better than the home they could have had with their birth parents, give yourself a chance to get it right...a life full of regrets is a hard one to live if you give up on yourself and your child...
2006-11-12 08:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would I give up my own child for adoption? If there were no way of providing for my child, it might be the only solution. A miserable mother makes an unhappy child.
Or, choose to rise to the challenge. Many single moms have raised their kids with the help of grandparents. fathers, family members, friends. It is a noble challenge that will make you feel you have accomplished something and did not give up. Try it. Get up and give yourself and your child a chance.
Adoption is a last prayer. ... It would be too late to tell you to have thought of that before you had unprotected sex, but now, learn from your challenging mistakes and grow.
2006-11-12 07:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by dansza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that would very very hard for me to do I try if I have to work 2 jobs or ask my family to help I will never give up my child because a child molester might adapt this child and 19 year later this child will come looking for you and the first thing he will ask you why did you give me up. their help out their unless a member of your family could adaption him until you get your life together.
2006-11-12 07:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal I truely belive in adoption but could I giv\e my kids up No way but I am very proud of those who do so if you know with out a dout that you a comtebul knowing yoiu did the best thing for you child go for it
2006-11-12 07:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by kelly r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truthfully don't think I could do that .
Right or wrong my child is my responcibility .
I couldn't give my children much in material things
but they both got all the love I had to give .
Both of them grew up to be good , kind ,
giving , trust worthy adults .
2006-11-12 07:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
otherwise i would feel guilty for keeping a child for egoistic reasons and raise it in misery while it could have a better future somewhere else
2006-11-12 08:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The child is the treasure. The only truth and real love which you can have in your life. Never give up, even if I have starving to death.
Adoption is just selfish comfort and you never forgive yourself who you lost.
2006-11-12 07:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hardest thing to do in life is to love someone so much that you put their needs ahead of yours. No one can make that decision but you. I am sure it's difficult to search your heart to find out the solution that is best for everyone
2006-11-12 08:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I thought it was in the best interest of the child then yes I would do so.
2006-11-12 07:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I couldn't give up one of my kids. I worked three jobs, at times, to support the kids. Had I been unable to work, I still wouldn't have given any of them up! Sorry! That's just how I feel!
2006-11-12 08:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋